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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 12:54:36 PM   
osf


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awww, okay..see those string of words would be hard for me to take humoursly. i am glad you corrected my impression on them.


no problem

actually you can't think for someone, just make decisions for them that they can accept or reject

they can accept your decision without thinking about it but that is their choice

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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 1:26:57 PM   
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try being responsible for the thinking of two


If I'm understanding you correctly..I have..It's called a M/s relationship.


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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 1:33:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		all my relationships, even ones other would term "vanilla" (I hate that term) have been d/s, meaning he lead, he was head of the household and I followed. So to me they were all normal. He still took out the trash, he still did the heavier chores around the house, I did the laundry, I washed the dishes, we took care of the family as a unit...the only difference is..he's in charge. The last word is his word.

Why would d/s somehow make things different?

Starting to think that maybe she just didn't grow up in a normal way or something since it's always been that way since before she was born.

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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 6:45:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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I don't have a "situation" per say as much as I have choices to make..All joking aside..Alaska is in the plans and living alone in that beauty would suffice as far as I'm concerened. I'd take a peaceful existence carved out in the wilds alone over that same set-up with a not so compatible person at my side...any day.

What amazes me is how some people know they need to change all the while pointing out the faults in others..All the while making lite of their own shortcomings.

How could someone have an outlook like that..One of my shit doesn't stink and still carry their head up high when they know the truth is exactly the opposite.

Keep in mind that this comes from a submissive....It's not my "situation" but theirs that they need to worry about.



I'm a little bemused here.  Is your post a general unrelated rant, in response to my having been silly, or directed in some way toward me?  Not being deliberately obtuse here.  Just befuddled. 

It was directed at anyone who carries an attitude like that. For real. You say you were just joking.



Ahh, well.  I'm almost always joking, except of course, when I'm not.   But, I'm a little vexed that my humor tweeked a trigger of yours. 

As for your plans.  I certainly agree with you.  Living alone, in the vast beauty of almost anywhere, would be sufficient and preferable to living with someone with whom you were incompatible.   I certainly place my own hopes upon that very fact.

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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 8:26:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm a Dom, so I am an intruder in this thread but the OP asked something a while back I thought was germane about wants and winnowing.
Like many others, I have a list of attributes that are important to me in anyone I let in my life-this means friends, relationships, acquaintances, whatever.
Now when it comes to relationships, I , like many others, have an idealized image of the perfect partner in my head, one that no woman alive can live up to. We are talking supermodel hot, Einstein smart, as artistic and creative as Leonardo. witty as Churchhill and as compliant as a Geisha-and that's just for starters.
Realistically that ain't gonna happen.-grins.
So what I do have is a list of the qualities that are important to me in a relationship.I also have a list of the qualities that are critical-that is to say those qualities that must exist for there to be any hope of anything happening at all. These are my dealbreakers. they include things like dishonesty, malice, disrespect etc...
I may bend a bit on my important qualities, there is a certain amount of latitude within those.
But the deal breakers-forget it.



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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 8:33:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana

I'm a Dom, so I am an intruder in this thread but the OP asked something a while back I thought was germane about wants and winnowing.
Like many others, I have a list of attributes that are important to me in anyone I let in my life-this means friends, relationships, acquaintances, whatever.
Now when it comes to relationships, I , like many others, have an idealized image of the perfect partner in my head, one that no woman alive can live up to. We are talking supermodel hot, Einstein smart, as artistic and creative as Leonardo. witty as Churchhill and as compliant as a Geisha-and that's just for starters.
Realistically that ain't gonna happen.-grins.
So what I do have is a list of the qualities that are important to me in a relationship.I also have a list of the qualities that are critical-that is to say those qualities that must exist for there to be any hope of anything happening at all. These are my dealbreakers. they include things like dishonesty, malice, disrespect etc...
I may bend a bit on my important qualities, there is a certain amount of latitude within those.
But the deal breakers-forget it.






NO NO i want hot and dumb

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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 8:36:52 PM   
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This thread for example: what is a Dom???? Not only is this a question like what is Beauty, therefore there is no ONE answer, but numerous people have given him THEIR definition and instead of graciously saying, thanks for your opinion, he was negative back, continuing to question them back.


Dear god, he uses the Socratic method.  Someone get the hemlock.



Haven't I told you to the shut the fuck up, boy? I know you keep following my posts around, but I am NOT interested, get it through your thick skull.

osf does not need you to help him, in fact, you make osf look like a genius.

As for hemlock, I would advise you to take some; put you right out of your misery. Or drink some battery acid, should do wonders for your disposition.

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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 8:59:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well hot and dumb shouldn't be tough to find...

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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 9:08:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana

Well hot and dumb shouldn't be tough to find...


but she needs too be a durable as a regulation hockey puck

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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 9:10:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh. Now you're adding stipulations.
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See my man. The list needs to be complete. It's not fair to her to continuously add contingency clauses.


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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 9:12:47 PM   
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Oh. Now you're adding stipulations.
Grins
See my man. The list needs to be complete. It's not fair to her to continuously add contingency clauses.




why not?

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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 9:14:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		How do you like working for someone who has constantly shifting rules and expectations?

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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 9:15:44 PM   
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How do you like working for someone who has constantly shifting rules and expectations?


i don't but damn it she's the slave

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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 9:25:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		A very true statement. But my bet is she won't stay a slave for long if you keep yanking the ground out from underneath her.
Correction-She will still be a slave, just not yours.

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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 9:27:12 PM   
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A very true statement. But my bet is she won't stay a slave for long if you keep yanking the ground out from underneath her.
Correction-She will still be a slave, just not yours.



thats why the dumb part

see i have everything covered

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RE: I'm curious, all the female submissives say the wan... - 1/3/2010 9:33:10 PM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		Reminds me of an old joke...
Adam is walking around the garden of Eden
God comes by, says, "How ya doing?" Adam replies, "Food is great, weathers perfect, no complaints, well, except...errr...now I don't want to appear ungrateful, but it gets kinds lonely sometimes."
God says, "I see your point." Does the presto chango take out the rib and make a woman bit.
Next week God comes by, asks Adam how he's doing, does he like Eve.
Adam is all, She is phenomenal, those hips, those tits, my man, she is the best thing you ever made. Only one problem. Why did you have to make her so stupid?
And without missing a beat God replies, "How the hell else do you think I could get her to put up with you?"

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