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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 4:55:31 PM   
osf


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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Then why the OP?

You seem to be seeking approval. That may or may not be your goal, but it sure looks that way.

Many of your posts have a " poor me, no one understands me" kinda vibe.

If anyone actualy responds to that, I wonder at the value at that response.

Jeff

don't think i ever said poor me, seriously

and i was curious as to how my fan club would react

to say the least i wasn't disappointed lol

it seems that disagreeing with someones derogatory post about you is whining




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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 5:01:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		So it comes back to my previous post. You come of as a dick. You get the responses you seek.

You intimate that some women have responded positively.

If you walk up to 100 women and without preamble or introduction, ask them to fuck you, SOME will say yes.

The question is, should you then fuck them? I would say not.


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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 5:05:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

So it comes back to my previous post. You come of as a dick. You get the responses you seek.

You intimate that some women have responded positively.

If you walk up to 100 women and without preamble or introduction, ask them to fuck you, SOME will say yes.

The question is, should you then fuck them? I would say not.


Jeff


what if one was the most beautiful woman in the world and she fell madly in love with you and begged to be your slave?

wouldn't that be worth 99 rejections?

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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 5:12:00 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		See?, once again you miss the point. It is not about the rejections. It is about the fact that she would fuck you without any idea who and what you are.

Are you really 65? or do your folks leave the computer on.

I didn't think the concepts I was talking about were that esoteric.

But to answer your OP, there is no CM approval. this can be a rough crowd. Empty platitudes and whining don't get you far here.

In response to my very first post KatyLied called me a baby!...lol

It caused me to sit back, read, and think.

I would recommend the same to you.


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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 5:14:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

See?, once again you miss the point. It is not about the rejections. It is about the fact that she would fuck you without any idea who and what you are.

Are you really 65? or do your folks leave the computer on.

I didn't think the concepts I was talking about were that esoteric.

But to answer your OP, there is no CM approval. this can be a rough crowd. Empty platitudes and whining don't get you far here.

In response to my very first post KatyLied called me a baby!...lol

It caused me to sit back, read, and think.

I would recommend the same to you.


Jeff


if i were to change direction every time somebody called me something, i'd never get anywhere

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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 5:19:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		While I have found all this amusing, I am now convinced you are not at all who or what you claim to be.

I wish you good luck in High School. I hope your grades grant you entry into a good college.


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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 5:20:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

While I have found all this amusing, I am now convinced you are not at all who or what you claim to be.

I wish you good luck in High School. I hope your grades grant you entry into a good college.


Jeff


actually i don't really claim to be anything

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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 5:26:26 PM   
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I would say there will be a few women who will respond positively to his type of banter. I have met more than a few who are essentially passive agressive people who tend to be unable to be jackasses in their own right and depend on latching onto a "misunderstood" individual they pretend to want to save.. but that is only an excuse for them to act in a similar manner without being at fault. Oddly enough people like this tend to be instigators of bad behavior. I think they do this so that they themselves come off as saints for putting up with their partner.
Too much drama all around.

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You intimate that some women have responded positively.
Jeff


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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 5:28:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well one - you are kinda grouchy
Two- you have aggressive farm animals
Three- you hope to entice nigerian slaves with squishy grapes
Four- you say please love me and then f*** off in the same breath, so you are very confusing
Fifth- see one

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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 5:32:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		This is a hiliarous thread. :D Hat's off to the OP.

To all of you participating, conscious or unconscious, thanks much for the Xmas laughs.

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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 5:33:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: wykkidesire2plsU

Well one - you are kinda grouchy
Two- you have aggressive farm animals
Three- you hope to entice nigerian slaves with squishy grapes
Four- you say please love me and then f*** off in the same breath, so you are very confusing
Fifth- see one


i don't know what to say, except WTF

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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 5:34:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CaringandReal

This is a hiliarous thread. :D Hat's off to the OP.

To all of you participating, conscious or unconscious, thanks much for the Xmas laughs.

hear hear lololololol

a glimmer of understanding

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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 5:50:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ahhhhhh I get it, it;s a soshul experimant. You play the idiot, and we all mock you.


well played!


Jeff

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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 5:52:20 PM   
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Ahhhhhh I get it, it;s a soshul experimant. You play the idiot, and we all mock you.


well played!


Jeff


idiot is relative



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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 5:56:17 PM   
Jeffff


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From Mirram-Webster.

1usually offensive : a person affected with extreme mental retardation
2 : a foolish or stupid person

I hope this helps.

Jeff

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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 5:57:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		osf idiot is relative
I see you've met some of my relatives


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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 6:04:03 PM   
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osf idiot is relative
I see you've met some of my relatives



perhaps we have relatives in common

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RE: would i be accepted - 12/25/2009 9:32:06 PM   
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I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt.  And I've done so with you.  You have been given lots of good advice and real discussion fodder.  You consistently choose to not discuss but pick and choose the questions that you can mock  to answer.  Why are you posting here?  When people give you an honest response, you often taunt them.  You say  "oh you don't understand" and put the burden of communication responsibility on others.  It does not belong there.  It belongs on you at least 50%. 

You want to be accepted (I know, you are going to say "that's not what I said" or "sunshine you misunderstand" or " I don't care what you think" )... anyway, you theoretically want to have positive interactions with submissive women.  Be a man.  Not a bully, not an arrogant know it all.  Take people's advice.  Thank them graciously even if you don't agree with them.

And then learn.

It seems your M.O. (modus operandi) is to refuse to take responsibility for your actions.  I can't get past that.  When you do that, I'll be delighted to talk with you again.  You have some interesting ideas (even though you DON'T answer questions put to you)

here is what I see:

OSF:  Make shocking statement.
CM responders:  Respond in emotional manner
  OSF:  Taunt CMRs or say a higher degree of shock laden verbiage.
and it gets higher and higher and higher.

OR

OSF:  Make shocking statement.
CM responders:  Respond with well thought out responses.
OSF:  Taunt CMRs or ignore their posts.


Well, I don't like to be ignored, taunted or slapped in the face with increasingly offensive verbiage.

So I will do the only thing I can do - change MY behavior.

Good luck in your search.

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RE: would i be accepted - 12/26/2009 5:18:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Then why the OP?

You seem to be seeking approval. That may or may not be your goal, but it sure looks that way.

Many of your posts have a " poor me, no one understands me" kinda vibe.

If anyone actualy responds to that, I wonder of the value of that response.

Jeff

Edited cause I type like shit


Well, this is post #59 and I still have another page to read, so yes people do respond to that. Now I have noticed that they don't always respond in a nice way, but to some people, any attention is better than none.


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RE: would i be accepted - 12/26/2009 5:53:58 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Then why the OP?

You seem to be seeking approval. That may or may not be your goal, but it sure looks that way.

Many of your posts have a " poor me, no one understands me" kinda vibe.

If anyone actualy responds to that, I wonder of the value of that response.

Jeff

Edited cause I type like shit


Well, this is post #59 and I still have another page to read, so yes people do respond to that. Now I have noticed that they don't always respond in a nice way, but to some people, any attention is better than none.



most of osf's post run over four pages - granted most of the responses are reactions rather than responses, but you have to admit he gets our attention somehow or another.

have to admit i credit him with not 'playing the game' to be honest. whatever that is down to noone will ever know but his posts have often resulted in some good and interesting posting from people.



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