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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 11:50:06 AM   
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Theft is clearly unethical for example: the thief gets all the benefit, the victim bears all the cost - this asymmetrical distribution of cost:benefit is at the core of ethical assessment.


Which, again, relies on a priori assumptions about whether this asymmetry is desireable, undesireable, neutral or irrelevant to the assessment being made. And, as put, it fails to take into account whether the victim shares the assumptions. If I said I would like you to steal the movie "What Women Want" from my movie collection (and, if you lay off the rest, I do...), it should be quite clear that while I bear an objective cost, I have a subjective gain that by far outweighs it, as I dislike the notion of throwing the movie in the garbage (waste not, want not, etc.), but don't want to have it.

In the case of the Ilsa trilogy, I resolved this by foisting it on someone stupid enough to borrow it, simply stating "you won't like it, and I don't want it back, so either throw it away or find another gullible sucker who is too curious for his own good and pass it down the line; you have been warned." That hasn't worked for What Women Want, because no sane person is going to have enough curiosity to want to borrow it, apparently. But I digress.

Point being, if my ethic states that I will consider the long term over the short term, for instance, then a case can easily be made that some actions that are unethical in the short term may be ethical in the long term, at which point one may want to introduce a quantitative assessment, which gets even more complicated and further removed from anything a human can conceivably relate to with our limited brain power. I can, however, say that stealing is likely to prompt a degree of selection for people who are more robustly adapted to thieves.

More interestingly, it is trivial, for almost any action considered ethical or unethical, to show that there is another view which regards it differently by the same original metric, so long as that metric is not artificially bounded (as I posit they must all be in order to be meaningful). This is a property of the self-balancing, self-correcting and adaptive nature of human society and interactions. For instance, WW2 entailed a number of actions that were arguably unethical by most modern standards of ethics, yet it is also inescapable that the same standards can be applied to show long term benefit from WW2, including the formation of those very same standards. Like Democracy? Thank Hitler. Like Jews? Thank Hitler. Dislike despotism? Thank Hitler. Like medical ethics? Thank Hitler. Yet, somehow, I'm not inclined to go off on a round of heil'ing him, and I doubt you are, either.

The thing that makes it interesting, is that your definition essentially invalidates itself, as each action can be shown to be both unethical and ethical at the same time, and if you introduce quantitative measures, then the time integral of that will show that each action leads to a net zero. In short, it can't be objectively valid and ethically meaningful at the same time.

Now, I do derive my own notion of ethics in a particular manner, and I suspect it's beneficial in general.

But this delusion of objectivity and certainty that seems so prevalent is just that: a delusion.

Or, using Voltaire's term for the latter: absurd. You choose.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 12:04:20 PM   
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*Points to Aswad*

This is how you discuss philosophy without alienating people. Note how many times the word "idiot" was used.

I am so tempted to find a link to that old "you are an idiot" site. Does anyone know what I'm talking about? It had this voice singing "you are an idiot" and it was scripted to have your browser keep opening it in new windows.

That site was funny.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 12:21:51 PM   
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Which in their cases, are likely to be dingy little bedrooms, filled with nothing but video games, Star Wars postes and dust.

I guess I'm fortunate the posters don't happen to currently be up. Having a decent binder-ed collection of Star Wars CCG cards in the far corner, though, might put me back in the red, though...



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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 12:30:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika Correction: ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Which in their cases, are likely to be dingy little bedrooms, filled with nothing but video games, Star Wars postes and dust.

I guess I'm fortunate the posters don't happen to currently be up. Having a decent binder-ed collection of Star Wars CCG cards in the far corner, though, might put me back in the red, though...



Huh? You lost me! ;-) I only ever saw The Return of the Jedi when it was in the movie theatres way back when...

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 12:30:12 PM   
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Thank you Aswad [...] Its very easy to see brilliance with lack of common sense. [...] Happy New Year Aswad.


Happy new year, and thanks for the compliment.

Incidentally, I do lack common sense. You have it the other way around. There is a kind of common sense for the brilliant, too, and it could be called conventional thinking, or established dogma, though more flattering terms are generally preferred. The accumulation of vaguely connected but deep thoughts from many specialists in their respective fields is the common sense of the brilliant, and it is as blinding to the brilliant as common sense is to the common (no offense to anyone that might erroneously read a derogative connotation into that word).

