Andalusite
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Joined: 1/25/2009 Status: offline
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There are lots of ways to increase your knowledge about service and submission, that may help you in finding a partner. The local community college is a good resource, for example. Cooking, various shop classes, dance, yoga, massage, etc. are all valuable skills. Finding another submissive who is willing to mentor you and answer questions on a non-sexual basis may also help. Most Dommes here are looking for a LTR with a submissive man, or possibly a playpartner, not someone to randomly educate/lecture to. Even if you did get "trained" by one, your next partner might want something completely different, so being open to feedback is always a plus.
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