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LadyPact -> RE: ARE THERE ANY SERIOUS DOMMES HERE? (1/4/2010 5:13:00 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Underumam
For the rest of you who think you have me pegged, consider this- you have never inquired my side of this or any other story that I'm involved with, so the fact that you base your opinions and judgements on one half of the story, says that you are not qualified to judge anyone on anything. Much less be the wise women that you portray yourselves to be here. Anyone with eyes to see has already noticed this anyhow.......
Have fun.......
You got all that from a two word answer, huh? That's pretty good.
I took you for face value at your words. If you want to see hidden agenda in the reply that I gave you, so be it. The fact is that I have no intention to prove how real, serious, or any other thing that I am as a Dominant woman. It's an exercise in futility that I refuse to engage in.
Any time that any post is written, it is My belief that it is written for anyone to chose to respond to it. I'm not looking for hidden agendas or any other meaning behind it other than what was presented. Granted, you may have been trying to take a humorous turn by reversing or actually revisiting a common question that comes up here. If that was your intent, I'm afraid you failed.
Perhaps, in the future, you might chose to express your thought for discussion in a different manner. Something such as:
"It's often asked if there are serious Dommes/subs on these forums. For those of you who have been searching or have found what you are looking for, to what do you attribute your success? What has worked for you in the past or what methods to you employ in order to realize your goals? Do you find that some Dommes/subs are more serious in their approach in various areas (i.e. play, protocol, public BDSM lifestyle, etc)?"
No, it is not the easiest thing to accomplish, getting a post or a reply to come out right if a person is still feeling the effects of space. (I know this, because I've done it and I always remember things to add later when I thought I had conveyed them.) I've also learned that I have to think carefully when I post and the endorphins are still rushing about My brain. Perhaps that is something you should consider as well.
If your Owner condones what you write here, and in Her authority accepts it as a mistake, that is her right. I would not attempt to control a situation where I have none. (We won't discuss how I would be seeing it differently.) At the same time, if you come here and insinuate that all of us here answered your post in some thinly veiled attempt at judging you, I will absolutely say that you are incorrect.
Quite frankly, if you feel people have a poor opinion of you around here, you absolutely have contributed to that. Some posts have been changed or edited from the originals that you wrote and some of us are aware of it. If an incorrect view of you has been presented, I have every hope that is based on poor assumptions, for your Owner's sake.
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