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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 2:50:02 PM   
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He's the most influential thinker on ethics of the Enlightenment, and his influence on modern ethicists is almost immeasurable. He's relevant today because his ideas are as powerful now as they were then.


Your opinion. Kant being the most influential thinker.

Just as everything you have said about ethics is your opinion.



Now if you want to have a conversation of opinions about what is widely held beliefs about what are the universal truisms....Like goodness, fellowship etc. Thats another argument. Thats theological. But they still are not universally held ethics as ethics change with the society and culture they are operating in.

You are in no way going to convince me that ethics are in their nature universal. The nature of ethics itself makes that a dichotomy.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 2:50:09 PM   
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The art in my room consists of a framed Japanese screen printing, a few carved African masks, an abacus, things that are tasteful and refined, not crass and commercial.


Ok... I'm going to start working up a proposal to send to Bravo where we do a reality of show of me dragging you into a future that better fits your current perception of yourself. Hilarity will ensue!



I sense a home decorating thread in his future.


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 2:51:47 PM   
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The art in my room consists of a framed Japanese screen printing, a few carved African masks, an abacus, things that are tasteful and refined, not crass and commercial.


Ok... I'm going to start working up a proposal to send to Bravo where we do a reality show of me dragging you into a future that better fits your current perception of yourself. Hilarity will ensue!

edit to fix.



OMG that's hilarious.

I love "things that are tasteful and refined, not crass and commercial."

It reminds me of this. http://oxymoronassoc.livejournal.com/462027.html

Stephenie Meyer is a Professional Writer too. And she gets paid for it.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 2:53:03 PM   
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Will you please stop discussing me in the third person?  That's so fucking obnoxious.

More fun, though.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 2:53:30 PM   
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All the women I bring back to my place say I have a great taste in decor.


Dude that's woman-speak for "OMG you're gay aren't you?"



lol. Not fair! I bet they're just impressed by the absence of a shelf full of action figures still in the original boxes.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 2:53:35 PM   
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universalizability

The applicability of a moral rule to all similarly situated individuals. According to both Kant and Hare, universalizability is a distinguishing feature of moral judgments and a substantive guide to moral obligation: moral imperatives must be regarded as equally binding on everyone. The force of this principle, however, depends upon the generality of the judgments and the particularity of the situations to which they are applied.



Wow!!!!


Now you are the same kinda idiot I am!!!!

Thanks dude for prooving that we operate first by defining things and then go from there.


So maybe you do know what Universality means. You just dont know what defines Ethic's

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 2:55:42 PM   
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Wow, Elisabella, I almost want you to do me!  I mean, profile me by my 'den' pic. 

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 2:55:52 PM   
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It reminds me of this. http://oxymoronassoc.livejournal.com/462027.html

Stephenie Meyer is a Professional Writer too. And she gets paid for it.


Scrapbooking. Lulz.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 2:56:04 PM   
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universalizability

The applicability of a moral rule to all similarly situated individuals. According to both Kant and Hare, universalizability is a distinguishing feature of moral judgments and a substantive guide to moral obligation: moral imperatives must be regarded as equally binding on everyone. The force of this principle, however, depends upon the generality of the judgments and the particularity of the situations to which they are applied.



Wow!!!!


Now you are the same kinda idiot I am!!!!

Thanks dude for prooving that we operate first by defining things and then go from there.


So maybe you do know what Universality means. You just dont know what defines Ethic's


Technically according to him, he's an idiot and you aren't. Because he posted this after "being aware of the dictionary fallacy" whereas you posted your definition before you were so enlightened.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 2:57:36 PM   
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Wow, Elisabella, I almost want you to do me!  I mean, profile me by my 'den' pic. 


That is what I was thinking. Unfortunately I haven't got a parlor, just a nice comfy living room with a really comfy 10 yo leather sofa.


