Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

Dumped?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> Dumped? Page: [1] 2 3 4   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
Dumped? - 1/7/2010 1:23:31 PM   
Elizabeth666


Posts: 288
Joined: 10/14/2009
Status: offline 		What do you do when your D type dumps you?

Even if it was through EMAIL!

/end rant

Question still stands though

_____________________________

"The truth that many people never understand, until it is too late, is that the more you try to avoid suffering, the more you suffer because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you in proportion to your fear of being hurt"
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 1:28:45 PM   
rockspider


Posts: 633
Joined: 9/26/2009
Status: offline 		Well they say nothing better for getting over a man is getting under another. Besides i don't see an internet romance to be quite as serious as a real life experience.

(in reply to Elizabeth666)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 1:30:52 PM   
Elizabeth666


Posts: 288
Joined: 10/14/2009
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: rockspider

Well they say nothing better for getting over a man is getting under another. Besides i don't see an internet romance to be quite as serious as a real life experience.


Oh no, it wasn't an internet relationship. He just chose to break up with my via the internet

_____________________________

"The truth that many people never understand, until it is too late, is that the more you try to avoid suffering, the more you suffer because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you in proportion to your fear of being hurt"

(in reply to rockspider)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 1:30:56 PM   
UniqueRaven


Posts: 1237
Joined: 9/30/2009
From: Austin, TX
Status: offline 		Quick answer?  Yoga. 

_____________________________

"My life has no purpose, no direction, no aim, no meaning, and yet I'm happy. I can't figure it out. What am I doing right?" ~Snoopy (Charles Schultz)

My blog is at http://takinghishand.wordpress.com

(in reply to rockspider)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 1:33:52 PM   
breatheasone


Posts: 4004
Joined: 7/14/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Elizabeth666

What do you do when your D type dumps you?

Even if it was through EMAIL!

/end rant

Question still stands though

Honey, i'm SO sorry. i wish that could make it all better some how. my mail box is ALWAYS open.


_____________________________

Romans 10:13,For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
Mike posts in black font
candy posts in pink font

(in reply to Elizabeth666)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 1:36:56 PM   
Elizabeth666


Posts: 288
Joined: 10/14/2009
Status: offline 		And here I said I wasn't going to cry. I gave him everything! I opened myself up to him in ways I've never done before. I told him all my secrets, fantasies, everything.

_____________________________

"The truth that many people never understand, until it is too late, is that the more you try to avoid suffering, the more you suffer because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you in proportion to your fear of being hurt"

(in reply to breatheasone)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 1:45:17 PM   
UniqueRaven


Posts: 1237
Joined: 9/30/2009
From: Austin, TX
Status: offline 		And that's the longer answer: 

Cry, with a lot of red wine, sitting on the deck and looking at the lake for, oh, about a year or so, give or take.  Wash, rinse, repeat, alternate with yoga.

A good crying song over a Dom is "Gravity" by Sara Bareilles.  That one carried me about a month.  Or two maybe.  Still bawl like a baby when i hear it:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLHQ4H93P2Q

"I live here on my knees
As I try to make you see
That you're everything I think I need
Here on the ground

But you're neither friend nor foe
Though I can't seem to let you go
The one thing that I still know
Is that you're keeping me down"

i'm so, so sorry.  i really understand.  Hugs you lots................

Julie

*eta the lyrics


< Message edited by UniqueRaven -- 1/7/2010 1:52:30 PM >

_____________________________

"My life has no purpose, no direction, no aim, no meaning, and yet I'm happy. I can't figure it out. What am I doing right?" ~Snoopy (Charles Schultz)

My blog is at http://takinghishand.wordpress.com

(in reply to Elizabeth666)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 1:49:29 PM   
Aileen1968


Posts: 6062
Joined: 12/12/2007
From: I miss Shore, New Jersey
Status: offline 		Bounce back better than ever. Kick ass in your career, life, looks, friends.
You'll find yourself constantly smiling and never looking back.

_____________________________



(in reply to Elizabeth666)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 1:52:13 PM   
UniqueRaven


Posts: 1237
Joined: 9/30/2009
From: Austin, TX
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Bounce back better than ever. Kick ass in your career, life, looks, friends.
You'll find yourself constantly smiling and never looking back.


Ditto. 


_____________________________

"My life has no purpose, no direction, no aim, no meaning, and yet I'm happy. I can't figure it out. What am I doing right?" ~Snoopy (Charles Schultz)

My blog is at http://takinghishand.wordpress.com

(in reply to Aileen1968)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 1:54:40 PM   
Elizabeth666


Posts: 288
Joined: 10/14/2009
Status: offline 		This is my facebook status lol

"You know what? Fuck this shit. Why am I sitting here crying? I'm a smart, fun, loving, good looking woman who any guy would feel LUCKY to have! I have my flaws, but so fucking what? I am ME. I do what I can, I give what I am able and if that's not good enough? Fine. To all the guys who have ever hurt me, dumped me, made me feel unworthy. Look at me, Take a good look. Because none of you have it, or will ever have have it again."

I think I shall live by that for now.

