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RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? - 4/2/2006 11:13:22 AM   
MysticFireTopaz


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Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? Or do you prefer sometimes to just play dressed casualy? Subs do you always want to see you Domme dressed in fetish wear before you play? Or do you like the casual or business dress look as well? Just curious.


I like to dress up when going out to a BDSM event, though not necessarily in fetish wear.  When playing at home, I like to wear what makes Me feel comfortable.  I love black or red silky and lacy things

I have owned subs who would have loved it if I wore black leather every time W/we played at home.  However, that is not what makes Me feel comfortable, so that is not what I wear.  

I have encountered a few subs with a professional business dress fetish.  One was VERY disappointed to learn My place of employment is business casual, so I do not come home in a suit everyday,  Too bad he didn't know Me in the 90's when I did, LOL.

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RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? - 4/2/2006 11:40:58 AM   
MistressDiane


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Status: offline 		I love to don the leathers and fetish wear when going to an event but when at home I love the silky, lacey things as well. I usually like some sort of ritual in preparing for a scene and draw out the anticipation by making them aware that "I Am preparing". A long steamy shower, My Coco Chanel and something sexy but comfy and barefooted. I enjoy candles and just the right music. The scent of a woman, a soft touch, a whisper in your ear, fingernails lingering and teasing your flesh before................ excrutiating torture.

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RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? - 4/2/2006 3:10:09 PM   
MisPandora


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Status: offline 		Being dominant is a full time thing, it's not just something I reach into the closet for. It is enjoyable to wear my leather and fetish gear, but not an essential part to the power exchange.  I'm quite capable of domming in anything from jeans to bunny slippers to nothing at all!

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RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? - 4/2/2006 8:06:19 PM   
talmar


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I love to don the leathers and fetish wear when going to an event but when at home I love the silky, lacey things as well. I usually like some sort of ritual in preparing for a scene and draw out the anticipation by making them aware that "I Am preparing". A long steamy shower, My Coco Chanel and something sexy but comfy and barefooted. I enjoy candles and just the right music. The scent of a woman, a soft touch, a whisper in your ear, fingernails lingering and teasing your flesh before................ excrutiating torture.

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RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? - 4/2/2006 8:09:52 PM   
talmar


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Hello. Did you used to moderate at Thor town a few years ago? If so you might remember me as daemon. 

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RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? - 4/3/2006 1:41:12 AM   
mons


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I may have answer me already but well
I will answer it again. I do not wear anything
but stocking and a bra! It is not what you wear
but it more of how you show who you are, the one
in control! If you wearing a paper bag if you
have the right mind set on the submissive
or slave nothing matter. But some do like
the outfit. So it is different for some, no wait
many


mons/jane

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RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? - 4/3/2006 2:07:59 AM   
CantResist


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Status: offline 		I'm a submissive male. I'm sure the pain puppies will disagree, but to me, a woman's sex appeal is my weakness and her most potent weapon. Many of the Ladies have mentioned their preference for lingerie. I have always felt a woman is much more powerful in a short skirt than in all the leather fetish outfits. I do like variety also, but when my past Dommes wanted to get inside my head, they played to their sex appeal and eventually to my fetishes as a weakness for exploitation.

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RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? - 4/3/2006 4:12:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: talmar

Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? Or do you prefer sometimes to just play dressed casualy? Subs do you always want to see you Domme dressed in fetish wear before you play? Or do you like the casual or business dress look as well? Just curious.


I've got a well stocked fetish wardrobe that I love to wear.

I do not always wear fetish wear to play. 

I once had someone go on and on in email about how he wanted to see me in a leather mini skirt and a specific leather top, specific heels and type of stockings.  When he arrived I answered the door in sweats, no make up and my hair in a sloppy pony tail.  My response to his disappointed look was 'this is not burger domme, you do not get it your way.'  He later said it was one of the best sessions of his life.

I once wore only a pair of monster feet slippers for an entire session.

I love fetish wear but don't wear it by default, though.

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RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? - 4/4/2006 7:06:16 AM   
Your Queen


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I am a woman first, my dress is an expression of me.

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RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? - 4/4/2006 10:42:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: talmar

Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? Or do you prefer sometimes to just play dressed casualy? Subs do you always want to see you Domme dressed in fetish wear before you play? Or do you like the casual or business dress look as well? Just curious.




Nope I dont always dress in Fetish wear.I think people would stare while W/we are out shopping,lol
I dress casual at the dungeon depending on the scene for that day.If I'm outside watching them work
in the yard,I wear beat up clothes.

I dont think its the clothing that makes the Dom/me its the attitude.

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RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? - 4/4/2006 11:12:37 AM   
thetammyjo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDiane

I love to don the leathers and fetish wear when going to an event but when at home I love the silky, lacey things as well. I usually like some sort of ritual in preparing for a scene and draw out the anticipation by making them aware that "I Am preparing". A long steamy shower, My Coco Chanel and something sexy but comfy and barefooted. I enjoy candles and just the right music. The scent of a woman, a soft touch, a whisper in your ear, fingernails lingering and teasing your flesh before................ excrutiating torture.


I don't own any fetish wear other than a leather vest that I keep pins on that I collect.

At home, since I'm in a 24/7 relationship I'm just me most of the time.

If its a special scene, I might dress all in black or something that feels sexy to me. I picked a slave who agrees with what I find sexy on myself so I'm not playing into him in any way.

When I go to conventions, munches, and other things I'll dress up if I'm doing a workshop -- I prefer long skirts and soft tops, its sort of my "femme" look but with boots or if I'm walking a lot my birkenstocks, baby. If I'm just an attendee, I'm likely to wear one of my many "kinky" t-shirts and pants, shorts, or a skirt -- not a lot of places to wear these t-shirt where I currently live.

I think I'll start a new thread on what subs wear....


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RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? - 4/4/2006 8:53:23 PM   
MsSimone


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Not sure if Ms Pandora(Hi Pandora!) remembers you but  I remember you! I always enjoyed your posts and questions. Very though provoking and intelligent. Glad you are here!

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RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? - 4/4/2006 9:48:16 PM   
lushusboobs


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Status: offline 		I'd like to have fetish wear but find the cost of it prohibitive.  Also I have to look in special shops because of my size.  I do have a nice elizabethan corsette.  I'm not sure how appropriate it is to bdsm however it does cinch my boobs up to my chin.  I have a sexy pair of long lace up boots that I love.  I'd like to expand on my fetish wear but it just seems so frivolous and I'm kind of a practical kind of girl. 
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RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? - 4/4/2006 11:11:51 PM   
MisPandora


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RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? - 4/5/2006 11:58:32 AM   
talmar


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Thanks Mistress Simone. I always enjoyed your questions & forum as well. It is good to see you here.:)
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daemon,
Not sure if Ms Pandora(Hi Pandora!) remembers you but  I remember you! I always enjoyed your posts and questions. Very though provoking and intelligent. Glad you are here!

Mistress Simone


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