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osf -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:21:47 PM)

o asking questions that the elders of this board disapprove of is a no no?
Didn't say that. At less than three years on the site, I don't consider Myself an 'elder'. At the same time, I'm not always going to answer the same question that I've typed out far too many repeated replies to the same topic in the past.

Then ignore the thread don’t disrupt it for others



misspelling is a no no?


Yes. Please refer yourself to the, literally, hundreds of comments around here about people too lazy to use spell check.

This fucking spell is part of the problem

i was never impressed by the highly respected ones, it always seemed that that was what they lived for
Wrong, As stated on multiple threads, I live My life for Me. If others tend to like what I write, that's just a bonus.


as do I but not being a woman on an adult site is a handicap

and i have been on this sight a lot longer than this nic and this behavior is new high for me or a new low
I'd vote for new low or perhaps a really, really short memory.

and for what you think of me, well it wont put another dollar in my wallet
At least you're starting to figure that part out.

my problem is that i never tried to be part of the kool kid gang
Funny. I haven't either. All I've ever been is Myself and the other thing just kind of happened.



again being a woman is in your favor


i'm really at a loss for words
I wish, but I doubt it.


The truth is, I actually did answer your question before. There are a lot of folks out there who don't use the term power exchange, and instead prefer authority transfer. If you've really been around as long as you claim, I'm pretty sure you would have heard of it by now.


And I have to accept your answer as the final authority?


Btw, participating in BDSM since the mid eighties doesn't mean a damn thing if you never learned anything.

Or didn’t learn anything you approve of




osf -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:24:15 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
wasn't joe who tried to stifle dissent



Really? Look dude, it's one thing when you spout your bullshit theory's about BDSM. Everyone has some and everyone does that.

But if there is one thing Joe did it was STRANGLE dissent. If you don't know shit don't talk it.

Have you no shame sir?


Jeff


Edited to say, the last bit was just for Ron..:)


and how did that work out for mccarthy




Level -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:24:35 PM)

Okay, I can't figure out that last one.




Jeffff -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:26:56 PM)

As opposed too?

Christmas break will be over soon. He can go back to class. He may even write a term paper on us.

Not for history class or anything....... probably sociology.


Jeff




mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:27:17 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: osf


quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
wasn't joe who tried to stifle dissent



Really? Look dude, it's one thing when you spout your bullshit theory's about BDSM. Everyone has some and everyone does that.

But if there is one thing Joe did it was STRANGLE dissent. If you don't know shit don't talk it.

Have you no shame sir?


Jeff


Edited to say, the last bit was just for Ron..:)


and how did that work out for mccarthy



Not to put too fine a point on it.......how's that working out for you? mccarthy is dirtnapping as an abysmal failure. hows that going--- telling LadyPact to STFU? as well as about 10-20 others for YOU?

Ron




daintydimples -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:27:21 PM)

osf is a dominant? Who knew?




LadyEllen -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:28:12 PM)

Oh no! Come the fuck off of it (to borrow a term from Ron) - "not being a woman on an adult site is a handicap".

Not being a woman hasnt ever hurt my prospects.

But then, I am pretty damned cool and good looking.

E

(now osf, I want you to observe this - the last two lines is the set up for Ron, Domiguy or Jefff to knock down; it will be witty, amusing and wont hurt or offend me at all. Why? Because though I like all of them I dont give a flying fxxk what they think or appear to think of me!)




mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:28:22 PM)

Bob knew.

O.o




osf -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:29:44 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: daintydimples

osf is a dominant? Who knew?


should i have lord master in my nic?


but of course you know from your computer




Jeffff -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:30:44 PM)

When they say "Bob's ur uncle"  they mean LadyE?


Wow........... THIS is a stunning development.


The Home Office




Level -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:31:25 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

As opposed too?

Christmas break will be over soon. He can go back to class. He may even write a term paper on us.

Not for history class or anything....... probably sociology.


Jeff


Or maybe he's working on that Wiki article.




mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:31:57 PM)

we have grasped some watery moonbeams wisps of it, as if through a mirror; darkly by your comportment.

It ain't magic.

Myrrddin Emrys




osf -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:32:59 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: daintydimples

osf is a dominant? Who knew?


i don't ascribe any labels to my self except as a convenience

i only claim to be a man with some unusual sexual apatites




alittlegirllost -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:35:50 PM)

steps into the discussion to really talk about the initial topic....unique, huh?? lol...i would imagine that anyone can answer but perhaps LadyPact would not mind answering because i always find Her words very easy to understand....i understand TPE means Total Power Exchange....i understand that, in essence, when submitting i am giving up my power to the Dominant....but exactly what are we exchanging....the Dominant is not giving me their power....at least i hope not, that would be no fun..lol....but seriously, exchange makes me think it is a back and forth, give and take..but the Dominant always retains the power, so what is the Dominant exchanging?




mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:36:49 PM)

yanno, osf....there ain't one goddamn thing wrong with that, either.
that is a downright reasonable start to a doctrine....FOR YOU!!!!

Ron




Jeffff -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:38:10 PM)

"This is the most unheard of
thing I've ever heard of."

Source: Joseph Mccarthy


It is uncanny! osf could BE Joe.


Jeff




Jeffff -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:39:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: alittlegirllost

steps into the discussion to really talk about the initial topic....unique, huh?? lol...i would imagine that anyone can answer but perhaps LadyPact would not mind answering because i always find Her words very easy to understand....i understand TPE means Total Power Exchange....i understand that, in essence, when submitting i am giving up my power to the Dominant....but exactly what are we exchanging....the Dominant is not giving me their power....at least i hope not, that would be no fun..lol....but seriously, exchange makes me think it is a back and forth, give and take..but the Dominant always retains the power, so what is the Dominant exchanging?


I would answer , responsibility.

Others may answer differently


Jeff




LadyEllen -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:39:58 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

When they say "Bob's ur uncle"  they mean LadyE?


Wow........... THIS is a stunning development.


The Home Office


Disappointing at best Jefff. Do your research man, Bob is my brother - he lives in a 4 bedroomed house with his new wife and "earns" even more than I do, The bastard. Still, I have a Jaguar (and soon a Porsche) and nine pussies, so beat that.

E




mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:40:17 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: alittlegirllost

steps into the discussion to really talk about the initial topic....unique, huh?? lol...i would imagine that anyone can answer but perhaps LadyPact would not mind answering because i always find Her words very easy to understand....i understand TPE means Total Power Exchange....i understand that, in essence, when submitting i am giving up my power to the Dominant....but exactly what are we exchanging....the Dominant is not giving me their power....at least i hope not, that would be no fun..lol....but seriously, exchange makes me think it is a back and forth, give and take..but the Dominant always retains the power, so what is the Dominant exchanging?



exchange as in currency, not unknown quantities necessarily. one power for another, so maybe for you the power is the power to submit, to release the control.......its powerful in and of itself, grab the tigers tail.....then let go of it. that visual work?





osf -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:40:21 PM)

the op was

i was never comfortable with the power exchange term


i think both people come to the relationship as they are and therefore nothing is exchanged nor is it given or taken

the submissive may shed more and more autonomy as time goes on but she doesn't give as much as sheds it

my thoughts are still in the formative phase on this and i would like input from others

my thinking, my thoughts, for this i was hounded for pages for thought crime

yes i am guilty of thought

this seems so Kafkaesque that independent thought would bring on the hounds of hell, on an adult sex site




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