UmbraDomina
Posts: 491
Joined: 7/22/2008 From: SE Michigan Status: offline
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Have you tried one of the 15 or so local to Mass real time groups, where you can actually met people with out demanding they give their life to you with out knowing you? You do understand that just becouse you call it BDSM doesn't change the fact it is STILL a relationship, one that must be grown, built upon, trust established, comman interests bantered, there must be a balance between kink and regular life. and lastly since you are demanding this dream person, relocates to you, does your bidding at all times, do you plan on providing them with a allowance to cover any and all of their existing bills, as well as provide for all her current needs, including but not limited to, clothes, food, airfare for visits to her family, spending money, as well as insurance, health, dental, vision and life? Will you be providing a 401k, or retirement fund? Reality please.......
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Alexandra ~ ~~ And I will show you something different from either your shadow at morning striding behind you Or your shadow at evening rising to meet you; I will show you fear in a handful of dust..... T.S. Elliot ~~
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