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LaTigresse -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/6/2010 12:27:42 PM)

I view women's profiles on occasion and when I see one that does not have anything to interest me, I hide it so that I do not have to view it again.

I do not see this as a problem.




NihilusZero -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/6/2010 12:29:17 PM)

I'm seriously curious what some of you are doing over on the other side. In the years and a half or so that I've been on this site, the amount of people I've met irl outnumbers the amount of spam messages I've received. I'm not even talking about how many positive friendly connections I've made either (which far outnumbers the spam) but actual instances where I have ended up meeting someone from the site.

And the last time I got a spam message it was so hilarious (this fellow took the time to tell me how I was the "woman of his dreams") it was totally worth receiving for the comedic value alone.




mnottertail -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/6/2010 12:32:35 PM)

Well, you do have some reasonably good looking tits Zero.

Ron




LaTigresse -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/6/2010 12:32:54 PM)

I think it is obvious what we are doing on the other side..........looking at pictures of hot wemmens!!! Sheesh!

Don't tell me you read it just for the articles!




DarlingSavage -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/6/2010 12:34:26 PM)

quote:

Jimi Hendrix


Voodoo Child (Slight Return)

Well I stand up next to a mountain
And I chop it down with the edge of my hand
Well, I pick up all the pieces and make an island
Might even raise a little sand

'cause I'm a voodoo child
Lord knows I'm a voodoo child baby
I want to say one more last thing
I didn't mean to take up all your sweet time
I'll give it right back to ya one of these days

The best Jimi Hendrix song EVAH!




Lockit -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/6/2010 12:35:34 PM)

Who moderate's all these volunteer's? lol Not everyone who wants to be one is going to be a good thing! I have run a web site and we were understaffed simply because everyone who applies isn't someone you want representing your site or moderating it! God... what a nightmare! lol

People can have many reasons for wanting to be a moderator and not all of those reasons are of the highest motivations! Power trippin people often apply and if accepted based on whatever the site owners go by... can ruin a site! I was very careful who I had in control and for damn good reason! A bad moderator with a motive or one who owns a another site, who has created an identity can wreak havic on a site and that can often mean a loss to the people who use the site and in advertisers.

There is a lot more to think about than simply moderating a site in simplistic terms of... get it done... it's so easy... why don't you do it?




DarlingSavage -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/6/2010 12:37:45 PM)

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I am not very musical SavageDarling,


Music is LIFE!




LaTigresse -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/6/2010 12:39:16 PM)

Ya, there is NO WAY I am volunteering for the job.

If someone is going to be hating on me I want to have fun getting them to that point.




Lockit -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/6/2010 12:41:13 PM)

LOL LaT!

And Jeff... I will get anal in some things, but not anal about little things not worth being anal about and believe me... if I were to get anal with you... it wouldn't be me bending over to allow entrance! hehe




Level -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/6/2010 3:36:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: persephonee

im thinkin the purpose might be to find someone to suck mine.


Well, that throws that whole visit from Santa Claus and Milton Friedman into jeopardy.




heartcream -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/6/2010 4:12:09 PM)

It is pretty easy to spot the strange profiles and there is a button to Report message, so there ya go! I dunno it isnt a problem for me.




thishereboi -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/6/2010 4:19:20 PM)

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as many fakes stand out like....some kind of witty metaphor....and can be spotted near instantly, it's hardly the biggest job in the world.


Well if that is true, then what is the problem? If you see a fake, block and move on to the next one. If it's still a problem, ask for your money back.




xxblushesxx -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/6/2010 4:26:37 PM)

If you want fakes, go to AFF... sheesh!

Oh! And I wanna be a mod!! I'd be VERY good at weeding out all those fake profiles since I actually make fake profiles for my phone boning business!! [:D]




AquaticSub -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/6/2010 4:37:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DCWoody

I've been doing that for 4 years, it doesn't help.


Ok, I seriously want to know what people are searching for where they have such a problem with fakes on a FREE site that they think CM needs to stop what they are doing and form a task force around it. A) That costs time and effort and unless you want to start paying to fund this, it's likely going to cost them way more than they make in ads since they have to go through EVERY profile. B) It's an utterly useless endeavor unless they start charging since then a person can just make another, and improved, fake profile.

I haven't have any profiles running into fake profiles in my searchs so I really can't relate to this overwhelming problem that people have been bitching about at least since I joined.

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After clicking on the name of a 6ft 8 white skinned blonde african american weighing in at 12lbs for the first time.

Are you aware that some people deliberately make their settings not true for their own reasons? I know of a poster who set her age to 99 because she wanted to cut down on the PMs she got.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
You don't suppose many of the 'real' folks can be found at munches and such?

Hush woman! Logic has no place on the forums!

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Just do it the same way every other forum on the web does it, find some reasonably trustworthy volunteers to banhammer the nigerians and the people using jennahaze as their profile pic. 0 effort/cash required.

