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do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/1/2010 9:55:07 PM   
osf


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Status: offline 		do you find rude behavior by submissive women attractive?

i've heard some say it doesn't matter and the dom that would judge them by their online behavior isn't much of a dom

have any others heard this?

what are you reactions to this?

would you make such a submissive your first choice?

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/1/2010 9:56:45 PM   
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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/1/2010 9:57:10 PM   
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Someone beat ya to it, osf.


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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/1/2010 9:58:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't find rude behavior by anyone attractive. That said, what I consider rude may not be what you consider rude.

"i've heard some say it doesn't matter and the dom that would judge them by their online behavior isn't much of a dom"

I judge everyone by whatever I know of them, including online behavior.  And I expect the same of them, judging me by whatever they know.


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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/1/2010 9:58:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: osf

do you find rude behavior by submissive women attractive?


If they are talking to you, yes.

That is not a snarky answer.  I am much more interested in brains and fire than I am in domme or sub.  And I like it when a woman can assess a situation correctly and realize it is time to verbally kick someone's ass.


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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/1/2010 9:59:08 PM   
osf


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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/1/2010 10:16:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		To be fair, I am a heterosexual Dominant woman.  I am also not in the same position as the OP.  Therefore, My opinion may differ.

I tend to look at the whole situation.  If we are talking solely about forums, I don't see what is for immediate view only.  I look for the history in it as well.  What is the posting style of the person we are talking about?  Is there a past record of animosity based on the interactions of the two discussing a matter?  Is there an obvious personality clash or strong disagreement of ideals?

I always expect clip to behave in a fashion that makes him to be the person wearing My collar.  At the same time, I'm not going to impose a standard on him that I can not believe has merit.  In his time with Me, he has been taught to make his assessment based on the Dominant, not just some title that someone chose to give themselves on a screen.  My boy is free to debate anyone he does not agree with on these forums, within the guidelines that I have set out for him.  If he has no basis for respect with whom he is discussing a topic, anyone here knows that they can bring their problem to Me.  I will settle it in My authority.  Not some self-imposed right of a third party.




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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/1/2010 10:19:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

To be fair, I am a heterosexual Dominant woman.  I am also not in the same position as the OP.  Therefore, My opinion may differ.

I tend to look at the whole situation.  If we are talking solely about forums, I don't see what is for immediate view only.  I look for the history in it as well.  What is the posting style of the person we are talking about?  Is there a past record of animosity based on the interactions of the two discussing a matter?  Is there an obvious personality clash or strong disagreement of ideals?

I always expect clip to behave in a fashion that makes him to be the person wearing My collar.  At the same time, I'm not going to impose a standard on him that I can not believe has merit.  In his time with Me, he has been taught to make his assessment based on the Dominant, not just some title that someone chose to give themselves on a screen.  My boy is free to debate anyone he does not agree with on these forums, within the guidelines that I have set out for him.  If he has no basis for respect with whom he is discussing a topic, anyone here knows that they can bring their problem to Me.  I will settle it in My authority.  Not some self-imposed right of a third party.





i too share that sentiment

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/1/2010 11:18:22 PM   
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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/1/2010 11:37:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23

do you find rude behavior by submissive women attractive?

Not in the slightest.  Cockiness is only attractive in people with cocks.  That's why it's called being cocky.  I'm rude, and I prefer a woman who will soothe the ruffled feathers I leave in my wake.  A diplomat I can send out to deal with hostile powers I'm too likely to punch in the face (metaphorically.  I rarely actually punch people in the face.  It's been years).
But If im a girl whos ever been single, I most likely own a vibrator, thats most likely bigger then your cock, and if were talking about me, I have many cocks, in my toybox... So I think I damn well have the right to be cocky,,, since of course I own more then one... And If im an OWNED sub, well then I have my owners cock.. so i have even MORE right to be cocky because of course,, I have his cock In me...
i've heard some say it doesn't matter and the dom that would judge them by their online behavior isn't much of a dom

I saw that.  I laughed.

Well It is the internet, Hell I can go make a male dom profile, make mostly an ass out of myself, Not that we need more of that... and Well Hey... No one would give a flying fuck, why does the fact that I have a vagina, make my rude behavior any more or less rude then a male doms?

