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submissives checklist .. - 3/19/2006 9:21:19 AM   
lilmissvalium


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Status: offline 		hi am quite new to all this and a friend has advised me to try and get a copy of a submissives checklist so i can see what sort of things may be expected of me she mentioned that it may have a list of activities and then a check box for me to say whether i have tried , am willing to try or would not consider etc ,,, please Sir (s) can you help ? x
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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/19/2006 9:26:01 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		If you google "submissive checklist" you'll find plenty available to choose from.
And if you are new to this, please do some reading about safe calls and safety in general.

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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/19/2006 9:44:26 AM   
LadyMorgynn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lilmissvalium

hi am quite new to all this and a friend has advised me to try and get a copy of a submissives checklist so i can see what sort of things may be expected of me she mentioned that it may have a list of activities and then a check box for me to say whether i have tried , am willing to try or would not consider etc ,,, please Sir (s) can you help ? x



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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/19/2006 9:08:14 PM   
xxblushesxx


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From: Kentucky
Status: offline 		Well...the lists can be comprehensive.

HOWEVER:

Please do some research by reading true stories, literature and subs; slaves journals and/or blogs before nonchalantly filling out a checklist and thinking everything is covered.

You would be surprised at the things that seem innocent which may not be...

or the way things can be taken out of context.

And once you agree to limits...unless you have a very open and understanding dom(me), you may be stuck with things you never dreamed of.

I'm just sayin' ...

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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/19/2006 9:56:29 PM   
amayos


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Status: offline 		From my point of view, such checklists are fine for one's own morbid curiosity in the beginning as to what activities are basically practiced, though I feel there isn't a single resource in the world that can replace authentic enthusiasm and plain intimate discussion.

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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/20/2006 7:47:30 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: amayos

From my point of view, such checklists are fine for one's own morbid curiosity in the beginning as to what activities are basically practiced, though I feel there isn't a single resource in the world that can replace authentic enthusiasm and plain intimate discussion.


i think amayos is right; the discussion btw two P/pl is what should form the basis of T/their understanding.

candystripper

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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/20/2006 1:52:38 PM   
Takethiswaltz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: amayos

From my point of view, such checklists are fine for one's own morbid curiosity in the beginning as to what activities are basically practiced, though I feel there isn't a single resource in the world that can replace authentic enthusiasm and plain intimate discussion.


I disagree with referring to BDSM checklists as morbid curiousity.
They are invaluable to a newcomer who is genuinely interested in learning what they may be getting themselves into, and assists in deciding whether pursuit of this "lifestyle" may or may not be right for them.  They can also assist in informing a potential partner what the limits may or may not be.
Plain intimate discussion may not work.  I've even had a dom tel me I was being rude by asking what specifically he was into.  Nuff said, there.

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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/20/2006 1:55:47 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Takethiswaltz
Plain intimate discussion may not work.  I've even had a dom tel me I was being rude by asking what specifically he was into.  Nuff said, there.

You wouldn't want to try to have a plain intimate discussion with someone who isn't mature enough for one.

Plain intimate discussion is more than possible for the people who are mature enough for them.

Do you believe everyone who tells you that you are rude when you don't do or give them what they want without question?

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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/20/2006 2:01:46 PM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Takethiswaltz


Plain intimate discussion may not work.  I've even had a dom tel me I was being rude by asking what specifically he was into.  Nuff said, there.


If i can't engage in plain intimate discussion with someone, i certainly would not partake in any BDSM activities.

Neither would i wouldn't ask a stranger what he was into.  That isn't intimate to me; that is a curiosity being fed. 

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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/20/2006 4:09:33 PM   
amayos


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Takethiswaltz

Plain intimate discussion may not work.  I've even had a dom tel me I was being rude by asking what specifically he was into.  Nuff said, there.


There is an enormous difference between plain intimate discussion and a submissive who expects a dominant to spit out a detailed laundry list of "most favorite kinks and perversions" for what seems the gratification of her sorta morbid curiosity—especially when meaningful intimacy or connection has not been entirely reached. It very much has to do with the art of good conversation and building a base friendship. Regardless, I do believe I have, once or twice, been sport enough to reveal this information, even in circumstances where I know the submissive will go up in a puff of smoke and never be heard from again...


quote:

ORIGINAL: Takethiswaltz

I disagree with referring to BDSM checklists as morbid curiousity.
They are invaluable to a newcomer who is genuinely interested in learning what they may be getting themselves into, and assists in deciding whether pursuit of this "lifestyle" may or may not be right for them.  They can also assist in informing a potential partner what the limits may or may not be.