Consider the human brain. There are enough experts around that most aspects of it are understood. But there isn't one expert anywhere that can compile all this knowledge into an understanding of how the brain works as a unit. Years ago, someone found a profound and objective developmental difference that is a necessary and sufficient criterion for autism. But nobody has a clue how to go from that known starting point to anything at all. In fact, until the Allen Institute (of Microsoft fame) set out to do a work on a thereto unimagined scale, there weren't even vague ideas around on how to proceed. There still isn't much more than a vague idea.

So, too, with fields such as ethics, sociology, etc., where the same problem exists: the scale is beyond what a human can assemble into a working whole without simplifying to the point where most of the information is lost. I don't doubt that we'll eventually have some more comprehensive ideas to work from, but it will take "forever," and a lot of head honchos that are invested in the status quo will be less than ideally cooperative once their specializations start to get subsumed into larger knowledgebases. Hence, the trend is generally in the opposite direction.

AnimusRex has, as usual, illustrated an important point: sometimes, personal experience will take precedence. That entails mistakes of a more organic nature: some here, some there, averaging out well enough. As a naturalist, I tend to think that if we don't get things right, so long as we don't lose too much diversity, or get too caught up in rigid dogma that has yet to be fully worked out and proven, then nature will get it right for us at some point, and in a lot of areas already has.

Nature has had 200.000 years. Kant had a lifetime.

As such, I think that he may well have missed some details¹.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 12:51:54 PM   
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Correction: ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Thank you pointing that out. Duly fixed.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 12:58:59 PM   
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I'm pretty sure I didn't call you an idiot.  I'm pretty sure I said what you were doing was idiotic.  There's a difference.


You called her an idiot.

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There is a word for people who attempt to win arguments over philosophy by citing the dictionary.  That word is idiot.



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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 1:06:29 PM   
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Elisabella,
 
To the pseudo intellect, and isn't he a prime example, everyone else IS an idiot. Lushy might get an apology, who knows.
 
More likely she'll just get more semantics. Or revelation that his reading comprehension got him a gold star in Grade 3.
 
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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 1:09:38 PM   
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Or revelation that his reading comprehension got him a gold star in Grade 3.


*snerk*

I loled.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 1:12:29 PM   
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Lushy might get an apology, who knows.


I wouldn't hold my breath if I were her though, chances are he will find a way to justify it.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 1:13:44 PM   
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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 1:15:33 PM   
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In fairness you are judging me ENTIRELY by posts on the internet, which is hardly the measure of a man.  In most areas of life, I act in a way that puts my peers to shame.



It is not our problem that your posts reflect so poorly upon you.

Then again, if you do not mind us laughing at you..........then I suppose it is not your problem either.


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 1:19:56 PM   
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Lushy might get an apology, who knows.


I wouldn't hold my breath if I were her though, chances are he will find a way to justify it.

Popcorn? 



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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 1:20:51 PM   
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Those who are trained in criminal justice understand that the criminal justice system operates contra to the very ethic that it promotes.  It's not that the existence of a police force is unethical, it's that almost every thing that police actually do is unethical.  Which is why a lot of criminal justice training focuses on what it means to be ethical, and how one can go about doing the unethical in an ethical manner.  Police work is all paradox.


What the police do is necessary. I'm not sure what, specifically, is unethical about what they do.

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In fairness you are judging me ENTIRELY by posts on the internet, which is hardly the measure of a man.  In most areas of life, I act in a way that puts my peers to shame.


I'm not trying to be glib but it does seem that you enjoy 'shaming' others, and the phrasing of that sentence shows that you have the same sense of superiority when you're away from the keyboard.

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That is exactly the case, and exactly how the law works.  So to claim there is no practical application for this at all is a rather obviously silly claim.  Let's go down to the courthouse and you can tell me all about how it doesn't exist.


What I said was "two identical people who do the exact same thing" - if you show me two identical people, who have identical personal history, who do the exact same thing at the exact same time and location...that would be practical application.

Practical application of the law is "similar people with a similar history who commit similar crimes will most likely get comparable punishment, however it is up to the judge to choose the criteria for determining similarity."

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I'm not claiming a high ground.  I'm only saying that there's a lot of people down in the mud with me who seem awfully oblivious to the dirt on their faces.


