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Frustration - 3/19/2006 5:07:03 PM

Rayne58

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Last night I kicked my right foot on a lounge chair and I've fractured a toe

It's extremely painful to walk and I'm trying to keep off it as much as possible.

So right now out of necessity Master is having to look after me

I'm finding this extremely frustrating! In the two years we've been together this is the first injury I've had and I've hardly ever been sick. He is having to order me to sit and rest, while all my instincts keep telling me I should be doing what I always do for Him.

I'm trying to be good and do as I'm told but still find myself ready to jump up and do stuff........GRRRRR how do I cope with this?? [/end rant]

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RE: Frustration - 3/19/2006 5:19:18 PM

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First, realize that you are human. After you have realized that then you can concentrate on healing your injuries. Most DOM/MEs know that at some point their property will falter in his/her service to them due to injury or illness this is where the care and responsibilty of a Dominant comes it at. Have patience, you will be back to 100% soon. i wish that you get well soon.

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RE: Frustration - 3/19/2006 5:24:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rayne58

Last night I kicked my right foot on a lounge chair and I've fractured a toe It's extremely painful to walk and I'm trying to keep off it as much as possible.

So right now out of necessity Master is having to look after me I'm finding this extremely frustrating! In the two years we've been together this is the first injury I've had and I've hardly ever been sick. He is having to order me to sit and rest, while all my instincts keep telling me I should be doing what I always do for Him.

I'm trying to be good and do as I'm told but still find myself ready to jump up and do stuff........GRRRRR how do I cope with this?? [/end rant]

Bask in the love that he is pouring on to you right now :)

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RE: Frustration - 3/19/2006 5:26:50 PM

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UGHZ! gawwdd do i know how you feel Rayne. I have an ankle problem at the moment, it's not to the point i need medical care...........yet. I limp around alot, i have been able to get all my chores done, AND THEN...........................The Man notices. ACK! lol

I have to sit with ice on my ankle, i have to sit and NOT complain about it, i have to sit and ask Him if i want anything. <i'm mumbling here now>
I hate this, i hate being taken care of this way, i hate being hovered over, i hate that i can not get up, i hate that it feels like i am not serving Him. I'm the one that should be getting things for Him, i'm the one that should be able to just cope with it and move on (ok, i know i have some super woman issues here) and i just KNOW it will all be gone tomorrow (grits my teeth smiling).

I wish i could offer you some advice Rayne..........but here is what Thorns told me: girl? you are My property and ARE doing a service for me by number one: doing as I TOLD you to do, number two: getting better so that you CAN do all the things you do for Me.

<mumbles> when He puts it like that..........arrrrggghhhhh, i know He is right........of course.

Hope you feel better!

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RE: Frustration - 3/19/2006 11:04:23 PM

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smilezz, thank you!

When I posted I was really feeling the frustration but what Thorns told you has hit the mark for me and I will be good and do as I am told

Hope your ankle comes good soon!

IrishMist - There's lots of love going back and forth here, and lots of basking, thank you!

ns - yes, we are only human

Hopefully I will be back on both feet soon, thank you for the well wishes!

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RE: Frustration - 3/20/2006 1:21:22 AM

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Just remember that you are His property, and as such, you owe it to Him to take good care of His property. If He things that you're doing that by sitting and taking care of yourself, then that's what you do! I hope you both get well soon!

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RE: Frustration - 3/20/2006 6:29:22 AM

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One of the hardest things to surrender is the authority over how to serve and be taken care of. Many subs have huge difficulties with this.

Simply take it as life forcing a test on you (as it often does) and learn patience. Remind yourself that you are doing as you are told and if you don't heal yourself, you will make it harder to actually serve later.

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RE: Frustration - 3/20/2006 7:10:55 AM

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Do what pleases him most. It would not please him to see you suffer as you try to care for him. He had told you to sit and rest, it is what pleases him most at the moment. Obey and know he tells you what he does out of love.

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RE: Frustration - 3/20/2006 7:17:54 AM

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get well soon rayne.

bone pain is some of the worst pain one can have

im a RN, i know then a broken toe happens, if you dont let it heal properly, you can end up with a very crooked toe and unending foot pain when ambulating

so bask in the love your Master has for you, He is looking out for your best interests...He wants His property healthy.

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RE: Frustration - 3/20/2006 9:44:37 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rayne58

Last night I kicked my right foot on a lounge chair and I've fractured a toe It's extremely painful to walk and I'm trying to keep off it as much as possible.

So right now out of necessity Master is having to look after me I'm finding this extremely frustrating! In the two years we've been together this is the first injury I've had and I've hardly ever been sick. He is having to order me to sit and rest, while all my instincts keep telling me I should be doing what I always do for Him.

I'm trying to be good and do as I'm told but still find myself ready to jump up and do stuff........GRRRRR how do I cope with this?? [/end rant]

this slave would suggest crawling, without dragging your injured foot behind you if you MUST get from one location to another...otherwise, it will take longer to heal and as mentioned, might not heal properly.

a few months ago this slave was informed by the foot doctor she had fractured BOTH feet, one recently, one awhile back and apparently, this slave thought all that sharp pain was just having genetically over-arched feet and the inevitable damage done through 37 years of walking, running, jumping, etc(of which this slave has always done a LOT of) anyway, and not strengthening the ankles through intense ballet!!! the good doctor said that the more time spent without weight borne on the fracture--the faster it will heal. FOCUS ON HEALING!!!! Master has ordered you to sit and rest, it would be wise to take his advice!!! so instead of sitting there frustrated and antsy, focus that energy on NON-physical activities that promote healing~do you meditate?spend a few minutes focusing a healing white light surrounding your toe, (limited) yoga? do some stretches and upper body positions and breathing, allowed any sort of self-pampering(manicure, facial,etc)?, crafty at all? (now's a great time to get a head start on projects for upcoming holidays!!!) read? this slave can literally get lost for hours in a book!

most importantly, accidents happen, the older we get the longer it takes to heal, and a positive outlook goes a long way in the healing process!!! thankfully, this slave's Master values His property and allows for time and time-outs from required activities for healing.

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RE: Frustration - 3/20/2006 10:05:45 PM

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My ex was a doc, and when I rammed my toes into a chair, he yanked them back into joint. Would that make you feel better? Just relax and let him take care of you for a bit...may all masters take care of cherished property from time to time!

A dog would get that or better. How much more valuable are you to him???

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