And if my owner didnt want me for my passion and fire, well the sex would be Rather boring.

have any others heard this?

Nope.

what are you reactions to this?

Sounds like wishful thinking.

If he passes me over because I was mean to someone on the internet, its like saying hey I dont want you because of that mole you have right there under your ear thats a cute mole i just dont like it.

If a man doesnt want my passion and fire out of the bedroom he sure as hell isnt going to get it in the bedroom.

would you make such a submissive your first choice?

No.  I wouldn't trust her to not be making me look bad behind my back.  I'm perfectly talented at making myself look bad, I sure as hell don't need help.

Again with the if he doesnt want me... hes the one missing out...



But in ALL seriousness, (i didnt mean to ruffle your feathers psycho, I just kinda had to point out as a woman we tend to get more cock...Anywho...

If a dom doesnt want me for who i am, the SMART passionate firecracker that makes any experience beyond enjoyable, his loss...

Its an internet forum, I could see if i went leaned over to his best friend at his best friends wedding and said something like shes a real whore you should have picked me... how that would be in bad subby taste,, but hell all I have to do is click create account and Voila, NEW person ^_^.... the only time it gets annoying is when someone traces your email to your collarme account and posts your forum posts about how you really love it up the ass all over the companys web site... That could be embarassing...

but its the INTERWEBS... >________________<


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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 12:58:05 AM   
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Dear (not meaning to patronise by using that term) sexyred1, i feel offended by your mis treatment of that poor graphic animal - surely as a sub you should show respect all things and certainly you should show more respect to the self confessed misogynists among us - after all isn't your submissive nature really a desire for misogyny??

---- SORRY - my tonge got stuck in my cheek - i have taken it out now - i shall say three hail marys and present my ehind to the priest for a good seeing to- sorry- it really have taken my tongue form my cheek now, honest.

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 12:58:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: osf

do you find rude behavior by submissive women attractive?



You are going to have to get specific. What one person considers to be rude, another won't. Valyraen is not interested in people that he considers rude. However, he does not find my behavior to be usually (everyone screws up occasionally!) rude, online or off but there are people who would consider me to be rude.

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 12:59:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

do you find rude behavior by submissive women attractive?



You are going to have to get specific. What one person considers to be rude, another won't. Valyraen is not interested in people that he considers rude. However, he does not find my behavior to be usually (everyone screws up occasionally!) rude, online or off but there are people who would consider me to be rude.


i like to leave the answer up to the answerer

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 1:02:44 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: osf


quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

do you find rude behavior by submissive women attractive?



You are going to have to get specific. What one person considers to be rude, another won't. Valyraen is not interested in people that he considers rude. However, he does not find my behavior to be usually (everyone screws up occasionally!) rude, online or off but there are people who would consider me to be rude.


i like to leave the answer up to the answerer


As you do not define the question further, I can not provide an answer beyond the vaguest of vague answers: It depends.

There is a section of dominants/masters who would consider me rude for simply posting in this section of the forum. 

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 1:03:04 AM   
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Dear (not meaning to patronise by using that term) sexyred1, i feel offended by your mis treatment of that poor graphic animal - surely as a sub you should show respect all things and certainly you should show more respect to the self confessed misogynists among us - after all isn't your submissive nature really a desire for misogyny??

---- SORRY - my tonge got stuck in my cheek - i have taken it out now - i shall say three hail marys and present my ehind to the priest for a good seeing to- sorry- it really have taken my tongue form my cheek now, honest.


I'm really starting to like you, SSF!


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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 1:10:46 AM   
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i think the poor animal is the best submissive on cm

< Message edited by osf -- 1/2/2010 1:14:04 AM >

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 1:18:55 AM   
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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 1:25:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ya know... I'm pretty ok with being less submissive than a dead horse. At least I can still be ridden.

(Does that make me rude? )

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 1:27:09 AM   
osf


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Ya know... I'm pretty ok with being less submissive than a dead horse. At least I can still be ridden.

(Does that make me rude? )


makes you humorous

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 1:27:18 AM   
WyldHrt


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(Does that make me rude? )

Yep. I think you need a spanking


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