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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 7:36:39 AM

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When I need extra money I look for new clients and when I'm looking, I look for someone in my area not 3,000 miles away...

I was in the SF area several times over the past year , and have asked you quite politely on both collar me and fet life to book a session well in advance. I offered to be quite generous to make it worth your time ( I think I offered you a grand for a strap-on sessions ) , and yet you still would not even consider me. Offered to give references to other prodoms ect ect...

To be honest I question if you are even real. Every prodom I have ever seen was happy to meet a new face , esp one as cute as mine that is polite, provide references, and happy to remimburse them well for their time and effort.

I like I said, I only look for local people that my friend can run a background check on.
I really don't care what think I am...

Have a nice day...

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 7:49:29 AM

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( I think I offered you a grand for a strap-on sessions )

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Every prodom I have ever seen was happy to meet a new face , esp one as cute as mine

Wouldn't the cuteness of your ass be more relevant?

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 7:49:56 AM

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The "professional" in ProDom you are not.

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 7:56:23 AM

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When I need extra money I look for new clients and when I'm looking, I look for someone in my area not 3,000 miles away...

I was in the SF area several times over the past year , and have asked you quite politely on both collar me and fet life to book a session well in advance. I offered to be quite generous to make it worth your time ( I think I offered you a grand for a strap-on sessions ) , and yet you still would not even consider me. Offered to give references to other prodoms ect ect...

To be honest I question if you are even real. Every prodom I have ever seen was happy to meet a new face , esp one as cute as mine that is polite, provide references, and happy to remimburse them well for their time and effort.

Let's see some of that politeness and generosity you pride yourself on playboy22......

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 7:57:25 AM

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Wouldn't the cuteness of your ass be more relevant?

You don't understand how aggravating it is to take the time to compose a genuine email , not just a few sentences. Then add pictures and send them to someone who is advertising a service that you would think is for real then never get a response or worse yet discriminated against based upon something stupid like where your home is listed or your age. I would have never approached her in the first place had she not advertised "professional" services , but when people do you think that they are going to be just that - professional - DianeB is not.

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 7:58:02 AM

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The "professional" in ProDom you are not.

Is this really an issue you want to hash out in public? All you're accomplishing is putting a big red warning label on your forehead. In keeping with the subject of this thread, it certainly sounds like she chose wisely in not accepting you as a client.

Professional does not mean "must accept every interested party as a client".

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 8:01:13 AM

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The "professional" in ProDom you are not.

The "cute and polite" in your own self descriptor you are not. Badgering a Pro that rejected you by whining on a public message board is scoring points for you in other ways too, I assure you. Grow up, get a real nut sack and realize "Pro" does not equal servant to your libido, or egocentricities.

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 8:03:45 AM

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Is this really an issue you want to hash out in public? All you're accomplishing is putting a big red warning label on your forehead. In keeping with the subject of this thread, it certainly sounds like she chose wisely in not accepting you as a client.

Professional does not mean "must accept every interested party as a client".

I don't think she takes pro sessions. I think she is a farce and possibly a male posting pictures of private play.

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 8:06:10 AM

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I don't think she takes pro sessions. I think she is a farce and possibly a male posting pictures of private play.

Based solely on the fact that she didn't accept you as a client? Keep digging that grave, "playboy".

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 8:07:45 AM

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The "cute and polite" in your own self descriptor you are not. Badgering a Pro that rejected you by whining on a public message board is scoring points for you in other ways too, I assure you. Grow up, get a real nut sack and realize "Pro" does not equal servant to your libido, or egocentricities.

lol , kiss ass all you want. Perhaps the prodom tooth fairy of will give you $10 off your next session with the dom of your choice.

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 8:08:11 AM

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Pro Mistressing will always carry risks. In the UK for example you can mistress on your own provided your not doing anything considered illegal (like hurting someone!!) but if you have a second Mistress present at the same time as a paying client, you could be classed as running a brothel and that can get you in loads of shit.