And see... there is the problem. Finding people that are trustworthy that will stick around. When I've moderated groups, I am extremely selective of who I pick because I know a bad mod choice can ruin a group. It's not as easy as going "Hey you, you've been around awhile - you start modding now".

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Ha. Spend 5 minutes browsing sub female profiles and let us know if you think it's a 'grey area' problem.

When I'm looking, I'm looking at sub profiles and I still don't see the problem. Block and move on works very well for me.

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
Ya, there is NO WAY I am volunteering for the job.

If someone is going to be hating on me I want to have fun getting them to that point.

I would. But I don't know if they would want me. [;)]

Honestly, OP, you've had several people who have been here for quite awhile saying they don't have this problem. Perhaps you are the common factor in your issue with fakes?




ModeratorSeven -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/7/2010 12:28:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DCWoody
as many fakes stand out like....some kind of witty metaphor....and can be spotted near instantly, it's hardly the biggest job in the world. Like I said....despite the pessimism of my fellow posters, I'm sure trustworthy volunteers would be plentiful.


Exellent!! Thanks for volunteering DCWoody
. Here is how you can help. [:D]

You'll notice that anytime you are on a profile and you are viewing it as a half page (not full page) there is the option REPORT PROFILE. Do so, and then there are radio buttons to select either the profile or the journal entry.

The person who you are reporting will never know it's you. A reviewer will take a look at the entry and make a call. Our reviewers know the TOS well.

Thanks to all of you for making Collarme more enjoyable for everyone by reporting such issues. As this is a free site maintained by volunteers, we can't have eyes everywhere.






LafayetteLady -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/7/2010 12:46:05 AM)

Dude, really? You have been here for a little over 3 years (at least on your current no profile account). You don't have your profile active, so we all KNOW for sure these scammers aren't contacting YOU asking you to send them money and bring them to you and be their master. You wouldn't turn up in a search, so no one is contacting you.

Many of the people YOU contact, because of your lack of profile aren't going to respond anyway. So what you are really complaining about is that while you are perving the profiles, looking for someone that might be compatible with you or whatever the hell you are looking for (without a profile who knows), you have to wade through the profiles of people who, in your opinion, are looking to scam you out of money or whatever.

Have you tried the "filter" buttons? You can narrow your search so that you don't see profiles from Nigeria. Surely all these alleged "scammers" aren't local to you. I think you can filter the weight even, set your "low" limit above 12 pounds, problem solved.

Sorry but basically you are complaining that you have to look at too long a list of profiles in order to find someone to contact because of all the "scammers." The fact that the rest of the "subbies" you contact aren't going to respond because you don't want to create a profile isn't a problem I guess.




DemonKia -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/7/2010 1:35:31 AM)

Hehehe . .. . .

I generally figure that these complaints can also be read as: the OP has set their filters to under 35/30/25-ish years & under 160/140/120 pounds, since those are the parameters I've most successfully used to produce profiles that seem most likely to be 'scammish' (suspect photo(s), too-good-to-be-true or otherwise strange text, etc) . . . . .

Weirdly enough, when I set the filters to, oh, say, 30-50 year old women under 200/220/240 pounds, the 'scammish-seeming' profiles become very much a minority . . . . . Funny how that works, those same qualities that guys will purchase in porn & strippers are the qualities that make for scam bait -- imagine that . . . .

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: DCWoody

I've been doing that for 4 years, it doesn't help.


Ok, I seriously want to know what people are searching for where they have such a problem with fakes...




AquaticSub -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/7/2010 2:41:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DemonKia
I generally figure that these complaints can also be read as: the OP has set their filters to under 35/30/25-ish years & under 160/140/120 pounds, since those are the parameters I've most successfully used to produce profiles that seem most likely to be 'scammish' (suspect photo(s), too-good-to-be-true or otherwise strange text, etc) . . . . .

Weirdly enough, when I set the filters to, oh, say, 30-50 year old women under 200/220/240 pounds, the 'scammish-seeming' profiles become very much a minority . . . . . Funny how that works, those same qualities that guys will purchase in porn & strippers are the qualities that make for scam bait -- imagine that . . . .



*checks her age and weight*

Wait... I'm 24 and roughly 153 pounds... I would turn up in that search!

Does this mean I'm a scammer and I don't even know it!?!?!?!? [:-]

(You are probably right though! Still, when I search it's for people roughly my own age and I still down have an issue with fakes and scammers to this degree so I'm kinda curious.)




DemonKia -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/7/2010 4:10:29 AM)

Well, okay, I was being generous & kind. How about, under 25 yrs, under 120 pounds, & then the ones of most interest would probably be the hottest ones that seem most likely to put out . . . . . .

The part that's funniest is that I suspect a fair number of actual hotties list themselves with ages of 80+ yrs & weights of 700 pounds or other weirdness, out of the desire to avoid those who seek after a weight & / or an age . . . . .




AquaticSub -> RE: Please appoint some mods for the other side. (1/7/2010 4:22:20 AM)

Probably. I know a few people on the forums have mentioned doing that.




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