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Fighting nature.


Allow him to slap you around because he wants too.
  0% (0)
Get up and walk away.
  26% (6)
Stay and fight, even if you think you will lose.
  8% (2)
Kick his ass because you know kick boxing/karate/ect.
  65% (15)


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(last vote on : 2/5/2010 11:29:19 AM)
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Fighting nature. - 1/6/2010 4:11:23 PM   
tazzygirl


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quote:

submissive women are weird but that's ok, gives me someone to slap around that wont hit back lololol


here that submissive women will just allow a man to slap them around. Now, unless that is your kink, and some women and men do like that kind of thing, would you allow yourself to be treated in this manner?

< Message edited by tazzygirl -- 1/6/2010 4:15:38 PM >

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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/6/2010 4:13:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		Define "slapping around" please, it has many connotations

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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/6/2010 4:13:32 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

Define "slapping around" please, it has many connotations


Agreed.

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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/6/2010 4:16:05 PM   
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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/6/2010 4:22:25 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

here that submissive women will just allow a man to slap them around. Now, unless that is your kink, and some women and men do like that kind of thing, would you allow yourself to be treated in this manner?


If he's slapping me outside of a kinky context, his balls are paperweights and I'll turn his dick into a pretty, pretty bow.

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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/6/2010 4:22:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		I chose, walk away since we are allowed only one choice BUT only after kicking his ass.

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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/6/2010 4:27:46 PM   
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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/6/2010 4:45:38 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

I chose, walk away since we are allowed only one choice BUT only after kicking his ass.


Ditto!

Bones break, eyes can be gouged out, and balls torn off, etc.... all fairly quickly and easily, considering.

When his ______ (arm, leg, neck, whatever- you fill in the blank) is broken, or his eye(s) gouged out, or his balls ripped off, (need I go on? there are lots more fun ways to disable a jerk)... the fight is pretty much over, right then. His attention will refocus on dealing with the pain, and tending to the wound, at that point.

Then I leave.

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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/6/2010 4:49:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		I know... I'm not a woman but some would say my general disposition is somewhat submissive, so I feel I can answer this question...

I voted "walk away." It takes a lot for me to retaliate but one thing I will not do is stick around a situation where even the threat of receiving non-consensual physical hits is possible. I have been known to fight but if I do, it's with everything I have; I don't temper or control it. It's not pretty and I hate being pushed that far. That's why I prefer to just walk away.

I've also learned that, in my experience, the one doing the threatening is in some way hoping I would fight because they got some perverse pleasure in getting the shit kicked out of them, then back into them (and I truly hated having to resort to fisticuffs). I will not, under any circumstance, indulge a-holes like that again.

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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/6/2010 4:57:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		So this begs a new question. One i wont poll. in my mind, such men, or women, who like to impose pain and need the victim to fight back... would they not be viewed as submissive to those needs, and, if so, who is the truly dominant one in that relationship?

i suppose i could word that better.

If you need your partner to attempt to top you in order to get off, have that sense of dominance, or feel in power, who is on top?

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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/6/2010 5:05:08 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

It came up on another thread

quote:

submissive women are weird but that's ok, gives me someone to slap around that wont hit back lololol


here that submissive women will just allow a man to slap them around. Now, unless that is your kink, and some women and men do like that kind of thing, would you allow yourself to be treated in this manner?


From this male's POV, I define slapping around as a form of non consensual physical abuse thus I will have nothing to do with it.


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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/6/2010 5:13:01 PM   
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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/6/2010 5:17:32 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
So this begs a new question. One i wont poll. in my mind, such men, or women, who like to impose pain and need the victim to fight back... would they not be viewed as submissive to those needs, and, if so, who is the truly dominant one in that relationship?

i suppose i could word that better.

If you need your partner to attempt to top you in order to get off, have that sense of dominance, or feel in power, who is on top?

The way I see your question (which I understood pefectly, btw), I'm thinking the dominant is still the one in charge. S/he instigated the situation, causing the submissive to act in that way. In order for this to happen to the dominant's expectations, the dominant would need to know what buttons to push within the submissive to garner his or her defense. Doing so gets the submissive to respond to the dominant's whims.

As I wrote in my post, I never had an ounce of satisfaction or pleasure from fighting. Zero. In fact, I was disgusted with myself for having to resort to such actions. In your hypothetical question, since the dominant would absolutely be deriving pleasure from being pummeled while the submissive may or may not be doing so, the dominant once again is getting serviced.

I have read about how some dominants actually like to be the bottom, not the top, in a physical relationship. I think your hypothetical question would be an example of just such a relationship.

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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/7/2010 1:15:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		Funny thing about this poll...
Before my relationship with my former Master evolved from boyfriend/girlfriend to Master/slave there were, of course, fighting and arguing at times. i once slapped Him (with good reason) across the room. i won't discuss the not-so-nice thing i did next, but the slap was probably the worst. i'm betting He wore my handprint for a while afterward. Anyhow, when discussing physical punishment/play it came up that He thought i couldn't take it, and i'm quite sure He didn't mean my endurance. He wasn't real eager to get into much spanking, etc. i always figured it was because of this and my not-so-nice past (not just with Him). Probably part of the reason W/we are no longer together. i'm quite sure He feared me, and i KNOW He would never think i would fear Him, physically.

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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/7/2010 1:49:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		I took a beating- which ended up in the courts.   Then I was rather walk away.

But if I were to redo it- I would punch back.  And alot.

...tho I also would not get to that point- because I am ok with me and being alone.

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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/7/2010 3:45:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		If I were a subbie....I'd stomp his balls until they resembled scrambled eggs.....but, that's just me....better yet....just send him to me and I will do it for you!

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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/7/2010 3:46:58 AM   
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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/7/2010 4:08:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		i would kick his ass (and i probably could too lol) and even IF the man was able to whip me....He would KNOW he tangled with one BAD ASS BITCH!

i'm still working on the whole turn the other cheek thing


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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/7/2010 4:21:00 AM   
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RE: Fighting nature. - 1/7/2010 4:41:22 AM   
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