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 3:01:38 PM   
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universalizability

The applicability of a moral rule to all similarly situated individuals. According to both Kant and Hare, universalizability is a distinguishing feature of moral judgments and a substantive guide to moral obligation: moral imperatives must be regarded as equally binding on everyone. The force of this principle, however, depends upon the generality of the judgments and the particularity of the situations to which they are applied.



Wow!!!!


Now you are the same kinda idiot I am!!!!

Thanks dude for prooving that we operate first by defining things and then go from there.


So maybe you do know what Universality means. You just dont know what defines Ethic's


Technically according to him, he's an idiot and you aren't. Because he posted this after "being aware of the dictionary fallacy" whereas you posted your definition before you were so enlightened.


ROFLMAO!!!!!!

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 3:02:18 PM   
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All the women I bring back to my place say I have a great taste in decor.


Dude that's woman-speak for "OMG you're gay aren't you?"



lol. Not fair! I bet they're just impressed by the absence of a shelf full of action figures still in the original boxes.



We HAVE lowered our standards haven't we.


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 3:03:57 PM   
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Not at all - unless you make an assumption that the needs of one individual are greater than another's via some other species of assessment, you can safely assume that the needs of all individuals involved are equivalent, ceteris paribus.


So long as you recognize the difference between an assumption and objective fact, I don't have a problem with the approach.

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I don't know quite what the rest of this means - there is always a question of the "the greater good", but typically, this requires some degree of convincing, i.e., argument, that it is the greater good - it's never entirely axiomatic, even though it might be treated as such.


Actually, I would rather argue that I'm both unqualified to determine the greater good, and somewhat ambivalent about its importance in the first place. There is no requirement for ethics to take the good of others into account, either, though one might argue that ethics that don't at least address the matter of how to relate to others is fairly pointless. Any ethic that does take the good of others into account might be more successful in the long run, though, and most seem to favor an ethic that does. Arguably, enlightened self interest and various other strategies can also yield comparable success, but strategies aren't ethics as such (but one can be built on enlightened self interest, certainly).

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I think you may be talking about Les Miserables, and this is exactly the sort of situation that benefits from a cost:benefit analysis - if one assumes that eating enough to stay alive is a requirement necessary for all people equally in order to maintain some level of utility.


It was the furthest thing from my mind, actually.

Utility isn't something I generally consider too much in my ethics.

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In short, in any group of theoretically autonomous humans, the requirement to maximize their individual utility must be assumed to be equal.


Assumed by whom?

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It's pretty straightforward unless you're attempting to fit it into some other meta system - it is the meta system, and you'll find it underlies almost every ethical system in praxis - if for no other reason than any other point of reference is necessarily arbitrary.


Any point of reference, including that one, is arbitrary, yes. You're making it less than straightforward, though, and are omitting idiosyncratic ethos, as well as the ethos of cultures that have overriding values that are not based on utility or equality of import. For instance, there are several cultures where a group (gender, ethnic, religious, whatever) doesn't constitute a significant concern in terms of ethics (heck, even the species barrier itself is an ever-present example that any ethic that condones existing is an ethic that is at least partially agent-centric, etc.).

If you want to discuss the strategic aspects of human behavior, that's fine. Ethics and morals are implemented in ways that are not exclusively strategic, however, whether individually or as groups, and the theoretic aspect isn't strategic in my view, though those with certain forms will be selected for in a certain setting, of course (hardly a phenomenon that merits covering seperately from the general evolution of ideas).

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I'm not at all sure how you mean it invalidates itself, something can be ethically neutral, i.e., neither bad nor good, here nor there - taking a shit is ethically neutral unless it happens to be in somebody else's bed.


I was misreading your post, I think.

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I never said it couldn't get complicated, questions of group vs. individual utility invariably are - compromising the utility a certain number of individuals might be rationalized if a significant threat to group utility is at stake, war for example - considerably less so if it's merely a question of convenience for certain other individuals claiming to represent the group, group values, etc. - follow it to the fundamental fulcrum of any given issue though, and it's invariably about how costs and benefits are being distributed.


