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RE: Game players - 3/26/2006 6:53:58 AM

PenelopePitstop

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Sadly, not always.

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RE: Game players - 3/26/2006 8:58:09 AM

Shayna

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My last relationship was full of more b.s. than anything I've been involved with in my adult life. And guess what - I met him through local bdsm events, not online. Meeting someone you are compatible with is a process that involves patience, perseverance and a solid sense of self-awareness. Don't take it so personally - all it means when things don't work out is that the two people aren't right for each other. I'd love to have a crystal ball that told me if this new guy I just met was worth a minute of my time...but that doesn't exist.

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RE: Game players - 3/26/2006 9:02:24 AM

TheBastard

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Concerning those players...especially the females. It appears the site has become more of "I-am-I-hot-or-not" than a meeting place to meet other people in the lifestyle. Gee I feeling bad about myself I could use a little attention. Let's see how many men can email today. Lol then they complain when they get to much to handle.

Case in point ...I happen to flip to this profile. It had a picture of a young lady on it.

I am a very pretty 21 year old, currently in college.
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I've been a very bad girl...isn't there someone out there who can handle me?

I see red flags all over this one.

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RE: Game players - 3/26/2006 9:07:00 AM

Phoenixandnika

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ORIGINAL: MASTERBILLMI

Why are there so many people on this site that seem to be game players? They say they are searching, you take the time to write to them, and not just stupid one liners, and they either don't respond at all or do respond and say they are interested but just play with your mind.

I have to ask why do people think that just because your online or dealing with those who "claim" to be involved in the lifestyle on various levels that all the liars, cheats,players, and simple trolls from your neighborhood will not make their way online as well?

As far as people not responding to emails. It seems like this is a weekly gripe. I think of it like this. Just because you walk up to a Woman / Man at a club or bar and try and start a conversation that they will engage you in a conversation rather than walk away, or if a you give someone your number that they will actually call you or heck that the number is actually a real one.

Why do people think they can demand someone respond to them?

Why do people seem so suprised that there are lairs and players on collarme or the internet?

Why do people lump everyone into the catagory of players simply because they are not interested in you?I know many people on this site who are very much what they claim to be.

Isn't that like calling that woman that walked away at the club names simply because she was not interested?

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