A good point regarding the checklist. Some newcomers may need them, indeed. Perhaps I'm so jaded to these rote methods of communication that I discount their worth to a newcomer.





< Message edited by amayos -- 3/20/2006 4:20:58 PM >

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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/20/2006 4:15:52 PM   
jennalynn


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Status: offline 		In the 9 years i have served within the lifestyle i have never once looked at the checklists.

Time taken, direction received, and general curiosity was all i ever needed.  But yes, if you do a google search, you will find many there to pick from.   Just don't let it scare you... what one may find exciting is anothers nightmare.

jenna

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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/20/2006 4:19:43 PM   
amayos


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

Neither would i wouldn't ask a stranger what he was into.  That isn't intimate to me; that is a curiosity being fed. 



Yes, that's more where I'm coming from.

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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/20/2006 5:38:28 PM   
TheTopHat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Takethiswaltz

I disagree with referring to BDSM checklists as morbid curiousity.
They are invaluable to a newcomer who is genuinely interested in learning what they may be getting themselves into, and assists in deciding whether pursuit of this "lifestyle" may or may not be right for them.  They can also assist in informing a potential partner what the limits may or may not be.
Plain intimate discussion may not work.  I've even had a dom tel me I was being rude by asking what specifically he was into.  Nuff said, there.


On the contrary this illustrates why 'plain intimate discussion' is so important -- and in your case it did work, it illustrated perfectly what type of person this Dom (sic) was.  If he had just ticked of a list or you had quickly run through a few basic questions you may not have realized this until it were too late.


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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/22/2006 9:47:27 AM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		Your checklist should consist of this.

I know what BDSM is and I want to learn more about it................check
I am submissive by nature and want to continue to be.....................check

That's it.........That's the list!      

Now, go out and learn by experiencing the lifestyle amongst friends in the lifestyle.
Got it?.........Check!

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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/22/2006 9:53:07 AM   
cillydom


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Status: offline 		The checklist is the last thing I look at
I’m much more interested in what she actually has to say about why she’s here in the first place
the mind is a wonderful playground


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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/22/2006 9:58:14 AM   
Submotive


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Status: offline 		my Master keeps my checklist and enjoys using it to create wonderful scenes - it's His playground, so to speak.

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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/22/2006 10:46:36 AM   
Moloch


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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/22/2006 10:55:39 AM   
TampaDomCouple


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Status: offline 		The "BDSM Checklist" is a tool, nothing more. I have used them and not used them. I think anything that forces you to ask questions, talk about things you don't understand and examine what your interests and limits might truly be is a fabulous thing. If you would like to check one out: http://www.tampafetishparty.com/writings/bdsm_consent.htm 
If you have questions, we are always happy to share our extensive knowledge.

In Leather,
Robert and Lisa

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RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/22/2006 11:43:51 AM   
IronBear


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Consists of two elements, an experience/knowledge key, and a Interest key:

Experience quick-key:
N/A - not applicable (i.e. CBT for femsub)
??? - No Understanding of this activity
NEX - No Experience
HLT - Hard Limit
EXP- Have experienced
Interest quick key:

0 No desire, don't like, - Hard Limit
1 don't want to do but will negotiate
2 willing to do, but has no special appeal
3 usually like doing, on an irregular/occasional basis
4 like doing, on a regular basis
5 WILD TURN ON, do as often as possible
ALL are by/with Dom, in private, unless noted otherwise.
i.e.
Anal sex: NEX 0 = No Experience – Hard Limit - i.e. has never tried and does not intend to try! (hard limit)
Anal sex: EXP 0 = has Experienced – Hard Limit - i.e. has tried and does not intend to try! (hard limit)
CBT: N/A = Not Applicable (for femsub)
CBT: ??? = no understanding of this activity
CBT: NEX 2 = No experience – willing to do but has no special appeal.
CBT: EXP 5 = Have experienced – wild turn on, do as often as possible.

