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CelticPrince -> RE: How do you feel about online relationships? (4/30/2010 5:55:14 AM)

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Vanilla




Posts: 3
Joined: 12/30/2009
Status: offline Just a little bit curious, if you're a Dom, what are your thoughts on having an online relationship with a submissive?

Reason I'm asking is because, at the time, that is what I am looking for. I wanted to get other people's opinion on it. Personally, to me, an online relationship to me just an alternative, since due to current restrictions in my life, I am unable to relocate myself with that ideal Dom. I know that a webcam online could never substitute physical contact in real life, but do you feel that an online relationship COULD work, or that it would never work?


212,

It can work well if both sides of the slash can really wrap their mind around it.

CP



DesFIP -> RE: How do you feel about online relationships? (4/30/2010 6:55:37 AM)

Assuming the op still checks this, which I doubt after all these months. I just noticed he's within a two hour drive of Rochester. A major city with a much larger pool of possible partners. So why isn't a weekend relationship doable while he's in college?



Andalusite -> RE: How do you feel about online relationships? (4/30/2010 8:35:39 AM)

I think they meet other people's needs fine, but they wouldn't work for me to start out a relationship. If my Master had to move or do a lot of travelling for business, we might use online and phone to stay close until we could see each other again. Personally, I'm not attracted to anyone I haven't kissed, and I don't react with dominance or submission until I've interacted with someone in person.



AlexandraLynch -> RE: How do you feel about online relationships? (4/30/2010 10:28:07 PM)

Everything that I really enjoy in WIITWD are things that require the physical presence of my sub to make happen. The internet is a fine place to connect with other kinky people,  keep in touch with the boy of mine working full time who picked up a part time job as well recently, and shop for various and sundry toys. I don't think I could do an exclusively online relationship.

That said, my sister is asleep on the couch right now. She's driving 400 miles home tomorrow. She isn't a blood relative, but might as well be. I met her online, and we have spoken very nearly every day, sometimes at great length, for the last eight years, either online or on the phone.  I haven't visited her in Alabama yet, but she has visited me three times in Indiana, and for all the wonderfulness of our friendship and heartsisterhood, we both knew that there was the possibility that when we met face to face it would be terribly weird and awkward. It didn't happen to be. But I have met people before off the net and found that it didn't work for us. It happens.



Titanium0Master -> RE: How do you feel about online relationships? (5/1/2010 8:33:33 AM)

Online relationships are mental masterbation with a little (or a lot of) actual masterbation tossed in.

They are nowhere near the same as a real relationship, but they can be fun if that is what you are looking for. Just understand the differences and don't expect the relationship to be the same if you choose to change it into a real life relationship. Even a few real life play sessions will change the dynamic of an online relationship significantly.



SexySea -> RE: How do you feel about online relationships? (5/2/2010 6:13:26 PM)

I want a real human being not some screen name and a few jerky freeze frame cam pictures.  I want to be touched and hugged.  I want beatings and sex and I want to be able to express my love and devotion to a real flesh and blood person.  For me, onlline isn't even real and I just can't take it seriously.



Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: How do you feel about online relationships? (5/2/2010 6:33:45 PM)

carpal tunnel syndrome is a bitch...



TomCypress -> RE: How do you feel about online relationships? (5/3/2010 10:48:28 AM)

lots of Valuable information, points of view, personal experiences and preferences has been showed highlighting the crux of the question It's totally personal preference and makeup. "know thyself."
If you're a tactile person, don't have the patience of death, totally consumed with the physical/visual side (majority of men) most likely it won't work for very long.  On the other side of fence should you have a vivid imagination, unlimited patients, mastery of words and typing, you have a good shot of working something out for a long term satisfying relationship.

Speaking from personal experience there's a very intense cerebral slide to this lifestyle real/online, coinciding with a powerful release of endorphins, putting a subject into "subspace" akin to the breakthrough feeling runners have, submission of body to mind  Mmmmmmmmmm subspace (insert Homer Simpson voice).

"Know Thyself" Online reading, communicating, share ideas will help find ones self, but with the advent of mobile communication, texts, high speed access, MTV attention spans, twitter vocabulary's and me me the chance of success seemed to grow bleaker everyday




A Switch with swagger[sm=whip.gif]
The last place you want me alone is in your head



dragon200070 -> RE: How do you feel about online relationships? (5/9/2010 1:07:16 PM)

I prefer face-to-face relationships but also engage in online relationships. Much of the BDSM activity can be carried out online. I use hypnosis to deepen the effects and increase sensitivity of my sub. All of my subjects have physcically come, most repeatedly.

Eventually my subjects begin to want a face-to-face relationship and I encourage them to do so. For me, and my subjects, online relationships are good.

Jeff



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