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LadyNTrainer -> RE: I have one question... (naked pics) (5/13/2010 9:24:11 PM)
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
In my experience, the Dommes who are worth getting to know don't act like that. They don't demand naked photos before you and they have established some sort of rapport.
What do you mean? Before meeting, I always demand completely naked photos with a fresh brand of my initials on their forehead, their social security cards, their ATM pin codes and their grandmother's home phone number. Otherwise, what's the point, really?
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What they do demand, straight away, is conversation. They will want to know what sort of person you are 'in the round' - that is, beyond and aside from your BDSM interests.
Oh, now you're all making good sense and stuff. What fun is that?
Tongue out of cheek, there have been a few times I've asked for explicit photos because I thought it would be a mutually fun interaction. But it's pretty rare I'd do that, honestly. If the answer is "no, I'm not comfortable with that", I respect that. Not everybody wants the entire Internet to be looking at their wing-wong, and for all you know that's what will happen if you send it to a stranger who might be anybody at all.
If I get explicit photos without asking for them, I delete and block the sender and probably report them as well. I may also make a silly macro of what they sent me and submit it to lolkink.com, if I'm feeling particularly devilish. I respect privacy and confidentiality, but if you send it to a stranger out of the blue, then you have no expectation of privacy. And the Internet will soon be laughing at your wing-wong, possibly suitably decorated and captioned in Photoshop.
Obviously if I get explicit photos because I *did* ask for them, they don't get that treatment. I do have ethics. But you have no way of knowing that of some random person with a CM profile who could very well be a Nigerian blackmail scammer, so caution is smart and advisable.
Anyone who tells you that you're not submissive because you won't do what a total stranger asks is either hopelessly naiive or a scammer themselves.
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