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what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 1:31:46 PM

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i'm curious about the many concepts of what d/s is

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 1:35:23 PM

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Would be nice if you tell us your opinion/thoughts also.

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 2:01:48 PM

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Getting head, calling her dirty names, and slapping her ass around. And she should be a good cook. How's about you?

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 2:05:10 PM

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Getting head, calling her dirty names, and slapping her ass around. And she should be a good cook. How's about you?

Ron

sounds ideal!!

can i bring my horse.

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 2:05:11 PM

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Close enough for me Ron.

Btw I had a blow job last year....... Ron, I have to tell you it was EXPONENTIALY better than any blow job I have every had. It was amazing.......

It was a miracle.

I thought of you right after it was over.

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 2:07:23 PM

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Ja, EVERYBODY thinks of me AFTER!!!! Fucking community my ass!!!!!!

Sisterhood.

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 2:29:13 PM

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My concept of d/s? I personally do not like donuts/soda. I MUCH prefer d/c donuts and coffee. ymmv

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 2:37:22 PM

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Hmm...keeping in tune with the thread, I'll give it a try

D/s is giving head and throwing up.....and getting to stop to clean up.
M/s is giving head, throwing up, but having to continue to suck without losing a stroke....

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 2:38:28 PM

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well one of my thoughts is that it doesn't consist of a master and slave

but two people engaged in a relationship that is hierarchical in nature

they may bestow those titles on each or themselves other but they exist only within the relationship

i never thought of myself as a "master" even when i was being called one, but if it got me a bj.........

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 3:30:57 PM

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Simple...

He dominates....

I submit.

I mean honestly...that's all there really is to it.

He leads, I follow.

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 3:32:42 PM

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Simple...

He dominates....

I submit.

I mean honestly...that's all there really is to it.

He leads, I follow.

if it were that easy, everybody would be doing it

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 3:37:01 PM

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Simple...

He dominates....

I submit.

I mean honestly...that's all there really is to it.

He leads, I follow.

if it were that easy, everybody would be doing it

Not really. My experience is that most people have no desire for leading and following.

For me at least d/s IS that simple. He says jump, I jump.

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 3:38:52 PM

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Simple...

He dominates....

I submit.

I mean honestly...that's all there really is to it.

He leads, I follow.

if it were that easy, everybody would be doing it

You know...for some of us it really is that simple.
Not everyone overanalyzes their relationships or has to know the reasons why things are the way they are.

For me the concept of d/s and m/s is that I do what he says.
We have conversations, he knows my opinions on everything, but in the end it is his decision. And I accept it.

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 3:39:16 PM

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For me at least d/s IS that simple. He says jump, I jump.

but why would you want to jump?

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 3:44:35 PM

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For me at least d/s IS that simple. He says jump, I jump.

but why would you want to jump?

You do understand the basic premise of a d/s relationship, don't you?

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 3:45:30 PM

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For me at least d/s IS that simple. He says jump, I jump.

but why would you want to jump?

Because I know how to obey?? <scratches head and wonders why I wouldn't just jump if Master said to>.

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 3:47:09 PM

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For me at least d/s IS that simple. He says jump, I jump.

but why would you want to jump?

Because I know how to obey?? <scratches head and wonders why I wouldn't just jump if Master said to>.

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 3:54:40 PM

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quote:

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For me at least d/s IS that simple. He says jump, I jump.

but why would you want to jump?

Look, I am not going to detail this out, but chew on this if you really need some cud.

Men look at things and see the way they are and say why? I look at things the way they could be and say, why not?

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Why walk?
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If everybody jumped off a bridge would you do it too?
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Why? She said their ain't no fucking why, she just did it.
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Why?
Uncle Frank Hunt (long story)
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Thats whats wrong with all you kids that smoke cigarettes and beer and this here shit, you always ask me, Why? Why? Why?
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they start dyin little by little n piece by piece....
Some guys come home from work and wash up
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Don't know what to tell you kid, do the math.

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 3:59:02 PM

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Simple...

He dominates....

I submit.

I mean honestly...that's all there really is to it.

He leads, I follow.

Hey, I was gonna say that!

Seriously, my submissive love is a strong, independent woman outside our relationship. Inside our relationship, she relishes me taking the lead, whether in play or in our everyday activities. She's told me many times that she's tired of being responsible for everything.

As 'wonder said, it's very simple: I lead, she willingly follows.

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RE: what is your concept of d/s? - 12/29/2009 4:22:29 PM

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i'm curious about the many concepts of what d/s is

Technically I consider D/s as strictly Domination/submission, with or without bdsm. When I am in a D/s relationship I like bdsm/kink to be included. D/s means He has the final word, and that's just the way it is. If He tells me to do something, I do it, or I'd better have a damned good reason not to......like "Sir, I don't think I'm able to walk to the store, I'm in a cast up to my hip," or something like that. He enjoys telling me what to do and expects me to follow His orders. I enjoy being told what to do, and I love following His orders because it makes Him happy.....and therefore it makes me happy too..

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