It seemed as though you were claiming a high ground when you said you didn't do anything insulting other than the 'dumb bunny' comment.

I can only speak for myself, but when I get down in the mud I'm not oblivious to the dirt on my face. I'm wearing it as a fucking fashion accessory.

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Interestingly enough, your Mary talks like a Kantian.



Then maybe I'm misunderstanding what you're saying, because what you said sounds a lot more black and white than what I said.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 1:21:13 PM   
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Secondly, saying "what's wrong for me is wrong for you too" seems to ignore circumstance. If you're actually saying "two identical people who do the exact same thing under the same circumstance should be treated identically" then yes I agree. Theoretically. Cuz there's no practical application for this at all.


Actually, not entirely true, though he never does get around to that part.

It's easy to get caught up in the problems of categorization and confusing the boxes and labels with what they organize. Agent-centric, patient-centric, action-centric, contextual, deontic, and so forth, are terms to sort things in neat boxes, which- as with any persistent labelling scheme- happens to conveniently work well for a hand-picked sample, yielding the impression that there's proscriptive truth here, rather than incomplete description (bias is wonderful, innit?).

To get to what he didn't say...

You can break down the circumstances until you arrive at one or more abstract rules that describe the "translation" from one state to another as ethical or unethical. To use your example about fucking an underage person vs an adult, we can see that positing the two as one thing is patently incompatible with the view of ethics that originates the judgement that either of the two are wrong. And I don't know about you, but I tend to frown upon one of those, and not on the other.

Accordingly, we can first qualify the notion in terms of it being wrong to fuck someone that's underage, on account of immaturity or inability to make the right call. Of course, we can be clearer about the why's and wherefore's, or about where to draw the line, in which case a self-evident but not necessarily correct argument can be made that we have been adapted to drawing the line somewhere between onset and terminus of puberty, which is not far off from what Scandinavian law uses, and avoids an arbitrary number sneaking in there. It also hints that it may not be immaturity we are concerned about, so much as artificially extended innocence, but that's another topic in its own right.

Then we run into a person that's messed up every which way and simply way past the point where they can make a better judgment than the underage person, so we make a new notion that says we can't fuck someone that's unable to consent on account of being a nutcase extraordinaire. Which resembles the former case, so we can generalize that into two orthogonal ideas: (a) you shan't fuck without consent, and (b) consent only exists when the person giving it is able to understand the implications of doing so.

At that point, you diverge from the law, because some people have fallen off already and simplified it in their own heads, and law conforms to pressure. As far as ethics go, however, it's solid ground so far. The problem is that there is a point in this process where you run into ideas that can't be quantified or reduced, which is why ethics is subjective. I would argue that the notion of "understanding the implications" should be illustrative of the problem in the manner of a house sized can with a glowing neon sign that says "worms" on it. Still, a definition can usually be found with effort.

Now, if we say "okay, ethics are subjective, fine," then everything is dandy. Then we can proceed with the reduction process outlined above until the totality of our morals consist of a set of abstract but evaluable propositions that are built on each other over a foundation of irreducible axioms (atoms). We can introduce a rule that circular dependencies are disallowed, for greater consistency. We still miss the shades of gray, but we can let quantifiable but irreducible elements handle that: gauge atoms, which are the quantified definitions, and gauge arguments, which are used in propositions that involve quantized elements that are treated with non-boolean intermediate operators, but evaluate to boolean ones by the time the proposition is fully evaluated. If the quantization does not result in a smooth space, we can work with a discontinuous one, as well (in fact, that's the foundation of so-called fuzzy control systems, which emulate human control behaviors in robotic and automated systems, like ABS braking), and define our way even closer to the core of our beliefs.

I did this once for a fairly conventional western morality, and incidentally failed miserably in explaining it on the boards, for various reasons. My lasting impression is (a) it's doable, (b) it's not worth it, and (c) it is a mess. Elaborating on the last point, I have never encountered any pseudocoherent thought or idea that had so many buried inconsistencies and sources of cognitive dissonance as in the course of that formal dissection of western morality. I had to throw out and rewrite huge chunks to get a result that satisfied the motivation: a craving for integrity of ethics. But if you ever want to fully codify a moral system of that scale, it is indeed doable, and can be done in a manner that has no conflicts or buried inconsistencies.

