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nephandi -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/4/2010 5:57:55 AM)
Greetings Oh dear omkfY I almost laughed myself to death from that picture. Lol. :) Be well

MsDDom -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/4/2010 8:02:39 AM)
[FR] I am definitely not a man w/ a fem name, and I often get the nudies off the bat from boys (and girls); headless of course. And I am not going to sit here and lie that I don't like looking at a nice di-ck (yes, nice, not horrible or small) every now and then (perhaps I have a di-ck fetish [8D] )... Nevertheless, I don't ask for nudies (except from my boy that I know), but if I say "send a pic since u've seen mine", 7 times out of 10, I get a nudie.

marshalp -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/4/2010 11:57:04 AM)
I compleatly agree MsDDom, human body is a beautiful piece of art fun to look at. The other thing which you alluded here, people being over enthusiastic to send their naked pics. In my humble opinion, headless nudes should always be seen with suspicion. Although why send a nude before the other person asks for one & if you are sending one why are you ashamed of it? After some very helpful discussion, i think in my case i should respectfully decline sending those nudes to the Dommes. I would have no problem being naked in front of them, but after we have a relation where we are comfortable & there is trust. p.s. ironically i do have a CFNM fetish. [8\|] quote: ORIGINAL: MsDDom [FR] I am definitely not a man w/ a fem name, and I often get the nudies off the bat from boys (and girls); headless of course. And I am not going to sit here and lie that I don't like looking at a nice di-ck (yes, nice, not horrible or small) every now and then (perhaps I have a di-ck fetish [8D] )... Nevertheless, I don't ask for nudies (except from my boy that I know), but if I say "send a pic since u've seen mine", 7 times out of 10, I get a nudie.

LadyAngelika -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/4/2010 11:59:57 AM)
quote: p.s. ironically i do have a CFNM fetish. I'm trying to picture your avatar naked and I got a giggle ;-) - LA

marshalp -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/4/2010 5:06:10 PM)
So, should i change my avatar to something more... unmm.. appropriate??? [:D] quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika quote: p.s. ironically i do have a CFNM fetish. I'm trying to picture your avatar naked and I got a giggle ;-) - LA

LadyAngelika -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/4/2010 5:18:58 PM)
quote: So, should i change my avatar to something more... unmm.. appropriate??? Oh your avatar is cute and funny. And you must identify with it, so that is what's most important. I'm assuming you are playing on the academic look? While it is cute, it is also meek, not in alignment with the Alpha personality you say you have on your profile. Also, I saw a pic of you on your profile and you are a handsome and distinguished man. You might want to use that to your advantage. Then again, that is only my opinion and someone might tell you the exact opposite. But you asked, so I shared :-) - LA

Rochsub2009 -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/4/2010 6:12:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: marshalp Why wasn't i active on these forums earlier??? They are so much more fun than the other side.... i agree completely. These forums are the best part of CM. i've met and conversed with so many great people here. i seldom spend any time on the other parts of CM. As for your original question, i too feel uncomfortable when asked to send naked pictures early in the "get to know you" process. My alarms always go off when that happens. i know this is going to sound stereotypical, but women are not as visually oriented as men are. When someone wants a naked picture right away, i usually get suspicious that it's a man (although MsDDom is clearly an exception to that stereotype. Clearly she just enjoys looking at a nice dick). If you don't feel comfortable sending the picture, then don't. That doesn't make you a fake sub, that makes you smart. Only you know your personal situation. Perhaps sending naked pictures to an anonymous stranger could come back to haunt you in your professional life. As a sub, i still believe that we have the right to ask a prospective Domme to respect our privacy. If She needs to see a naked picture before we can get to know one another, then i usually move on. That probably means that i will miss out on some great Dommes (like MsDDom). But that is a risk that i am willing to take. Of course, once i get to know Her, then She can see me naked anytime She wants. [:D]

marshalp -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/4/2010 7:07:49 PM)
Why thank you so much LA, compliments are always appreciated (Damn, am i vain or what!!!) The avatar is how i see myself, the alpha personality in RL is more of what i HAD to cultivate, being in a cut-throat profession. The avatar is what i see myself as, a funny, nerdy, a bit cute.... meek??? why not... quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika quote: So, should i change my avatar to something more... unmm.. appropriate??? Oh your avatar is cute and funny. And you must identify with it, so that is what's most important. I'm assuming you are playing on the academic look? While it is cute, it is also meek, not in alignment with the Alpha personality you say you have on your profile. Also, I saw a pic of you on your profile and you are a handsome and distinguished man. You might want to use that to your advantage. Then again, that is only my opinion and someone might tell you the exact opposite. But you asked, so I shared :-) - LA quote: That probably means that i will miss out on some great Dommes (like MsDDom). I don't believe Ms DDom ever said that she would not entertain a sub without nude pics. Instead she clearly said " I don't ask for nudies (except from my boy that I know)". But i do understand what you were meaning to say. I just needed to understand the culture of this place... what is the norm here....

