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RE: Angry subs. - 1/1/2010 9:10:12 PM   
Lanpanic


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I don't see how a real dom would run =/ My beliefs have always been that respect, no matter who you are, is earned. Not given. You cant expect every single person (especially those who have already had bad experiences) to adress your "majesty" the way you want them to. Quite frankly that reeks of arrogance. Show them why you deserve respect. Don't meet disrespect with harshness. Reminding them of their place may actually make it worse. Try understanding them first. Its worked for me at least.

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/1/2010 9:15:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subangi

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That would be Aerosmith, "Walk This Way" I believe.

zeph

Edited for clarity


Yesssssssss!  Thank you,  it was driving me crazy!


Actually it's Sweet Emotion

I just googled it, and thank you!!! 


Not a problem, I'm just chocked full of useless information...lol

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/1/2010 9:23:55 PM   
lusciouslips19


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Finding the perfect sub here i find like digging for diamonds in Namibia (a enterprise i have had some periferial connection to). You dig out vast amounts of dirt, which you sort, filter and screen. In the end you stand with the wanted gem. No real rocket science in that process. But to actually find one carat (0,2 gram) of diamond you, on an average, dig out 250 tons of dirt.
Perving the profiles i do have my own selfinvented filter. Anybody who have what they don't want in that, is definetely out. Anybody bitching over the amount of mail they get is out. Any form for negativity is out. There is a lot more to that, but it is more on the stuff i am looking for and that i keep to my self as such.
Of course there is another kind of message to send out. The one which is on a more casual level. I would compare it to pub talk in general where i might compliment somebody on something they say, wear or drink, down to the gentle nudge to a fellow and telling him he forgot to close his zipper. I actuately find it rather rude when people don't respond to that kind of message. But it is simple as such, as they never get another one, which probably suit them fine. Life is to short to bother about rude assholes, even if they call them self for quens or whatever they see them self as.
Anyway, happy new year to everybody as i sign of and do the last little preparations before my guests do arrive for the party


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RE: Angry subs. - 1/1/2010 11:23:35 PM   
Aanakaris


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In order to get respect, one must demand to be addressed by the proper title, so many are "Sir" or "Master" in order to stand out from the crowd and receive what you deserve you should try, "Lord Amazing, Super-Ninja, Giant Cock!!!'
Do not forget the exclamation points, three is the minimum to get a true sub to respond.

Also, be certain to send complex and cruel orders immediately, as any true sub will follow any order given by a true Dom. In the true Dom handbook, page 37, paragraph 2, it clearly states this and I am certain you must have the current (2009) copy as the 2010 is still under revision.

*the proceeding sarcasm is brought to you by a New Years hangover that still has not gone away 23 hours after I stopped drinking. What the fuck did I imbibe last night!


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RE: Angry subs. - 1/1/2010 11:26:55 PM   
osf


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Status: offline 		if i never hear the word respect again it will be too soon, it is overworked and misunderstood

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 1:19:58 AM   
WyldHrt


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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 3:23:46 AM   
JBGolden


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Status: offline 		Hey, Respect and BDSM goes hand in hand.. Even Aretha Franklin knows this. Even wrote a song about it.

Why do you think the chorus goes 'Sock it to me' on repeat so much?

< Message edited by JBGolden -- 1/2/2010 3:24:17 AM >

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 4:06:48 AM   
wandersalone


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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23

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ORIGINAL: JBGolden

Hey, Respect and BDSM goes hand in hand.. Even Aretha Franklin knows this. Even wrote a song about it.

Why do you think the chorus goes 'Sock it to me' on repeat so much?


Oh, it must be late and I must be tired, I laughed far too hard at that.



What he said


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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 7:56:58 AM   
subangi


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ORIGINAL: JBGolden

Hey, Respect and BDSM goes hand in hand.. Even Aretha Franklin knows this. Even wrote a song about it.

Why do you think the chorus goes 'Sock it to me' on repeat so much?


and I thought I was the only one laughing at that.  That was a good one...thanks!

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 8:22:13 AM   
osf


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Status: offline 		i don't get the bdsm and respect connection

i could beat someone i don't respect, it's easy, just hit her

< Message edited by osf -- 1/2/2010 8:23:07 AM >

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 8:39:04 AM   
MrVince2010


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Status: offline 		Some people here do have Wisdom to give.. I have enjoyed the replies to my first post.. I have been thinking it over some and learning a lot from other members.  I have noticed that some of women over 50 seem to have lost interest.. Its just a issue with the change of life .. Mother Nature and all.  No ones fault.. Maybe they just need the right guy to change that.  I think the males are the lucky ones, if in need.. Viva Viagra!!

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 8:46:11 AM   
happylittlepet


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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 8:48:54 AM   
SirJohnMandevill


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i could beat someone i don't respect, it's easy, just hit her


IMO, that takes you out of the realm of Dominance and into simple physical abuse. Makes you less of a man, not more.

Jeez, where do you come up with this $#!&? Do the Voices make you do it?

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 9:09:24 AM   
VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: osf

i don't get the bdsm and respect connection

i could beat someone i don't respect, it's easy, just hit her


It's the other way around-when people talk about respect in bdsm they don't mean that the sub has to earn yours...


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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 10:16:24 AM   
osf


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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: osf

i don't get the bdsm and respect connection

i could beat someone i don't respect, it's easy, just hit her


It's the other way around-when people talk about respect in bdsm they don't mean that the sub has to earn yours...



i don't see bdsm as a relationship just what you do

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 10:55:40 AM   
MargueriteV


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ORIGINAL: MrVince2010

Some people here do have Wisdom to give.. I have enjoyed the replies to my first post.. I have been thinking it over some and learning a lot from other members.  I have noticed that some of women over 50 seem to have lost interest.. Its just a issue with the change of life .. Mother Nature and all.  No ones fault.. Maybe they just need the right guy to change that.  I think the males are the lucky ones, if in need.. Viva Viagra!!

The sex drive of a woman can change after/during  menopause, if their drive lessens there are objects that stimulate female arousal too. For a man that is attract to women you don't seem too know much about the female reproductive cycle. That knowledge is pretty easy to obtain.

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 11:10:03 AM   
subangi


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ORIGINAL: MrVince2010

Some people here do have Wisdom to give.. I have enjoyed the replies to my first post.. I have been thinking it over some and learning a lot from other members.  I have noticed that some of women over 50 seem to have lost interest.. Its just a issue with the change of life .. Mother Nature and all.  No ones fault.. Maybe they just need the right guy to change that.  I think the males are the lucky ones, if in need.. Viva Viagra!!
Hmmm,  I will be 50 this year, and I havent noticed a remote change of life...I do require mental stimulation first though...unless I have had a few too many!!!

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 11:17:32 AM   
VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: osf


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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: osf

i don't get the bdsm and respect connection

i could beat someone i don't respect, it's easy, just hit her


It's the other way around-when people talk about respect in bdsm they don't mean that the sub has to earn yours...



i don't see bdsm as a relationship just what you do


What does being in a relationship have to do with respect?


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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 4:55:45 PM   
lusciouslips19


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ORIGINAL: osf

i don't get the bdsm and respect connection

i could beat someone i don't respect, it's easy, just hit her


I wouldn't let someone beat me, if he didn't respect me. I think it would be too dangerous.

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 5:05:33 PM   
osf


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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

i don't get the bdsm and respect connection

i could beat someone i don't respect, it's easy, just hit her


I wouldn't let someone beat me, if he didn't respect me. I think it would be too dangerous.
just because he respected you doesn't mean he knows what he's doing

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