_____________________________

"The truth that many people never understand, until it is too late, is that the more you try to avoid suffering, the more you suffer because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you in proportion to your fear of being hurt"

(in reply to UniqueRaven)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 1:55:28 PM   
littlewonder


Posts: 15659
Status: offline 		I move on.

I don't cry or get upset over it when people do not wish to be with me. I figure it's not worth the time or effort to bother.

Would you really wanna be with someone who doesn't want you? Especially when he only has the balls to do it through email?

Move on with your life and know that you deserve better.

Edit to add:

But also don't go all bitter and cold towards life and other men either. When you do that he's won. Be better than that. Continue to open up to others. Continue to live your life with heart.


< Message edited by littlewonder -- 1/7/2010 1:57:40 PM >

(in reply to UniqueRaven)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 2:00:26 PM   
Elizabeth666


Posts: 288
Joined: 10/14/2009
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven

And that's the longer answer: 

Cry, with a lot of red wine, sitting on the deck and looking at the lake for, oh, about a year or so, give or take.  Wash, rinse, repeat, alternate with yoga.

A good crying song over a Dom is "Gravity" by Sara Bareilles.  That one carried me about a month.  Or two maybe.  Still bawl like a baby when i hear it:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLHQ4H93P2Q

"I live here on my knees
As I try to make you see
That you're everything I think I need
Here on the ground

But you're neither friend nor foe
Though I can't seem to let you go
The one thing that I still know
Is that you're keeping me down"

i'm so, so sorry.  i really understand.  Hugs you lots................

Julie

*eta the lyrics



Thanks :)
I'm going to have to listen to that

_____________________________

"The truth that many people never understand, until it is too late, is that the more you try to avoid suffering, the more you suffer because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you in proportion to your fear of being hurt"

(in reply to UniqueRaven)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 2:03:22 PM   
windchymes


Posts: 9410
Joined: 4/18/2005
Status: offline 		When I was younger I'd have felt devastated, I'm sure, but now, I just shrug and feel glad I'm not with someone who doesn't have the balls to break up with me properly, i.e. in person, or, if it is long-distance, at least by phone.  The only things worse are the ones who just *poof* with no explanation at all.

On to the next one!!! 

_____________________________

You know it's going to be a GOOD blow job when she puts a Breathe Right strip on first.

Pick-up artists and garbage men should trade names.

(in reply to littlewonder)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 2:03:24 PM   
Elizabeth666


Posts: 288
Joined: 10/14/2009
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Bounce back better than ever. Kick ass in your career, life, looks, friends.
You'll find yourself constantly smiling and never looking back.


I will try, and I will succeed.

Thank You

_____________________________

"The truth that many people never understand, until it is too late, is that the more you try to avoid suffering, the more you suffer because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you in proportion to your fear of being hurt"

(in reply to Aileen1968)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 2:04:28 PM   
Elizabeth666


Posts: 288
Joined: 10/14/2009
Status: offline
quote:

But also don't go all bitter and cold towards life and other men either. When you do that he's won. Be better than that. Continue to open up to others. Continue to live your life with heart.


No worries there :)

_____________________________

"The truth that many people never understand, until it is too late, is that the more you try to avoid suffering, the more you suffer because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you in proportion to your fear of being hurt"

(in reply to Elizabeth666)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 2:07:00 PM   
divi


Posts: 11109
Joined: 9/4/2007
Status: offline 		imho... he sounds like a douche. He is a coward who needed an email to break up with you..blah. Move on to someone better. Good luck !!

_____________________________

( imho )

I really could use a wish right now

(in reply to Elizabeth666)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 2:16:39 PM   
Jeffff


Posts: 12600
Joined: 7/7/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Bounce back better than ever. Kick ass in your career, life, looks, friends.
You'll find yourself constantly smiling and never looking back.



Sound advice..........but coming from you?...... blech


Love

Jeff

_____________________________

"If you don't live it, it won't come out your horn." Charlie Parker

(in reply to Aileen1968)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 2:21:08 PM   
LafayetteLady


Posts: 7683
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Northern New Jersey
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Elizabeth666

What do you do when your D type dumps you?

Even if it was through EMAIL!

/end rant

Question still stands though



I'm so sorry. That was a very immature thing for him to do, regardless of being a dom or not. Comfort yourself that next time, you will find yourself a better man.

(in reply to Elizabeth666)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 2:23:59 PM   
divi


Posts: 11109
Joined: 9/4/2007
Status: offline 		Does he have a really hot best friend or Brother you could sleep with lol jk

_____________________________

( imho )

I really could use a wish right now

(in reply to LafayetteLady)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: Dumped? - 1/7/2010 2:28:25 PM   
Elizabeth666


Posts: 288
Joined: 10/14/2009
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady


quote:

ORIGINAL: Elizabeth666

What do you do when your D type dumps you?

Even if it was through EMAIL!

/end rant

Question still stands though



I'm so sorry. That was a very immature thing for him to do, regardless of being a dom or not. Comfort yourself that next time, you will find yourself a better man.


Thanks :)

_____________________________

"The truth that many people never understand, until it is too late, is that the more you try to avoid suffering, the more you suffer because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you in proportion to your fear of being hurt"

(in reply to LafayetteLady)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2 3 4   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> Dumped? Page: [1] 2 3 4   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.094