SthrnCom4t -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/4/2010 8:27:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: marshalp But again the question remains, Just because i am in the minority here (male-sub) do i have to relax my standards. what does the other side think??? The self-doubting person in me asks, "Does it make me less submissive???" Please add something i have not addressed. regards, Marshal. Marshal - If you want to find someone with long-term compatibility, do NOT relax your standards and listen to your gut instinct. Both people in the relationship, create the relationship. If someone is leading in a direction you don't want to go, don't follow. Simple. "less submissive" - No. Not a good fit, probably. (The fit goes both ways, and just because there isn't one, doesn't mean anyone is bad/wrong/less). The search can be long and arduous, but when you hit the jackpot, it's soooooooooooo worth it! Be prepared to kiss a lot of toads, hold onto your integrity, and don't be lead by your little head. Good luck,

LadyAngelika -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/4/2010 9:21:36 PM)
quote: Why thank you so much LA, compliments are always appreciated (Damn, am i vain or what!!!) A little humiliation play usually takes care of that ;-) quote: The avatar is how i see myself, the alpha personality in RL is more of what i HAD to cultivate, being in a cut-throat profession. The avatar is what i see myself as, a funny, nerdy, a bit cute.... meek??? why not... Whatever floats your boat marshal. Nerdy as in intellectual can be hot, as can funny. Personally, I don't go for meek. Some women might! - LA

LadyChallene -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/4/2010 11:27:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SthrnCom4t quote: ORIGINAL: marshalp But again the question remains, Just because i am in the minority here (male-sub) do i have to relax my standards. what does the other side think??? The self-doubting person in me asks, "Does it make me less submissive???" Please add something i have not addressed. regards, Marshal. Marshal - If you want to find someone with long-term compatibility, do NOT relax your standards and listen to your gut instinct. Both people in the relationship, create the relationship. If someone is leading in a direction you don't want to go, don't follow. Simple. "less submissive" - No. Not a good fit, probably. (The fit goes both ways, and just because there isn't one, doesn't mean anyone is bad/wrong/less). The search can be long and arduous, but when you hit the jackpot, it's soooooooooooo worth it! Be prepared to kiss a lot of toads, hold onto your integrity, and don't be lead by your little head. Good luck, Marshal, I believe you have received advice and suggestions very similar to what SthrnCom4t just gave you. It is an official pattern for the good of you and your convictions. Best wishes, Lady Challene

Ladynslave -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/5/2010 11:50:56 PM)
Being the smart ass that I am, when asked for nude pictures way too soon, I send a nude of my back or legs and have even been known to send a nude of slave's chest. All can be done without showing anything vital and it gives me a good giggle when I see the reply has been read and no response is pending.

SweetDommes -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/6/2010 12:09:07 AM)
Reminds me of what we do when guys ask to see our pussies ... I mean, we have plenty of pictures of Grendel, MIA, Tyler and Simoriah, and technically, they are our pussies ... grin

Ladynslave -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/6/2010 12:17:24 AM)
LOL! I haven't been asked for that yet. May I borrow a few cat pictures? I only have pictures of my dog. Wait, maybe I can get her a cat costume for Halloween... Yeah, that will work.

SweetDommes -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/6/2010 12:35:36 AM)
lol I'm all for going to the local shelter and/or pet store and taking pictures of the cats there ... it's not like they are ever going to find out that it's not actually your 'pussy'

LadyChallene -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/6/2010 1:08:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes Reminds me of when guys ask to see our pussies ... When asked for pictures of that nature and ill-timed ... :: grinds wickedly :: I send them a lovely picture of my 'pussy' cats! Lady Challene

Ladynslave -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/6/2010 1:34:22 AM)
True, but a picture of my wolf/husky cross in cat costume would fit in well with my wicked sense of humor.

SweetDommes -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/6/2010 1:37:22 AM)
Exactly, Challene - and it never fails to amuse me when they react with ... "um...it's cute but not what I wanted to see" or something like that The mix in a cat costume would be funny - but would they get the joke?

LadyChallene -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/6/2010 1:38:13 AM)
Sweet! I love the way you think! Lady Challene

SweetDommes -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (1/6/2010 1:41:35 AM)
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