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mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:42:16 PM)

no, the op in and of itself did not let slip the dogs of war. Look at my first post, look at LadyPacts and several others.......see if you can find the pea in the mattress.

Marc Antony




Jeffff -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:42:23 PM)

Sorry LadyE.... I type this shit as it pops into my head...:)



Jeff




osf -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:43:22 PM)

and i do not fit the common caricature of a dom




mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:44:22 PM)

the old saw may go like this

english currency.....
bob quid thruppendy bit and so on.

bob....money...
your uncle came around and gave you candy, and girls the !!!!!
so money will get you .......

BasilFawlty




Jeffff -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:44:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

no, the op in and of itself did not let slip the dogs of war. Look at my first post, look at LadyPacts and several others.......see if you can find the pea in the mattress.

Marc Antony


Evading responsibilities for ones words in a Dominant trait


Cicero




osf -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:44:58 PM)

you mean this

I think I can use this same reply as an answer to several of the OP's threads.

If you don't like the term, don't use it.




mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:45:36 PM)

E Tu, Brute?

Rex Harrison




alittlegirllost -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:45:39 PM)

ummm...that visual was lost on me...but some of the words made it a bit clearer for me perhaps.....my power is to submit...His/Her power is to control....the two are exchanged? i give my submission, He/She gives me the control i need? does that make sense? nahhhh..i am still a bit confused...but sometimes i guess we don't have to completely analyze the words as long as things are working.




osf -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:46:00 PM)





quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

yin and yang. neither created nor destroyed. not created; transformed.


end of joke.

slap any coat of paint on it you wish. call it pig truffles, it is what it is to who it is izzing it.


or this one?




LadyPact -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:46:00 PM)

Well, let's take these one at a time, too.

Seems to Me that it wasn't just Me who had no end of your poorly phrased question.  At best, it's a very elementary one that has been asked and discussed prior.  Really, the search function is your friend and you can find a wealth of information by using it.

Why is the spelling part of the problem?  Is English not your first language or perhaps a learning disability at play?  If it is either of those, I will absolutely come back to this thread and apologize for making it an issue. 

My being a woman doesn't have anything to do with other people's opinions.  To insinuate that it does is rather insulting to the folks on these boards. 

You don't have to accept My word as the final authority on anything.  At the same time, you don't control any thread that you start.  Anyone is free to make their comment and is under no supposed authority that you have claimed for yourself as to who may contribute and who may not.

It has nothing to do with My approval, either.  In My opinion, however, most of the entry level stuff that you type up around here could easily be answered by a good, old fashioned reading of The Loving Dominant or Screw The Roses. 

There's a lot of good info around here.  At the same time, the old saying is still true.  You were given two ears and one mouth for a reason.  Every once in a while, you might consider closing one and opening the others.




LadyEllen -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:46:53 PM)

the OP was rambling - it stated your view (which was OK) but never really formulated something that could be responded to even if it motivated to respond, in which it failed utterly. Approach it differently - make the subject interesting, provocative even, take a stand and support it and then stand back for others to bounce their views of that stand to get the answers you want.

E





mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:47:36 PM)

nature abhors a vacuum, tell me, what do you get from submitting? pleasure? release? can you describe any of it? but you admit you get a certain (undefineable) something which kittininsol will give you the french phrase for.

Ron




Level -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:48:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: alittlegirllost

ummm...that visual was lost on me...but some of the words made it a bit clearer for me perhaps.....my power is to submit...His/Her power is to control....the two are exchanged? i give my submission, He/She gives me the control i need? does that make sense? nahhhh..i am still a bit confused...but sometimes i guess we don't have to completely analyze the words as long as things are working.


Yes, you're on to it.
You give control, he gives structure, discipline, etc.

quote:

ummm...that visual was lost on me...


That isn't the first time Ron's driving has left someone ass up in the backseat, no worries, he's a good guy.




Jeffff -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:48:25 PM)

Ya know LP, if I wasn't so smitten with June, I'd be comming for you!



Ward




wisdomtogive -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:49:32 PM)

I am going to make a suggestion to you osf. Yes, i know you didn't ask me too, but that never stops me, when i feel it is needed. What you do with it is not a concern to me either, since i am not doing this to benefit me.

Take 2 days away from the boards, and put your focus on anything but BDSM for those 2 days. Take a vacation, even if it is blogging or what have you. You need to refocus yourself on any thing but BDSM. This has become an obsession, with the many new posts started each day. All this energy can be put somewhere else for a bit. I clean when i become obsessed, or paint, or play with clay, or write a short story..anything to divert my attention from the obsession. Obsession for me is so unhealthy.

Anyways...best to you....
wisdomtogive




osf -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:51:32 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Well, let's take these one at a time, too.

Seems to Me that it wasn't just Me who had no end of your poorly phrased question.  At best, it's a very elementary one that has been asked and discussed prior.  Really, the search function is your friend and you can find a wealth of information by using it.

Why is the spelling part of the problem?  Is English not your first language or perhaps a learning disability at play?  If it is either of those, I will absolutely come back to this thread and apologize for making it an issue. 

My being a woman doesn't have anything to do with other people's opinions.  To insinuate that it does is rather insulting to the folks on these boards. 

You don't have to accept My word as the final authority on anything.  At the same time, you don't control any thread that you start.  Anyone is free to make their comment and is under no supposed authority that you have claimed for yourself as to who may contribute and who may not.

It has nothing to do with My approval, either.  In My opinion, however, most of the entry level stuff that you type up around here could easily be answered by a good, old fashioned reading of The Loving Dominant or Screw The Roses. 

There's a lot of good info around here.  At the same time, the old saying is still true.  You were given two ears and one mouth for a reason.  Every once in a while, you might consider closing one and opening the others.



so if it's been discussed before you don't think it should be discussed again, that's very flat earth of you

and being a woman has always has always been an advantage among the kinksters when she cried wolf
i've seen it before several times

no i don't control that why i asked opinions ,





mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:52:00 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: osf





quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

yin and yang. neither created nor destroyed. not created; transformed.


end of joke.

slap any coat of paint on it you wish. call it pig truffles, it is what it is to who it is izzing it.


or this one?



yes, that was my first one, and that is my viewpoint.......and I stand by it, and many people here will share or at least understand it...

And that is LadyPacts on the matter>>>>>>>
I think I can use this same reply as an answer to several of the OP's threads.

If you don't like the term, don't use it.
--------------------------------------------
unless you are not soliciting viewpoints.................

O.o o.O








alittlegirllost -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:54:17 PM)

thank you Ron and Level....it is beginning to make more sense to me now and, even though i do not post often, i am here almost every day reading....so i know that Ron is a good guy...and Level, You are nice too....i enjoy both of your posts all the time...but i am still waiting for LadyPact because she has such a good way with words and explanations...unless she has posted this before...i will be happy to do a search if that is the case.




mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:55:35 PM)

you could look for TPE and LadyPact that would mostly be where it is, but she may come along.....





Level -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 7:58:01 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: alittlegirllost

thank you Ron and Level....it is beginning to make more sense to me now and, even though i do not post often, i am here almost every day reading....so i know that Ron is a good guy...and Level, You are nice too....i enjoy both of your posts all the time...but i am still waiting for LadyPact because she has such a good way with words and explanations...unless she has posted this before...i will be happy to do a search if that is the case.


Thank you [:D] I'm sure she'll be happy to help.




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