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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 4:31:12 PM   
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Oh for fuck sake Lucienne, lighten up.



Was it the part where I started out laughing at myself or where I ended with a smiley face that gave away my dark-cloud-frowny mood?

Also, psssst... your gun isn't loaded.



Really don't tell the burglars about my .45. It's always loaded, and fuck the safety, no kids here love, just a hot headed Irish girl that won't be taken advantage of. Picture to soon follow. .


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 4:36:16 PM   
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Oh for fuck sake Lucienne, lighten up.



Was it the part where I started out laughing at myself or where I ended with a smiley face that gave away my dark-cloud-frowny mood?

Also, psssst... your gun isn't loaded.
















Pssst. wanna bet> They all are. Maine chicks don't fuck around hon.


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 4:39:07 PM   
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Damn! My fast reply didn't reply fast enough!

I don't know...........all this woman on woman bickering is doing a pretty good job of showing which gender is best at hating on the female gender.


Ummhmmm...

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 4:45:39 PM   
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Take note, everyone. Here we have a clear example of someone without proper gun safety education.

Gun safety rule Number 1) The gun is always loaded, even if it's not. Never point the gun at anything you don't want to die....not even a camera because you think the picture would 'look cool.'

No wonder the 'gun control' nuts never shut up. They have so much photographic proof of the lack of gun safety awareness.


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 4:49:11 PM   
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I seldom see a word more misused than "misogyny".



Me either. 


It's used too often as a tool to make men/males shut up, or be afraid, or to become ostracized.


Only the pussified ones.


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 4:52:29 PM   
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I hang out with the Goreans enough to know that there really aren't any more or less misognyists over there than anywhere else.

What I have noticed and said elsewhere, is that "extreme" belief systems- extreme political parties, extreme religious groups, extreme philosophies- tend to be a magnet for broken and damaged people seeing their salvation in some Grand Unified Theory of Everything.

So in the BDSM/Gor world, there is in fact a significant number of men and women who are seriously messed up in some way or another operating out of anger and fear and self-loathing.
Good point.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 4:58:11 PM   
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You should attend the Aug. meeting of SCATTT.



I'd love to attend, just for the pleasure of being ignored (such a turn-on!) but alas! I think I have an appointment with a beach somewhere in the Turks and Caicos.

You'll have to amuse your sorry asses without moi.

Tough shit.



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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 4:59:07 PM   
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Damn! My fast reply didn't reply fast enough!

I don't know...........all this woman on woman bickering is doing a pretty good job of showing which gender is best at hating on the female gender.


You got that right, sister. 


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 5:02:20 PM   
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I seldom see a word more misused than "misogyny".



Me either. 


It's used too often as a tool to make men/males shut up, or be afraid, or to become ostracized.


Only the pussified ones.



Stedman Graham syndrome. On a good night, Oprah will let him take his balls out of the vault, and play ping pong with Dr Phil with them.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 5:15:31 PM   
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Take note, everyone. Here we have a clear example of someone without proper gun safety education.

Gun safety rule Number 1) The gun is always loaded, even if it's not. Never point the gun at anything you don't want to die....not even a camera because you think the picture would 'look cool.'

No wonder the 'gun control' nuts never shut up. They have so much photographic proof of the lack of gun safety awareness.


Oh silly Loki I grew up in a military family, I have shot my own food, defended my home and know all about gun safety. Yeah you caught me, I was trying to look cool. Well, at least it's the real deal not trying to "sound" cool. For fuck sake I have at least 8 handguns, a dozen shotguns, I don't even know how how many rifles, and more hours at  the target range than you have probably spent masturbating, so get over my "improper" handling for the photo shoot would you? Unless of course you have a gun like that, then ante up big boy. Seriously they don't call me Annie Oakley because my name is Ann. Is that the best you have, my improper stance for a fucking picture? How cool is that., What do you want next, the SKS or the brand new .357 I just got? Yeah thought so. You go ahead and hold your baseball bat "properly" meanwhile I'll fucking pull a Thelma and Lousie on the idiot that tries to break into my home.      


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 5:19:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think Gorean philosophy is inherently misogynstic, it's androcentric, which isn't quite the same thing: it isn't saying women are worthless, it's just saying men are worth more.

Given that this is not empirically defensible however, means that insights derived from such a philosophy are often going to be equally flawed.

It was, in fact, a culturewide phenomena up until the sexual revolution, and there remain substantial pockets of resistance.

So, while androcentrism is not itself inherently misogynistic - in fact many of our notions of chivalry and romanticism derive from it as well (infantilization) it often leads to what amounts to de facto mindset that closely resembles misogyny - i.e., males tend to worship physical strength over intelligence, jocks are more valuable than nerds (and women often reinforce this), thus a man lacking in physical courage or strength is a "pussy" - although I challenge any man here to squeeze a softball out his ass - pussy is tough - it handles shit that makes cock shrivel - just sayin'.

In any case, it's that sort of stealth misogyny that bugs me, the romantic White Knight, the defender of feminine virtue - whom you will almost invariably discover considers comparing you to a woman the vilest of all the insults he can muster.