Most ethical thinking I've seen anyone put forward shies from this because the admission of subjectivity is fundamental to being able to apply rational methodology and formal terms throughout the entire process. Morality can be phrased in terms of rules that are defined well enough that a human can be consistent about it, and once we get decent AI, if we are able to plug the irreducibles into it, then it will know morals as fully as any human, and probably adhere to it with greater rigour.

I'm not convinced that speaks to the suitability of such morals for humans, though.

In any case, I would call conventional morality amorphous, while this yields a more crystalline morality.

Kind of like coal vs diamond, for better and worse.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 1:23:49 PM   
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Lushy might get an apology, who knows.


I wouldn't hold my breath if I were her though, chances are he will find a way to justify it.

Popcorn? 



Thanks Zeph.
 
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Some old fart probably said at some time that the true intellect has ears as well as a mouth, but I'm not looking it up.
 
 


Hence my suggestion that you not hold your breath, I would hate to see you die, and breathplay clearly isn't safe in this instance.

Not a good example, this one only has a mouth.


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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 1:24:11 PM   
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There is a word for people who attempt to win arguments over philosophy by citing the dictionary.  That word is idiot.


No, I didn't.  Look, it's right there.  Nowhere did I call her an idiot.



Are you seriously going to make me explain this to you?

She is a person who attempted to win an argument over philosophy by citing the dictionary.

You said there is a word for that type of person and that word is idiot. You used 'idiot' to describe 'person' rather than behaviour.

FFS own up to your words.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 1:38:06 PM   
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Lushy might get an apology, who knows.


I wouldn't hold my breath if I were her though, chances are he will find a way to justify it.

Popcorn? 



Thanks Zeph.
 
I would never breath play on this, I will die.
 
Some old fart probably said at some time that the true intellect has ears as well as a mouth, but I'm not looking it up.
 
 


Hence my suggestion that you not hold your breath, I would hate to see you die, and breathplay clearly isn't safe in this instance.

Not a good example, this one only has a mouth.



To be honest Zeph, save the popcorn.
 
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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 1:44:00 PM   
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Theft is clearly unethical for example: the thief gets all the benefit, the victim bears all the cost - this asymmetrical distribution of cost:benefit is at the core of ethical assessment.


Which, again, relies on a priori assumptions about whether this asymmetry is desireable, undesireable, neutral or irrelevant to the assessment being made. And, as put, it fails to take into account whether the victim shares the assumptions. If I said I would like you to steal the movie "What Women Want" from my movie collection (and, if you lay off the rest, I do...), it should be quite clear that while I bear an objective cost, I have a subjective gain that by far outweighs it, as I dislike the notion of throwing the movie in the garbage (waste not, want not, etc.), but don't want to have it.


Not at all - unless you make an assumption that the needs of one individual are greater than another's via some other species of assessment, you can safely assume that the needs of all individuals involved are equivalent, ceteris paribus.

You do have to take inot account market dynamics, supply and demand, consent, etc. - balanced, or symmetrical, doesn't necessarily mean "equal" - when you negotiate to exchange your labor for wages for example, it's a voluntary arrangement: you can charge whatever the market will bear, either party is free to exit the contract if a compromise cannot be reached.

Same thing with a relationship, presumably, the ethics are confined to the members of the dyad, or whatever other number of finite people are involved - the point being, that the ethical impact on anybody outside this group is largely neutral - a typical moral value system, comprised of explicit rules, regulations, etc., on the other hand, will usually have a significantly different take on this - moral systems are almost invariably relativistic.

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ORIGINAL: AswadIn the case of the Ilsa trilogy, I resolved this by foisting it on someone stupid enough to borrow it, simply stating "you won't like it, and I don't want it back, so either throw it away or find another gullible sucker who is too curious for his own good and pass it down the line; you have been warned." That hasn't worked for What Women Want, because no sane person is going to have enough curiosity to want to borrow it, apparently. But I digress.

Point being, if my ethic states that I will consider the long term over the short term, for instance, then a case can easily be made that some actions that are unethical in the short term may be ethical in the long term, at which point one may want to introduce a quantitative assessment, which gets even more complicated and further removed from anything a human can conceivably relate to with our limited brain power. I can, however, say that stealing is likely to prompt a degree of selection for people who are more robustly adapted to thieves.