Anal sex: NEX ~ HARD LIMIT
Anal Play:
-Erotic: EXP 3
-Finger: EXP 3
-Dildo: NEX ~ HARD LIMIT
-Vibrator: EXP 3
- Strap-on: NEX ~ HARD LIMIT
Anal plugs (small) : NEX ~ HARD LIMIT
Anal plugs (med) : NEX ~ HARD LIMIT
Anal Extension (pony tail): NEX ~ HARD LIMIT
Animal roles (pets): NEX ~ HARD LIMIT
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) : NEX ~ 0
Aromas (smell/scented candle): YES
Asphyxiation: NEX ~ HARD LIMIT
Auctioned for charity: WHO ME   HEHEHEHEH
Baby (role play): NAAAA
Biting: YEP
Beating (soft) : AWWWWWWWWWW
Beating (hard) : CATCH ME FIRSTCATCH ME FIRST
Beating
--Flogging: CATCH ME FIRST
--Spanking : CATCH ME FIRST
--Crop: CATCH ME FIRST
--Cane: CATCH ME FIRST
--Paddle: CATCH ME FIRST
--Hairbrush : CATCH ME FIRST
Blindfolds : CATCH ME FIRST
Being serviced (sexually) : BLOODY OATH YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES
Being shared (Dom/me and another): NAAAAAAAA
Branding: GOT TO BE JOKING
Breast/chest bondage: GOT NO BOOBS  NAAAAAAAAA
Breath Control:.WHAT BREATH
Boot worship : BAAAAAAAAAAAA
Bondage (light) : FOR YOU yes
Bondage (heavy) : no way (clasutrophobic)
Breast flogging: naaaaaaaaa
Butt Plug: I’m not a kiwi
Cage: I’d go berserk and demolish the thing
Candles (lighting/dripping): funnnnnnnnnnnnnn
Caning : had that at school
Cellophane (Mummification):  when I’m dead maybe
Chastity belts: wouldn’t fit
Chauffeuring : do that
Chores (domestic service) :do that
Clamps Breast: naaaaaaaaaaa
Clamps Genitalia:  keep the f…. things away
Clothespins :  on the washing line
Club - Punishment/play: I’m innocent
Cock worship : I like it but wouldn’t worship it, you know where it's been recently??
Cock rings: keep the f…. things away
Cock & Ball Torture: keep the f…. things away
– Pins: mega ouch …naaaaaaaa
– wax: naaaaaaaaa
– Bondage: naaaaaaaaaaaa
– weights: naaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Collars (worn in private) : whose master here
Collars (worn in public) : n/a
Competitions (with other Subs, for Dom's attn) : n/a
Corsets (wearing casually) : n/a
Cuffs (leather) : n/a
Cuffs (metal) : n/a
Cutting: been stabbed too mant times
Cyber sex (serving Dom/me): n/a
Cyber sex (serving others) : yer jokin …right?
Diapers (wearing) : a shit
Diapers (wetting) : not senile yet
Dildoes : don’t need one
Double penetration (Dom& toy) : be hard
Double penetration (Dom& other) : be hard
Electro Stimulation: …………………………tingles
E-mail sex/stories (serving Dom/me): naaaaaa
E-mail sex/stories (serving others) : My kajira only
Enemas (for varied fun) : Ooooooooooooohh shit
Enforced chastity :  had that before   might turn Me off sex
Erotic dance (for audience) : cant dance any more
Exhibitionism (friends) : what a cock comp?
Exhibitionism (strangers): male or female? ….heheheheh
Exhibitionism (club): used to be a stripper so I dun care
Eye contact restrictions :  scary init
Fantasy kidnap/rape : rape meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Fear (being scared): I’m that half the time  in combat
Fisting (vaginal) : be very bloody hard
Fisting (Anal) : keep the fist out o my ass
Following orders : what who meeeeeeeeeeee
Foot worship: NO Hard LIMIT
"Forced" homosexuality : naaaaaaaaaaa
"Forced" heterosexuality:naaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
"Forced" servitude :  nope
Full head hoods: NO NO NO NO NO NO
Gags (cloth) : naaaaaaaa
