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playboy22 -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 10:16:24 AM)

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Discrimination over the purchase of sexual services isn't going to be covered under the same laws as discrimination over selling/buying a box of Munchkins.



I know you want them munchkins too !




SimplyIsaac -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 2:34:55 PM)


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ORIGINAL: playboy22

Pro means pay for play. These women are not interested in having a relationship with your or being your pal.


"These women". Bitter much?

Playtard, perhaps your hard-edged assumptions (and experience) about Pros comes from your shitty attitude. Ever stop to consider that? Pro doesn't mean "I can never get to know her or become her friend". Where did you ever get that idea? Let me guess: your lousy attitude, which feeds a self-fulfilling prophesy, judging by how well you're getting along with the girls here, lol.




hereyesruponyou -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:06:43 PM)

i sense perhaps someone who is the ultimate at topping from the bottom...willing to pay any price to get it exactly how, when, and where they want it.

~wonders how long the instruction list is~




domiguy -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:10:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves

A really good friend of mine is from a family of lawyers.


Your really good friend is an idiot.  I am not surprised in the least.  Hanging out with those folks with them smarts does not seem to be exactly your calling.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:12:41 PM)

I am agreeing with DOMI!

It's a sign of the end times!!




domiguy -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:13:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: playboy22

The "professional" in ProDom you are not.

Is this really an issue you want to hash out in public?  All you're accomplishing is putting a big red warning label on your forehead.  In keeping with the subject of this thread, it certainly sounds like she chose wisely in not accepting you as a client.

Professional does not mean "must accept every interested party as a client".

~stef


But my dear Stef,  If you waive around enough money how many of these so called dommes would actually turn that person away?

Hmmmmm..... Lemmee guess, none?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:17:48 PM)


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: playboy22

The "professional" in ProDom you are not.

Is this really an issue you want to hash out in public?  All you're accomplishing is putting a big red warning label on your forehead.  In keeping with the subject of this thread, it certainly sounds like she chose wisely in not accepting you as a client.

Professional does not mean "must accept every interested party as a client".

~stef


But my dear Stef,  If you waive around enough money how many of these so called dommes would actually turn that person away?

Hmmmmm..... Lemmee guess, none?



Okay, normalcy reigns!

No, unless we are talking unrealistically large sums (in excess of 10K, say) then no, it is ever so easy to say "NO, but you might want to call Madam X, she has other standards."




SimplyIsaac -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:20:57 PM)


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: playboy22

The "professional" in ProDom you are not.

Is this really an issue you want to hash out in public?  All you're accomplishing is putting a big red warning label on your forehead.  In keeping with the subject of this thread, it certainly sounds like she chose wisely in not accepting you as a client.

Professional does not mean "must accept every interested party as a client".

~stef


But my dear Stef,  If you waive around enough money how many of these so called dommes would actually turn that person away?

Hmmmmm..... Lemmee guess, none?


What's your point? We all have a price?




domiguy -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:24:34 PM)

Maybe not maybe so.  But this is where I lose respect for the dommetutes. They quite routinely reinforce what little value they are worth.

Kind of gross.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:27:52 PM)


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Maybe not maybe so.  But this is where I lose respect for the dommetutes. They quite routinely reinforce what little value they are worth.

Kind of gross.



Okay, I have to ask. Do you hate all sex workers equally? Like, strippers, prostitutes, pro dominants, peep show dancers, all the same?




domiguy -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:33:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Maybe not maybe so.  But this is where I lose respect for the dommetutes. They quite routinely reinforce what little value they are worth.

Kind of gross.



Okay, I have to ask. Do you hate all sex workers equally? Like, strippers, prostitutes, pro dominants, peep show dancers, all the same?


Don't hate but get rather disgusted.

Your kink is not mine.  It is just the lowest form of employment.  It is the common denominator of the weak. Those seeking a payout without the desire or ability to use anything more than what genetics enabled or what some douchebag will cough up.

This might not be the most popular opinion out here.  I just dig folks that want more out of life and have the ability to achieve it without toiling in the sex trades.

To each their own.





SimplyIsaac -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:35:00 PM)


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Maybe not maybe so. 


Don't be spineless. Own it or not.


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ORIGINAL: domiguy
But this is where I lose respect for the dommetutes. They quite routinely reinforce what little value they are worth.

Kind of gross.


So basically you're calling all the dominant females on the board whores. Let me introduce you to a guy named playboy22...I think you two would get along just fine.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:41:34 PM)


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Maybe not maybe so.  But this is where I lose respect for the dommetutes. They quite routinely reinforce what little value they are worth.

Kind of gross.



Okay, I have to ask. Do you hate all sex workers equally? Like, strippers, prostitutes, pro dominants, peep show dancers, all the same?


Don't hate but get rather disgusted.

Your kink is not mine.  It is just the lowest form of employment.  It is the common denominator of the weak. Those seeking a payout without the desire or ability to use anything more than what genetics enabled or what some douchebag will cough up.

This might not be the most popular opinion out here.  I just dig folks that want more out of life and have the ability to achieve it without toiling in the sex trades.

To each their own.





Cool, just wondering. I am not a pro dominant, but I have a lot of respect for sex workers generally. It has to be incredibly difficult work, and I don't see someone CHOOSING it who has many other options.




stef -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:46:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyIsaac

What's your point? We all have a price?

His "point" is he has issues with pros and this is just another opportunity for him to take a shot at them.  Sound and fury.

~stef




LadyHibiscus -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:47:21 PM)


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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: SimplyIsaac

What's your point? We all have a price?

His "point" is he has issues with pros and this is just another opportunity for him to take a shot at them.  Sound and fury.

~stef




Well, that too. Domi just likes the Useful Body Parts of women, not the whole person. Or so I gather.




Level -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:49:48 PM)

Isaac, I think he meant "pro dommes" only.

I often agree with DG on many things, but not on this.




domiguy -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:52:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: SimplyIsaac

What's your point? We all have a price?

His "point" is he has issues with pros and this is just another opportunity for him to take a shot at them.  Sound and fury.

~stef



True.  Since we all live out here I guess I can chime in..It is just one of the areas that kind of brings down the whole fem dom thing. 

It makes the whole mistress thing kind of hard to define in that who is the real deal and who is just a carnival ride?

It is different than on the male dom side.  look at osf, what to make out of that guy?    Most Doms are not is search of dollars.




littlewonder -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:53:35 PM)

uum...talk to them and get to know them and if you don't like them then don't play with them? <scratches head in confusion again>

If it's a pro thing, I would think most pros would do some kind of interview process first and if they aren't comfortable with them they simply turn them away.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:54:47 PM)

Most female doms are not in search of dollars either. I suggest to you that if the SOURCE of the revenue went away, so would the women who are trying to make the money in that fashion.




domiguy -> RE: How do you protect yourself against high risk clients? (1/11/2010 5:59:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyIsaac


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Maybe not maybe so. 


Don't be spineless. Own it or not.


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ORIGINAL: domiguy
But this is where I lose respect for the dommetutes. They quite routinely reinforce what little value they are worth.

Kind of gross.


So basically you're calling all the dominant females on the board whores. Let me introduce you to a guy named playboy22...I think you two would get along just fine.


No, you obviously can't read.    I mentioned the dommetutes. Just the dommetutes. There are dommes that I personally know out here that don't sell their shit.

Sabe,  Sir Isaac? Me thinks the apple beaned you just a little too hard.  Try and follow along.




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