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talmar -> Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 10:57:57 AM)

Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? Or do you prefer sometimes to just play dressed casualy? Subs do you always want to see you Domme dressed in fetish wear before you play? Or do you like the casual or business dress look as well? Just curious.




MstrssPassion -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 11:10:23 AM)

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Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? Or do you prefer sometimes to just play dressed casualy?


No, I do not always dress in fetish wear to play. I have a nice selection of things, but I rarely wear them for at home play.

Yes, at times I will play in whatever I happen to be wearing & many times I prefer to not be dressed at all.





luckyslaveboync -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 11:15:29 AM)

Costumes and gear can be fun, of course. But the plain answer for this sub is that all the vinyled pseudo-dommes (who are clueless about being dominant) in femdom porn sites are a turnoff. And a dominant woman in jeans is all the turnon this sub needs. Clothes do not make the domme.




MochaMistress -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 11:19:59 AM)

Clothes dont make the Domme.
Will dress in fetish wear when it strikes my fancy as with anything I do.
I can be in my Nike's, running shorts, t-shirt and still be TOP.




Lashra -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 11:42:50 AM)

Yes I do because I love it and it makes my sub melt [:D]which also makes me very happy.

~Lashra




jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 11:59:58 AM)

greetings twisted talmar,
of course no-i dont like,to see HER all the time,in top fetish wear and it may even be rare ,because i know her and dont need to advertize ,or loose our privacy and her freedom,IF a SLAVE IS ,TO RESPECT THE GIRLFRIENDS, of the goddess,AND ,who ever she wants ,also respected by the slave relationship ie:FAMILY, AS WELL ;ITS NO stage-PLAY ,AND DONT MATTER WHAT THEY WEAR ,OR DONT HAVE ON ;IT'S YOUR PLACE, TO EVERYbODY she told you to be slave to,
but ,as a slave; i wish, to always wear uniform,or some symbol,of-24/7- life- time-slave- status ,or i feel she can't get the ok, by my non-verbal-communication,
that i am always ready
,however, a top is a top and ,its understood.
EXTREME-EXAMPLE IS:
DONT MATTER IF MY GODDESS IS WEARING SPIKED HEELS ,UNTIL SHE,&,EVERYONE (if she says respect all as an open slave),IN THE HOUSE ....STEPS, ON MY PLATE;
OUT ,OF EXPECTED-RESPECT; aka 'her rules';
I simply DONT EAT, YET....till everyone does walk on my plate,if thats how she wants it...
ONE ,OR MORE MAYBE, DRESSED TO PLEASE ,OR PLAY,BUT , I ASSURE YOU ;ITS ,NOT ME, IN MIND ;BELEIVE ME.
SHE HAS MY FULL-ATTENTION ,AS MY TOP-PERSON ;
DRESSED, FOR WALL STREET ;THE GARDEN, OR PLAY; DON'T MATTER ;IT'S WHAT SHE IS , THAT I WORSHIP[:)]
whatever lucky clothes ,or objects she chances, to wear ,or use;i worship....




Cloudz -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 1:23:45 PM)

I wear what I am in the mood for, for as long as I am in the mood. He wears what he is told when he is told.




yourMissTress -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 1:57:18 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Cloudz

I wear what I am in the mood for, for as long as I am in the mood. He wears what he is told when he is told.



Absolutely!

When going out I'm usually in high fetish mode. Having my own personal fetishwear dress maker, I have so many things that I couldn't possibly wear them all. Dressing up adds to my diva complex and I love it.

When I'm playing at home...I wear whatever I'm in the mood for.




QueenKimberlie -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 2:10:03 PM)

I to dress the so called part... When Im at home and do online sessions I dress up as well but sometimes not so much in domme clothing.... I do make myself look nice I like Miss Tress have so many clothes I cant wear them everyday and still Im always looking for new ones...........




LadyNeets -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 2:28:58 PM)

while I'm at Home I dress comfortable and it depends on the sitation but to Me it's how I feel in My mind is how I let people see Me. When I head out to the club I dress in My Gear. everything comes toghther once I have My gaulants on and heave My flogger in My hand . [sm=whip.gif][sm=crop.gif] if I go out to dinner I make sure look My dommeness and listen to the necks breaking or the slaps of the girls slapping their mans face, but that's another story.



Lady Neets




TheShadows -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 2:52:15 PM)

The clothes don't make the Domme. I wear what I feel like wearing. Simple as that.




MHOO314 -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 4:11:57 PM)

I prefer spontaneity, that doesn't allow for fetish wear---so I am usually in jeans and well manicured barefeet---I actually work in bare feet so I have a good solid stance--but at times when I plan---I have corsets, etc that also work well with black jeans or a nice flowing black skirt---barefoot of course...




talmar -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 4:23:25 PM)

In some of my best scenes the Domme was wearing just jeans & a tshirt. Its really about the compatibility with me not the clothes.




talmar -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 4:24:44 PM)

Very good point.




talmar -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 4:27:38 PM)

Sounds like a good philosophy.
quote:

ORIGINAL: Cloudz

I wear what I am in the mood for, for as long as I am in the mood. He wears what he is told when he is told.





talmar -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 4:30:09 PM)

I always appreciate the fetish clothing when a Domme deides to wear it.




MistressLorelei -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 4:35:16 PM)

When an evening or week-end is pre-planned, I like to wear something that I think looks good on Me, is comfortable, and makes Me feel good. It usually tends to be black and is more of the lingerie variety.

In a long-term relationship, I don't really have an on and off switch, where I would decide what is 'play' time and what isn't... it sort of all runs together, so I would usually end up in just 'whatever', simply undergarments, or nothing at all. Though, I am sure I could certainly make use of a personal fetish wear dressmaker... where do we sign up?





DiannaVesta -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 4:47:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: talmar

In some of my best scenes the Domme was wearing just jeans & a tshirt. Its really about the compatibility with me not the clothes.


You must of done a scene with me. Levi's, cowboy boots and a button down. Dressing up at times with a hat. lol




ShadeDiva -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 5:33:44 PM)

Nope.

I tend to wear breathable cotton. I am also often barefooted.





talmar -> RE: Dommes do you always dress in fetish wear to play? (3/19/2006 5:41:40 PM)

No. But I would be honored to sometime. You are a scene legend!




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