Gags (ball):naaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Gags (cock):naaaaaaaaaaaa I’d bite
Gags (other) :  naaaaaaa
Genital sex : like that yes plkease
Gender Play:
- Trans Sexual: hides
- Gender Change: hides
- Cross Dressing: HEHEHEHHAHAHAHHOHOHOHO
- Forced Feminization: HEHEHEHHAHAHAHHOHOHOHO
- Sissy Slave: HEHEHEHHAHAHAHHOHOHOHO   OMG LMAO
Given away to another Dom/me (temp) : AWWWWWWWWWWWW
Given away to another Dom (permanent) : THOUGHT U LUVED ME
Golden Shower: YUK
Hairbrush spankings : GIGGLES
Hair pulling: NAAAAAAAA
Hand jobs : YESYESYESYESYES
Harem (role play): DON’T CASTRATE ME THOUGH Harnessing (leather) : I’D LOOK SEXY
Harnessing (rope) : PAINFULL
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus): YEYEYEYEYEYEY
Head (rcv fellatio/cunnilingus):  PANTING YEYEYEYEYEYE
High heel wearing : DON’T SUIT ME
Hoods : NAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Hot oils (on genitals) :HIDES THEM
Hot/warm waxing : NO IDEA
Hot tubs (play in) : YEYEYEYEYEYEYEYEYSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
Human puppy dog : WOOF ..NAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Humiliation (pvt/public) : NAAAAAAAAA HAD ENOUGH OF THAT
Ice cubes : WITH  WITH  SCOTCH
Including others :ARE THEY PAYING CASH?
Immobilization (tied up/down) : NAAAAAA
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: NAAAAAAAAAA
Interrogation (role play): NNNNAAAAAAAAA
Inquisition (role play): NNNNNNNNNNAAAAAAAAAAAA
Kidnapping (role play): NAAAAAAAA
Kneeling : TO BLOODY PAINFULL
Leather clothing : LIKE IT
Leather restraints : NEG
Licking (sexual) : YEPTEPTEP
Lingerie (wearing) : HEHEHEHHAHAHAHHOHOHOHO
Maid/Boy: HEHEHEHHAHAHAHHOHOHOHO
Manacles & Irons : NAAA
Manicures (giving) : NAAAAAAAA
Massage (giving) : YEPPERS
Massage (receiving) : YYYEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSS
Masturbation (for Dom/me) : NP
Masturbation (for others) : WHY?
Medical scenes (nurse/patient/doctor): N/I
Medical Sex: N/I
- Speculum: N/I
- Enema:N/I
- Distension:N/I
- Injection:N/I
- Catheter:N/I
Modeling for erotic photo: DONE THAT
Mouth bits : NO
Mummification: NO
Needles: NO
Nipple clamps :NO
Nipple rings (piercing) :NO
Nipple play/"torture" : NO
Nipple weights :NO
Nudity (private): NP
Nudity (around others) :NP
Oral/anal play (rimming) : NP
Over-the-knee spanking:HEHEHEH
Orgasm denial: YEP
Orgasm control:YEP
Outdoor scenes: OK
Outdoor sex :GREAT
Pins:NO
Pain (mild/light) :NO
Pain (severe):NO
Personality training (in scene) :… omg  NO
Pet Role Play:
- Dog:NO
- Cat:NO
- Pony:NO
Phone sex (serving Dom/me) YEP
Phone sex (serving others) :NO
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce):NO
Piercing (permanent):NO
- navel:NO
- nipples:NO
- clit hood:N/A
- labia: N/A
- cock:NAAAAAAAA
- balls:NAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
- other: NAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Prison scenes : NA
Presentation (public/club): OKOK
Presentation (Party): OK
Presentation (private): OK
Pony slave : NO
Public exposure : OK
Punishment Scene :NA
Pussy/cock whipping :NA
Pussy worship : DO THAT WITH YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
Rape (role play): NP
Riding crops : IF I HAVE IT
Rituals: GREAT
Rimming:  OK
Restrictive rules on behavior : NECESSARY
Rubber/latex clothing : WONT FIT ME
Role Play (describe): YOU KNOW IT