That being said, if something goes wrong does not necessarily mean that you will get the help you should get.

I had a regular client as a pro sub a few years ago (in 2005) and he turned out to be a real ass in the 3rd meeting as at the end he left with all my money I had with me (havent had much with me apart from his money, though it still meant I had no money to get back home). and there the police wasn't bothered about it despite that they would have had his details as he booked there his place regular...

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 8:09:27 AM

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I have an idea on a way to settle the reality question!

Can I have a freebie Miss Diane?

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 8:12:04 AM

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Based solely on the fact that she didn't accept you as a client? Keep digging that grave, "playboy".

~stef

Stef - Your not male , and you don't book sessions with prodoms. So don't pretend you know what your talking. Now I bet if you were to be discirminated against in say buying a box of muchkins today at dunkin donuts because you are over weight you might take offense to that. Same thing with being told a dom wont see you based on where your profile says you live.

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 8:21:07 AM

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The "cute and polite" in your own self descriptor you are not. Badgering a Pro that rejected you by whining on a public message board is scoring points for you in other ways too, I assure you. Grow up, get a real nut sack and realize "Pro" does not equal servant to your libido, or egocentricities.

lol , kiss ass all you want. Perhaps the prodom tooth fairy of will give you $10 off your next session with the dom of your choice.

Kissing ass isn't a bad idea for you, in fact, playboy. Once you humanize the object of your desire and realize "Pro" does not mean "ho" you might actually have a chance of getting somewhere. It's obvious you're a self-centered dipshit.

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 8:25:19 AM

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Stef - Your not male , and you don't book sessions with prodoms. So don't pretend you know what your talking. Now I bet if you were to be discirminated against in say buying a box of muchkins today at dunkin donuts because you are over weight you might take offense to that. Same thing with being told a dom wont see you based on where your profile says you live.

You poor thing. Here, take all you need.

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 8:28:47 AM

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Kissing ass isn't a bad idea for you, in fact, playboy. Once you humanize the object of your desire and realize "Pro" does not mean "ho" you might actually have a chance of getting somewhere. It's obvious you're a self-centered dipshit.

Pro means pay for play. These women are not interested in having a relationship with your or being your pal. They want your money in exchange for their time. Isaac ( 342 posts ) , you should consider a pro since you seem to spend to much time around the key board with a bottle of lube as opposed to getting the real thing.

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 8:32:53 AM

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Isaac ( 342 posts ) , you should consider a pro since you seem to spend to much time around the key board with a bottle of lube as opposed to getting the real thing.

Why should he consider a pro? He's not the one who has to pay "a grand" to find someone willing to pound him in the can.

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 8:57:46 AM

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Pro means pay for play. These women are not interested in having a relationship with your or being your pal. They want your money in exchange for their time. Isaac ( 342 posts ) , you should consider a pro since you seem to spend to much time around the key board with a bottle of lube as opposed to getting the real thing.

Now I see why $1k ain't enough...

Usually, when you want something from someone else, being courteous costs you nothing & greatly improves your chances. On the other hand, publicly displaying an inability to be courteous makes it unlikely you will ever get what you want, at any price, from anyone here.

Settling for free verbal humiliation here, perhaps?

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 9:13:06 AM

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Well, didn't this get interesting? LOL.

Last time I checked, not all doctors accept all new patients, even when they have open appointments.

Not all lawyers accept any and all clients.

Not all hairdressers are open to all folks who need a haircut.

Not every prodomme will accept clients who are not local.

Any person offering their services gets to chose whether or not they want to take you on as a client. They get to base that on whatever reason they see fit.

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RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? - 1/11/2010 10:08:42 AM

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Discrimination over the purchase of sexual services isn't going to be covered under the same laws as discrimination over selling/buying a box of Munchkins. For starters, the purchase of sexual services is generally illegal. Secondly, when you behave like a twit, you're not going to get a woman to want to get naked, hot & sweaty with you.

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