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osf -> the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 5:33:13 PM)

i was never comfortable with the power exchange term


i think both people come to the relationship as they are and therefore nothing is exchanged nor is it given or taken

the submissive may shed more and more autonomy as time goes on but she doesn't give as much as sheds it

my thoughts are still in the formative phase on this and i would like input from others



mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 5:35:38 PM)

yin and yang. neither created nor destroyed. not created; transformed.


end of joke.

slap any coat of paint on it you wish. call it pig truffles, it is what it is to who it is izzing it.



littlewonder -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 5:37:00 PM)

I don't like the term "power exchange".
It always made it sound to me  that we somehow switched with each other.
Nothing of the sort happened.
I never traded my power for his.
I gave him mine and he took it.



LadyPact -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 5:43:46 PM)

I think I can use this same reply as an answer to several of the OP's threads.

If you don't like the term, don't use it.



osf -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 5:45:17 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I think I can use this same reply as an answer to several of the OP's threads.

If you don't like the term, don't use it.



if you don't like the thread stay out of it



mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 5:47:15 PM)

who exchanged the power in that little vignette?



LadyPact -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 5:47:31 PM)

Cupcake, you ain't never gonna be Dom enough to be giving Me commands.  You can take that one to the bank.



osf -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 5:51:34 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Cupcake, you ain't never gonna be Dom enough to be giving Me commands.  You can take that one to the bank.


please if you want to get into a pissing contest don't do it here



LadyPact -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 5:53:12 PM)

See, you're learning.

I'm much more likely to be courteous of a request, rather than a command.



osf -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 5:55:34 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

See, you're learning.

I'm much more likely to be courteous of a request, rather than a command.



let us know when you'r finished ranting and strutting then maybe we can get back to the topic at hand



mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 5:55:52 PM)

you should beg her prettier then, before you pronounce so sweepingly and dismissively.

read what I wrote and look up vignette and who just came in here and wiped you off the face of the earth and how she did it, and then .... pontificate about power exchanges, having some experience in them from different frames of reference.

kinda like being raped if it isnt what you want, but some people say why NOT jump, so this answers that one for you too.

Ron



Aileen1968 -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 5:57:28 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: osf


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

See, you're learning.

I'm much more likely to be courteous of a request, rather than a command.



let us know when you'r finished ranting and strutting then maybe we can get back to the topic at hand


But that was the perfect example of a power exchange principle....



osf -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 5:59:08 PM)

where are the adults on this site?



Jeffff -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 6:00:24 PM)

If you're sitting at the table, and you don't know who the "bitch" is, chances are it you.



Jeffwey





mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 6:02:17 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

where are the adults on this site?



We are all adults insofar as we know each other signed it as part of the TOS.................you? that remains to be seen.

Ron



osf -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 6:02:44 PM)

for those not familiar with the situation , i have this little fan club with nothing better to do than follow me from thread to thread acting like disruptive unruly children throwing feces on the wall, they seem to want to feel at home, i apologize for their behaviour



Aileen1968 -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 6:03:48 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

where are the adults on this site?


You come here and start thread after thread questioning things. That's not a bad thing at all. But you do it with a disguised sense of judgement and disdain for anything which doesn't fall into your preconceived notion of how a bdsm relationship is supposed to be.

Have you ever had any sort of bdsm relationship? Or is your ideas and ideals just from books and fantasy?



mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 6:04:23 PM)

lol, slick, but you are talking to yourself here. bullshit is bullshit, I call bullshit.

Ron



osf -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 6:05:31 PM)

hard to believe you're in your 50's



mnottertail -> RE: the power exchange principle (12/29/2009 6:06:57 PM)

why is that? whats your image of my life, lacking any experiences?



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