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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 5:26:42 PM   
lusciouslips19


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ORIGINAL: osf


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i don't get the bdsm and respect connection

i could beat someone i don't respect, it's easy, just hit her


I wouldn't let someone beat me, if he didn't respect me. I think it would be too dangerous.
just because he respected you doesn't mean he knows what he's doing


Thats very true. I make sure they have both knowledge and respect.

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 5:30:13 PM   
osf


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i'm not very skilled so i just hit harder

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 5:34:53 PM   
lusciouslips19


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you wouldn't want me to use a single tail on you,i've never used one and really have no interest in one


I tend to watch people first. MAke sure they know what endangerment caution sites are. Make sure I see them at a lot of learning workshops and ask people about their knowlege and character. I dont play alone in private in first play. I Make sure there is a mentor working with a newbie too.

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/2/2010 5:36:30 PM   
lusciouslips19


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ORIGINAL: osf

you wouldn't want me to use a single tail on you,i've never used one and really have no interest in one


I tend to watch people first. MAke sure they know what endangerment caution sites are. Make sure I see them at a lot of learning workshops and ask people about their knowlege and character. I dont play alone in private in first play. I Make sure there is a mentor working with a newbie too.


I wouldnt let you use anything on me as even if you have knowledge, you dont have the other ingredient I require.

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/3/2010 9:53:16 AM   
Acer49


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I have noticed in the personals section. a lot of subs post very negative profiles. The complain about the Doms that are contacting them or otherwise just bitch about the quality of available men.. Further, When you do contact them they seem to reply in a rather matter of fact way. Not addressing the Dom as Sir or by his listed name. Just general disrespect.  Often these are the same so called subs that complain of the treatment they receive from Doms.   I see a lot of ladies that post in Collar that are not subs at all but rather ladies that are angry and have very negative attitudes.. No amout of discipine and correction will help them.. When you are all done You would still have to Run!!


You made this post after being here just two days. I don't know how people have actually responded to you in such a short time, but it would seem to me that you have not given this site a fair shot. As to the negative profiles, Is your post any different?
I am afraid that you are under a misconception that simply because you view yourself as a dominant all submissives are required to address you as such. How do I say this... No, not going to happen. As far as your given name, that would be nice, but even if they don't, it does not mean they are being disrespectful. As to the general feelings of some of the submissives here. Yes, they may be just a bit standoffish, but they have good cause, they have been disrespected in more ways than you can possibly imagine by individuals who got their dominant badge out of a cracker jack box. Is it fair that you have to pay for your fellow dominant's stupidity, no, but that is just the way it is. A good sub does not normally just drop into your lap, it will take time and work. How much time and effort you feel it is worth, is going to be up to you. I have met several who definitely deserve the title of submissive and or slave.

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/3/2010 12:36:32 PM   
JBGolden


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ORIGINAL: osf

i don't get the bdsm and respect connection

i could beat someone i don't respect, it's easy, just hit her


Well, duh. Of course it's easy. For example: I hate Ann Coulter. Would I want to string her up and beat her ass
black and blue with a paddle? You damn right. Would I wanna do anything intimate with her? Hell no.

But just because I can spank a submissive, call them name, do everything that I could think up in my sadistic mind doesn't mean I don't respect her. I respect that she trusts me enough to submit to me. I respect that she'll obey what I want to do (with caveats but we all know this). I respect that this what she wants and is willing to say and show that.

If you don't respect at least *something* about your partner then, yes, all you're doing is beating on her. And really man, you should know better that that's not what BDSM as a whole is all about.

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/3/2010 1:00:59 PM   
drtygrl


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RE: Angry subs. - 1/4/2010 9:53:35 AM   
Knighthunter862


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Status: offline 		Wow Mr Vince you make this way to easy.I hate to sound like im one of them but here goes.Regardless of the type of girl sub slave vanilla there are way too many young Doms who think that you put Mr or Sir in front of there name any woman they approach should drop to there knees.Honesty id get tired of it too and the only real way to ever fix it is for the older wiser Doms to get some of these boys by the shirt and say hey shithead...that way isnt right.Good question tho bro

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/4/2010 10:05:14 AM   
osf


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it's the perfect way to test a D from the beginning (although I rarely realize it at the time). If a sub is rude and the D takes it, puts up with it- I'm still looking 



or the d may think she's not worth the effort and not want to get in a pissing contest with her

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RE: Angry subs. - 1/4/2010 10:45:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: drtygrl

it's the perfect way to test a D from the beginning (although I rarely realize it at the time). If a sub is rude and the D takes it, puts up with it- I'm still looking 


I really don't get your reasoning. To me, first of all there are better ways to find out if a Dom will stick around, secondly, having a rude profile reduces your chances of finding a Dom since the good ones are likely to just pass you over, thirdly why should a Dom have to "take" anything let alone rudeness when there are so many who aren't rude, fourth, you are still looking so how's that working for you?


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