More interestingly, it is trivial, for almost any action considered ethical or unethical, to show that there is another view which regards it differently by the same original metric, so long as that metric is not artificially bounded (as I posit they must all be in order to be meaningful). This is a property of the self-balancing, self-correcting and adaptive nature of human society and interactions. For instance, WW2 entailed a number of actions that were arguably unethical by most modern standards of ethics, yet it is also inescapable that the same standards can be applied to show long term benefit from WW2, including the formation of those very same standards. Like Democracy? Thank Hitler. Like Jews? Thank Hitler. Dislike despotism? Thank Hitler. Like medical ethics? Thank Hitler. Yet, somehow, I'm not inclined to go off on a round of heil'ing him, and I doubt you are, either.

The thing that makes it interesting, is that your definition essentially invalidates itself, as each action can be shown to be both unethical and ethical at the same time, and if you introduce quantitative measures, then the time integral of that will show that each action leads to a net zero. In short, it can't be objectively valid and ethically meaningful at the same time.

Now, I do derive my own notion of ethics in a particular manner, and I suspect it's beneficial in general.

But this delusion of objectivity and certainty that seems so prevalent is just that: a delusion.

Or, using Voltaire's term for the latter: absurd. You choose.

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I don't know quite what the rest of this means - there is always a question of the "the greater good", but typically, this requires some degree of convincing, i.e., argument, that it is the greater good - it's never entirely axiomatic, even though it might be treated as such.

I think you may be talking about Les Miserables, and this is exactly the sort of situation that benefits from a cost:benefit analysis - if one assumes that eating enough to stay alive is a requirement necessary for all people equally in order to maintain some level of utility.

In short, in any group of theoretically autonomous humans, the requirement to maximize their individual utility must be assumed to be equal. If group utility is a factor in individual utility, and it usually is, then typically, compromises will be made between short term and long term requirements.

It's pretty straightforward unless you're attempting to fit it into some other meta system - it is the meta system, and you'll find it underlies almost every ethical system in praxis - if for no other reason than any other point of reference is necessarily arbitrary.

I'm not at all sure how you mean it invalidates itself, something can be ethically neutral, i.e., neither bad nor good, here nor there - taking a shit is ethically neutral unless it happens to be in somebody else's bed.

I never said it couldn't get complicated, questions of group vs. individual utility invariably are - compromising the utility a certain number of individuals might be rationalized if a significant threat to group utility is at stake, war for example - considerably less so if it's merely a question of convenience for certain other individuals claiming to represent the group, group values, etc. - follow it to the fundamental fulcrum of any given issue though, and it's invariably about how costs and benefits are being distributed.

And, on the contrary, unethical behavior is typically self-limiting while ethical behavior tends to maximize group utility - as in business ethics for examples, where enforcable contracts are the foundation of economic activity, or the NAZI's you mention, who paid a heavy price in the long run for devoting critical infrastructure to erdicating the bulk of their trained labor pool.

It's likely the very reason the Eastern offensive stalled and turned the tide of the war, as trains that could have been carrying supplies and reinforcements were diverted to carrying Jews to the gas chambers.

By contrast, the relatively ethical conditions of the eventual truce, including the Marshall plan - as compared to the punitive Versailles treaty that preceded it - benefited both victor and vanquished.

In spite of this, it's suspected that Eisenhower allowed quite a few Germans to starve to death in internment camps in the interim, and all in all, Germany suffered considerable losses in both population and political autonomy.

By the same token, the rights of the accused in our Bill of Rights are rationalized on the principle that arbitrary punishment is unethical, an unethical legal system is an unstable one, and vulnerable to revolt - which is exactly what they were in the midst of.

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RE: Misogyny and BDSM - 1/4/2010 1:45:14 PM   
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So basically if I said "people who use the word 'psycho' in an online handle are idiots" I wouldn't be calling you an idiot unless you decided not to change your screen name. Sorry but it doesn't work that way.

If you'd said what you said at the beginning of the thread, out of the blue rather than in direct response to someone who already did the thing you're saying only an idiot would do, then I'd be more inclined to believe that you weren't talking about her.

At best you can say "I called you an idiot when I felt you were acting like an idiot but if you stop acting that way I will stop calling you an idiot."

Seriously is it that fucking hard to say "I'm sorry for calling you an idiot just because I disagree with the line of argument you took"?

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