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LaTigresse -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 3:21:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder I don't do the whole trust issue. I just take them for who they are. I know that they will let others down, they will do things that may upset others, etc.. I expect them to be human beings with frailties, egos, problems, imperfections. Yes! This is exactly the point I was getting at.

osf -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 3:22:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right! but online the better and faster typist usually wins Win? whatever the argument was about

AlexCutwright -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 3:25:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kiwisub12 I regard trusting someone I don't know as a full glass situation. Sometimes the glass stays full forever. Sometimes the glass is shattered rapidly - but, it always starts full. [:D] I'm new to the BDSM lifestyle and have little experience, but I have to agree will kiwisub12. Personally, i assumed it was a naivity based on my inexperience, but until a person shows a reason to not deserve trust, i have no reason to prejudice them in any way. Granted though, after the first conversation with a person, their education and demeanor can be looked at to an extent, and the extent of the trust deserved can be gauged. My appologies for randomly inserting myself to the conversation. I hope no one will take offense. heh

osf -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 3:28:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AlexCutwright quote: ORIGINAL: kiwisub12 I regard trusting someone I don't know as a full glass situation. Sometimes the glass stays full forever. Sometimes the glass is shattered rapidly - but, it always starts full. [:D] I'm new to the BDSM lifestyle and have little experience, but I have to agree will kiwisub12. Personally, i assumed it was a naivity based on my inexperience, but until a person shows a reason to not deserve trust, i have no reason to prejudice them in any way. Granted though, after the first conversation with a person, their education and demeanor can be looked at to an extent, and the extent of the trust deserved can be gauged. My appologies for randomly inserting myself to the conversation. I hope no one will take offense. heh it doesn't take trust to extend good manners and civility

LadyPact -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 4:02:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder I don't do the whole trust issue. I just take them for who they are. I know that they will let others down, they will do things that may upset others, etc.. I expect them to be human beings with frailties, egos, problems, imperfections. Yes! This is exactly the point I was getting at. Sometimes, typing speed has nothing to do with it. You luck into those situations where someone has saved you the keystrokes.

DesFIP -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 5:48:49 PM)
Trust comes from having a sufficient history with the other person, seeing that they do what they promised, that their word is their bond. It is earned in increments. Does he show up for the first meet 20 minutes late with no phone call? No trust earned. Does he get there a few minutes ahead so as to be where he said he would be? Small amount of trust earned. Does he call when he says he will? More trust earned. And so on. You prove yourself trustworthy by keeping your word. It really is that simple.

cpK69 -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 7:20:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: I'm hoping it is possible to eliminate the getting pissed; a full frontal lobotomy may help I would think that would hinder the "getting going" part of my plan. Kim

osf -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 7:21:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cpK69 quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: I'm hoping it is possible to eliminate the getting pissed; a full frontal lobotomy may help I would think that would hinder the "getting going" part of my plan. Kim have someone push your wheelchair or wheelbarrow if that's your kink

cpK69 -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 7:24:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: ORIGINAL: cpK69 quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: I'm hoping it is possible to eliminate the getting pissed; a full frontal lobotomy may help I would think that would hinder the "getting going" part of my plan. Kim have someone push your wheelchair or wheelbarrow if that's your kink I don't have kinks. I'm not finding your suggestions very helpful; thanks anyway. Kim

osf -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 7:26:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cpK69 quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: ORIGINAL: cpK69 quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: I'm hoping it is possible to eliminate the getting pissed; a full frontal lobotomy may help I would think that would hinder the "getting going" part of my plan. Kim have someone push your wheelchair or wheelbarrow if that's your kink I don't have kinks. I'm not finding your suggestions very helpful; thanks anyway. Kim maybe after the operation you will, hey, you could be a doormat

cpK69 -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 7:30:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf maybe after the operation you will, hey, you could be a doormat Perhaps I wasn't clear; no operation. I enjoy being an exotic pet; why would I want to trade it for being a piece of flooring? Kim

osf -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 7:33:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cpK69 quote: ORIGINAL: osf maybe after the operation you will, hey, you could be a doormat Perhaps I wasn't clear; no operation. I enjoy being an exotic pet; why would I want to trade it for being a piece of flooring? Kim it's my fantasy, don't ruin it

cpK69 -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 7:38:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf it's my fantasy, don't ruin it I can't consent to that. KIm

osf -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 7:39:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cpK69 quote: ORIGINAL: osf it's my fantasy, don't ruin it I can't consent to that. KIm can't you lie to me?

cpK69 -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 7:41:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf can't you lie to me? And forget myself? I think not. Kim

osf -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 7:43:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cpK69 quote: ORIGINAL: osf can't you lie to me? And forget myself? I think not. Kim your being difficult a very unsubmissive trait

cpK69 -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 7:57:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf your being difficult a very unsubmissive trait I never claimed to be Burger King. Kim

osf -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 7:59:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cpK69 quote: ORIGINAL: osf your being difficult a very unsubmissive trait I never claimed to be Burger King. Kim how about a burger queen?

cpK69 -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 8:10:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf how about a burger queen? I am doubtful that ruling over burgers would hold my interest. Kim

osf -> RE: why do we trust (12/22/2009 8:12:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cpK69 quote: ORIGINAL: osf how about a burger queen? I am doubtful that ruling over burgers would hold my interest. Kim there's also the salad bar

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