Rope body harness : NAA
Scratches: NAAAAAAAAAA
Shaving: WHEN I NEED IT
Sensory Deprivation
- (Hearing): MAYBE
- (Visual):NP
- (Touching): NP
Serving as art :I KNOW I’M BEAUTIFULL HEHEHEHE
Serving as furniture :NOPE
Serving as a maid/waitress: NAAAAAAAAA:
Serving other Dom/mes (supervised) :NAAAAAAAA
NServing other Dom/mes (unsupervised):NAAAAAAAAAAA
Servicing Dom/me(anal): ONLY U
Servicing Dom/me (oral): NAAAA
Servicing Dom/me (intercourse): U YES
Sexual deprivation (short term): HAVE THAT NOW
Sharing Dom/me with another sub: AWWWWWW …. MMMMM NO
Shaving (body hair) : NOPE
Skinny-dipping : YEP
Slave Auction :NAAAAA
Sleepsacks : SILK PLEASE
Slutty clothing (private) : NO
Slutty clothing (public) : NO
Spandex clothing : WOULDN’T I LOOK A TREAT  DUCKY
Spanking :   FUN
Speech restrictions (when, what) : WHATS NEW
Spreader Bar: NAAAAAA
Standing in corner : SUCK THIMB
Stocks : NAA
Straight jackets : NAAAAAAAA
Strap-on-or other Dildoes (sucking on) : NAAAA
Strap-on-or other Dildoes (penetrated by) :NAAAAAAAA
Strap-on-Dildoes (wearing) : NAAAAAAAA
Suspension (upright) : NAAAAAAA
Suspension (inverted) :NAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Suspension (horizontal) :NAAAAAAAAA
Supplying new partners for Dom/me : NAAAAAAA
Swallowing semen : NEVER
Swapping (with one other couple): BEEN THERE DONE IT
Swinging (multiple couples) : BEEN THERE DONE IT
Teasing (being) : GET IT NOW
Training a new sub (help Mentor): YEP
Thumbcuffs (metal) : N/A
Tickling (being): NAAAAAA
Triple penetration (Dom/toys/others) : HEHEHEHHAHAHAHHOHOHOHO
Uniforms : ~SHRUGS~
Vaginal sex: N/A
Vaginal Play:N/A
-Erotic:N/A
-Finger: N/A
-Dildo:N/A
-Vibrator:N/A
- Strap-on: N/A
Verbal humiliation: NAAAAAAAA
Vibrator in/on genitals : YEEEEES
Vibrator anal :OK
Violet Wand (electrical toy) : N/A
Voyeurism (watching others) : YES
Voyeurism (your Dom/me w/others) :DUN MIND
Video (watching others) :FUN
Video (recordings of you): NAAAA
Water sports (shower/tub/waterfalls/exc..play):   MMMMMMMM YES
Water sports (golden&other):NO
Wax play:~SHRUGS~
Wearing symbolic jewelry : DO IT NOW
Whipped cream: LOVE IT
Whipping :NO
Whipping Butt: NO
Whipping Genitalia: NONONOF.....GNO
Whipping Breast: NAAAAAA
Whipping Back: NO
Whipping Thighs: NO
Wooden paddles :NO
Wrestling :YEP

What forms of rewards would you like to get as a sub:
Small "presents" (flowers, etc.): N/A
Extra privileges: N/A
Additional "play":N/A
Personal mementos (Inc. letters/e-mail/pics from Dom/me etc.): YEP
Massages: LOTS PLEASE
Bubblebaths:   

_____________________________

Iron Bear

Master of Bruin Cottage

http://www.bruincottage.org

Your attitude, words & actions are yours. Take responsibility for them and the consequences they incur.

D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F.

(in reply to lilmissvalium)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: submissives checklist .. - 3/22/2006 5:16:32 PM   
MasterBuckeye


Posts: 43
Joined: 9/2/2005
From: OHIO
Status: offline 		I would suggest you go to www.alt.com and on their front page is an excellent check list for all.  It's a great place to find others of like mindedness.  Good Luck to ya.

_____________________________

Master Buckeye

"IGNORANCE CAN BE CURED WITH EDUCATION; BUT STUPIDITY IS HOPELESS!"


(in reply to IronBear)
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