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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 12:20:10 PM   
kallisto


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i think we over rate love as a criteria of a d/s relationship

perhaps contentment should be given more prominence

thoughts?



Who's "we"? You and the mouse in your pocket?

Perhaps you should not lump us all into your thoughts.


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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 12:28:01 PM   
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God..... you have become soooooo squishy.


It's creeping me out.


Jeff


I know. It really is disgusting ain't it.
thank God he pissed on me this morning. Brought me right back down to reality.

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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 12:29:15 PM   
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I feel better now.  Thanks!


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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 12:31:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968


quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

God..... you have become soooooo squishy.


It's creeping me out.


Jeff


I know. It really is disgusting ain't it.
thank God he pissed on me this morning. Brought me right back down to reality.


I was going to say, that you had come a long way from the first post of yours I ever read that said, "..all I want is to be pissed on..."


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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 12:34:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968


quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

God..... you have become soooooo squishy.


It's creeping me out.


Jeff


I know. It really is disgusting ain't it.
thank God he pissed on me this morning. Brought me right back down to reality.


I was going to say, that you had come a long way from the first post of yours I ever read that said, "..all I want is to be pissed on..."





someone has to piss on somebody

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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 12:34:24 PM   
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i think we over rate love as a criteria of a d/s relationship

perhaps contentment should be given more prominence

thoughts?


For some, contentment in a relationship is not possible without love. And of course in many relationships, contentment is impossible even in spite of the love. But in my experience, a successful relationship requires both. If there is no love, I can not be content.


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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 12:40:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: osf

i think we over rate love as a criteria of a d/s relationship

perhaps contentment should be given more prominence

thoughts?


yes love is over rated... sometimes i can not feel it at all
i don't agree with the contentment instead though... too... boring

i go for a mixture of respect and passion

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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 12:42:46 PM   
osf


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quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

i think we over rate love as a criteria of a d/s relationship

perhaps contentment should be given more prominence

thoughts?


yes love is over rated... sometimes i can not feel it at all
i don't agree with the contentment instead though... too... boring

i go for a mixture of respect and passion



it's not an either or question
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i have heard some slaves say love interfered with their d/s dynamic

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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 12:49:40 PM   
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i have heard some slaves say love interfered with their d/s dynamic


not the love, but the D getting to soft with them

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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 12:52:50 PM   
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i have heard some slaves say love interfered with their d/s dynamic


not the love, but the D getting to soft with them


that has a name out of the gay community, dom rot, but they were speaking of love in general, one wished that she wasn't married to her master

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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 12:54:31 PM   
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i have heard some slaves say love interfered with their d/s dynamic


yes i have heard that too but more from doms...
it seems that a lot of subs need to be loved before they submit
but some Doms can't be as 'nasty' as they need/want to be as soon as they love the sub...
odd that

still... respect and passion nicely skirts around that whole problem

ETA am slow today... they can always get a divorce... it is real easy nowadays

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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 12:55:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: osf
i have heard some slaves say love interfered with their d/s dynamic


yes i have heard that too but more from doms...
it seems that a lot of subs need to be loved before they submit
but some Doms can't be as 'nasty' as they need/want to be as soon as they love the sub...
odd that

still... respect and passion nicely skirts around that whole problem


it can be an obsticle

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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 1:21:00 PM   
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i think we over rate love as a criteria of a d/s relationship

thoughts?


If you see love as emotional attachment, then I’d agree; if you see love as the steps taken when another’s wellbeing is imperative to your own; then, no.

The second should bring about contentment, eventually; though it is not always easy to see at the time of occurrence.

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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 1:24:56 PM   
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i think we over rate love as a criteria of a d/s relationship

perhaps contentment should be given more prominence

thoughts?


My owner has never said he loves me in the entire decade that I've known him. I'm certain he's incredibly fond of me, it's clear that he's content owning me ....and it's clear that I'm content to be owned by him. Life with him is ridiculously exciting, fun and has got more so year on year ......... I don't care if he *loves* me ........... I can't imagine what more could be added if he did.

Contentment is in my situation........ it's not how I FEEL for him. I wouldn't use the word *love* either....... it's boring and overused and I can only be sure that I love my parents and my children.

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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 1:58:17 PM   
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But don't slam those of us who do need it and won't contemplate a relationship without it.

Personally I couldn't be content living with someone without love. YMMV

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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 1:59:57 PM   
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i think we over rate love as a criteria of a d/s relationship

perhaps contentment should be given more prominence

thoughts?


May I ask you a question????

Are you married?

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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 2:08:53 PM   
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quote:

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i think we over rate love as a criteria of a d/s relationship

perhaps contentment should be given more prominence

thoughts?


May I ask you a question????

Are you married?


i was and i was deeply in love with her at one time but that didn't last, i never was content with her

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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 2:29:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: osf

i think we over rate love as a criteria of a d/s relationship

perhaps contentment should be given more prominence

thoughts?


May I ask you a question????

Are you married?


i was and i was deeply in love with her at one time but that didn't last, i never was content with her


That doesn't sound much like love to me.

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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 2:31:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: osf

i think we over rate love as a criteria of a d/s relationship

perhaps contentment should be given more prominence

thoughts?


May I ask you a question????

Are you married?


i was and i was deeply in love with her at one time but that didn't last, i never was content with her


That doesn't sound much like love to me.



thats the trouble with love it's a chameleon

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RE: love and contentment - 12/28/2009 2:33:36 PM   
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I do believe you made a commitment with yourself to just get lots of points added to your name, so those new coming to CM for the first time, will think you must know what you are talking about.  I swear it must be trick or treat day here:)

smiling while i wrote that. i love a cosmic irony.

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