But, things being what they are, there are plenty of woman who get a lot of utility out letting men think they're smarter and tougher.

Somehow, it manages to work out for the most part, go figure.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 5:26:06 PM   
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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 5:26:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Seeing as how we're on CM, you may not have such a hard time with the softball-out-the-ass trick.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 5:27:55 PM   
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Oh silly Loki I grew up in a military family, I have shot my own food, defended my home and know all about gun safety. Yeah you caught me, I was trying to look cool. Well, at least it's the real deal not trying to "sound" cool. For fuck sake I have at least 8 handguns, a dozen shotguns, I don't even know how how many rifles, and more hours at  the target range than you have probably spent masturbating, so get over my "improper" handling for the photo shoot would you? Unless of course you have a gun like that, then ante up big boy. Seriously they don't call me Annie Oakley because my name is Ann. Is that the best you have, my improper stance for a fucking picture? How cool is that., What do you want next, the SKS or the brand new .357 I just got? Yeah thought so. You go ahead and hold your baseball bat "properly" meanwhile I'll fucking pull a Thelma and Lousie on the idiot that tries to break into my home.      


And this is the classic response from an irresponsible gun handler. "I have so many more guns than you. Blah blah blah."

Sweetie, none of that matters when you have photographic evidence that *you* provided that says you would rather 'look cool' than practice safe gun handling.

And as for your oh-so-mature comment asking me to ante up: I'm not irresponsible enough to take a photo like yours. Furthermore, I don't take pics with my guns (with the exception of the photo I have of me holding my weapon while deployed overseas, but then overseas everyone had a weapon and we were all taught how to handle them).


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 5:33:48 PM   
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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 5:43:45 PM   
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Seeing as how we're on CM, you may not have such a hard time with the softball-out-the-ass trick.

I SO lubs you, Levelicious!


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 5:50:29 PM   
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Seeing as how we're on CM, you may not have such a hard time with the softball-out-the-ass trick.

I SO lubs you, Levelicious!



I thought there was a thread on that, once, but a search turned up nada, likely because the softballs were unable to give consent.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 5:52:25 PM   
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Oh silly Loki I grew up in a military family, I have shot my own food, defended my home and know all about gun safety. Yeah you caught me, I was trying to look cool. Well, at least it's the real deal not trying to "sound" cool. For fuck sake I have at least 8 handguns, a dozen shotguns, I don't even know how how many rifles, and more hours at  the target range than you have probably spent masturbating, so get over my "improper" handling for the photo shoot would you? Unless of course you have a gun like that, then ante up big boy. Seriously they don't call me Annie Oakley because my name is Ann. Is that the best you have, my improper stance for a fucking picture? How cool is that., What do you want next, the SKS or the brand new .357 I just got? Yeah thought so. You go ahead and hold your baseball bat "properly" meanwhile I'll fucking pull a Thelma and Lousie on the idiot that tries to break into my home.      


And this is the classic response from an irresponsible gun handler. "I have so many more guns than you. Blah blah blah."

Sweetie, none of that matters when you have photographic evidence that *you* provided that says you would rather 'look cool' than practice safe gun handling.

And as for your oh-so-mature comment asking me to ante up: I'm not irresponsible enough to take a photo like yours. Furthermore, I don't take pics with my guns (with the exception of the photo I have of me holding my weapon while deployed overseas, but then overseas everyone had a weapon and we were all taught how to handle them).



Okay sugarshorts. I have no fear that if I needed to defend myself I  wouldn't be able to because I took a cool picture.. Whatever. This is boring, and I don't a fuck. I can and will defend my home and if you want to squabble over my improper "sexy" photo rock on, but hey dude, knock first, or sorry love. Go ahead though, give the bimbo with the dumb picture a try. I was 12 years old and shooting rabbits with a 4-10. Sorry kittin. You know I love you but jaysus, Loki needs a lesson in the Maine Castle Law. Google.


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 5:54:50 PM   
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Seeing as how we're on CM, you may not have such a hard time with the softball-out-the-ass trick.


Okay Level....you first...


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 12/30/2009 5:55:53 PM   
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Okay sugarshorts. I have no fear that if I needed to defend myself I  wouldn't be able to because I took a cool picture.. Whatever. This is boring, and I don't a fuck. I can and will defend my home and if you want to squabble over my improper "sexy" photo rock on, but hey dude, knock first, or sorry love. Go ahead though, give the bimbo with the dumb picture a try. I was 12 years old and shooting rabbits with a 4-10. Sorry kittin. You know I love you but jaysus, Loki needs a lesson in the Maine Castle Law. Google.


Sweetie, I'm from TEXAS. We invented castle law and the 'he needed killin' defense. Furthermore, I made no comment whatsoever about you defending yourself. However, you don't need a photo of you breaking the most basic gun safety rules to show you can defend yourself. All that does is show that you are incapable of safe gun use.

Honestly, I'd expect this kind of posturing from an adolescent male, but not a middle-aged woman.

So sad.


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