That's more a matter of politics than ethics. And, as I said, utility need not be foundational for any ethic.

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And, on the contrary, unethical behavior is typically self-limiting while ethical behavior tends to maximize group utility - as in business ethics for examples, where enforcable contracts are the foundation of economic activity, or the NAZI's you mention, who paid a heavy price in the long run for devoting critical infrastructure to erdicating the bulk of their trained labor pool.


The Nazis paid a heavy price, yes. As did others. What I said was that there were beneficial, unintended consequences to their actions, as well. Arguably a function of their failure, and of our opposition to them, but also thought well of. The notion of limiting an ethic to one country wasn't mentioned on my part, I think? (If it was, I apologize.) Business ethics... your theory contradicts an observation I've made that much unethical business is between people at an individual level, and these are quite able to get away with activities whose backlash and selflimiting effects tend to land on the business entity they are enabled to act as. Heck, more than one person has pointed out that, clinically, a business entity is essentially a sociopath.

Sorry, I'm getting too sluggish to edit this into a semblence of cohesion, and I apparently keep missing your point.

I may give it another try when I have had some sleep.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 3:07:04 PM   
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I still have no idea


Finally. We have moved to acceptance.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 3:10:16 PM   
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Glad your back Aswad. Very well put, and in a better fashion than I am willing to put the time and effort into.


Thanks. With a three (or is it four?) day deficit on sleep, I'm not sure "back" is the best word for it, though.

I hope you and yours have had a good year's end despite the unpleasant experiences.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 3:11:01 PM   
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I dare anyone -- Elizabella, luscious, anyone -- to translate that paragraph into English and explain what he just said. I doubt any of you can do it.


There is no consistent measurement for morality therefore there is no Universality as things are measured against value judgements and a set of morals, thereby invalidating the claim of universability.

< Message edited by lusciouslips19 -- 1/4/2010 3:12:36 PM >


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 3:12:20 PM   
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Fact of the matter is that an argument against any consistent morality requires buying into a different morality than the one in question. That in itself invalidates the notion of universality, as if it weren't invalid enough to begin with. That a morality may appear self-evidently wrong is not a logical argument, but a rhetorical one, which discards reason as the instrument by which to evaluate it. The only objective evaluations that can be made with regard to any morality, are those which do not depend on anything but the proposition being evaluated and the contents of the morality being evaluated. For instance, a morality can be shown to be inconsistent with itself, but a value judgement as to whether that is a negative thing still depends on a metric, a set of values, and those are assumptions, not objective facts.

I dare anyone -- Elizabella, luscious, anyone -- to translate that paragraph into English and explain what he just said. I doubt any of you can do it.


He said that when judging a system of morality that doesn't contradict itself internally and that uses sound reasoning, the only way to judge it as "right" or "wrong" is through opinion rather than logical discourse. And that it would be incorrect to consider any morality a singular universal morality because if it were an expression of universal values there would be no way to step outside of the paradigm to judge it as good or bad, and that being able to look at something from the outside shows that it's by definition not universal.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 3:14:23 PM   
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Wow, Elisabella, I almost want you to do me!  I mean, profile me by my 'den' pic. 


That is what I was thinking. Unfortunately I haven't got a parlor, just a nice comfy living room with a really comfy 10 yo leather sofa.



Shh...don't feel bad...he doesn't have a parlour either

Post a 'judge me by my sofa' thread in P&ORS and I'm so there!

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 3:17:17 PM   
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Normative ethics are not Universal ethics.

You talk in circles and come out the end the winner. Good for you. Funny thing is you cant be proven wrong is there is nothing scientific about philosophy. Thereby no way to prove or disprove anything you say.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 3:20:11 PM   
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Wow, Elisabella, I almost want you to do me! 


I want to see her do you too.
 
Oh shit, I just elevated this thread into girl on girl porn.
 
Sorrrryyyy. Not.

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