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my thinking is that lots of words that are used to describe people and activities of people that congregate on sites like cm are used in too many ways to describe anything the speaker wishes it to mean.

i just wish we could bring order to the chaos

it's gotten to the point i don't claim to be anything but a nice guy and creative misogynist

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ORIGINAL: osf

I've been recently thinking of how to describe myself in context of my sexual expression to accurately explain who and what i am and not get lost in the noise in the systen

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ORIGINAL: vincentML

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ORIGINAL: osf

I've been recently thinking of how to describe myself in context of my sexual expression to accurately explain who and what i am and not get lost in the noise in the systen

Why not just be yourself on a person to person interaction? Please explain what system you are referring to. I see very little that is systematic in these environs. Just a lot of people interacting and trying to connect with each other.

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ORIGINAL: osf

i'm not going through a sexual identity crises just a sexual identity definition crises

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ORIGINAL: osf
because of the weather maybe i got too much free time and am filling it up with analytical thought

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: osf

i'm not going through a sexual identity crises just a sexual identity definition crises

I would even say you aren't a real misogynist because you seem to be giving the women's opinions here as much respect as you do to the men's :-p

- LA

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ORIGINAL: QuirkyAnne

I agree with the first point, the second however, I see problems with.  From what I've seen in my exploration of BDSM, is that there are several different "lifestyles" within the BDSM community, from those who live in 24/7 TPE relationships, to those who only engage in this activity on the weekends or at play parties, and those like me who are submissive only in the bedroom.

Anne

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ORIGINAL: osf

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: osf

i'm not going through a sexual identity crises just a sexual identity definition crises

I would even say you aren't a real misogynist because you seem to be giving the women's opinions here as much respect as you do to the men's :-p

- LA

hey, watch your mouth

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i have this strange philosophy own the body, own the mind, use both , so yes i can listen to her advice

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Now I don't want to get into semantics, but for quite a few centuries, it has been agreed upon, at least in dictionaries, that misogyny is hatred, dislike, or mistrust of women. At least in your posts, you haven't been displaying this behaviour. And I'm not actually suggesting that you do.

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hey, watch your mouth

this was joking

i have this strange philosophy own the body, own the mind, use both , so yes i can listen to her advice

this is a hypothetical about any woman i would own

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ORIGINAL: osf

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ORIGINAL: QuirkyAnne

I agree with the first point, the second however, I see problems with.  From what I've seen in my exploration of BDSM, is that there are several different "lifestyles" within the BDSM community, from those who live in 24/7 TPE relationships, to those who only engage in this activity on the weekends or at play parties, and those like me who are submissive only in the bedroom.

Anne

then somehow these should be differentiated

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ORIGINAL: osf

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ORIGINAL: QuirkyAnne

I agree with the first point, the second however, I see problems with.  From what I've seen in my exploration of BDSM, is that there are several different "lifestyles" within the BDSM community, from those who live in 24/7 TPE relationships, to those who only engage in this activity on the weekends or at play parties, and those like me who are submissive only in the bedroom.

Anne

then somehow these should be differentiated

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Clearly, they are already differentiated by the actors doing improvisation on the stage. Have you not noticed there is no writer or director in the play, but free spirits experimenting, exploring, changing, seeking new adventures? To differentiate and place labels on such a dynamic seems to do it a diservice. In fact seems to be a stifling of it and probably not possible or of any use other than an intellectual exercise. Like talking to my hand. You may wish to engage it solely for the purpose of intellectual activity, but I'm afraid there have already been a number of boring books written that have failed to capture the spirit and excitement of wiitwd.

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Clearly, they are already differentiated by the actors doing improvisation on the stage. Have you not noticed there is no writer or director in the play, but free spirits experimenting, exploring, changing, seeking new adventures? To differentiate and place labels on such a dynamic seems to do it a diservice. In fact seems to be a stifling of it and probably not possible or of any use other than an intellectual exercise. Like talking to my hand. You may wish to engage it solely for the purpose of intellectual activity, but I'm afraid there have already been a number of boring books written that have failed to capture the spirit and excitement of wiitwd.

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if you think your a dom/master/sub/slave and only have sat at a computer chatting about it, your not in the lifestyle