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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/23/2006 8:45:52 AM

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I am looking for people to share their stories with me by completing a BDSM survey. If you areinterested, please reply here or email me.

Thank you!

I would be willing to participate.

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/23/2006 8:59:02 AM

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depending on what the survey entails I would be willing to answer it. I won't go into lengthy detail though.

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/23/2006 12:42:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: MsCesca

I am looking for people to share their stories with me by completing a BDSM survey. If you areinterested, please reply here or email me.

Thank you!

i dont get it. whats the big secret? just post the freakin thing in polls and random stupidity so we can all see what it is and decide from there if we want to participate.

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/23/2006 1:17:46 PM

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I routinely get in pissing contests on alt because of this type of agressive behavior, I am not doing that here. If you would like to participate email me. Thanks Teego. RealOne, never mind.

And the offer of a CV was tongue in cheek. Unfortunately, I am a in a profession in which being kinky can truly bite me in the ass. It is hard enough having a female primary partner in my job.

So maybe I will see you at some scientific meeting, if not... cheers.

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/23/2006 1:33:46 PM

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Wow.

What I think happened in this thread is the OP made their request. Some, questioning the motives and validity of this, ask simple questions, which is of course the right and proper thing to do. A third person jumped in off topic and brought about an atmosphere of contention, thus when the OP returned she felt slighted and got a bit aggressive.

A shame.

If the third party had not come in and created this contentious atmosphere (innocently I'm sure, not their intention it just happened.) I bet this Q&A would have been much more congenial.

Gosh, thanks for clearing all that up. I was about to lose some serious sleep......

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/23/2006 1:44:07 PM

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What do you mean? Real one never mind? I think real one came up with the perfect answer, post it and let those of us who read it and choose to respond do so.

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/23/2006 1:53:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: MsCesca

And the offer of a CV was tongue in cheek. Unfortunately, I am a in a profession in which being kinky can truly bite me in the ass. It is hard enough having a female primary partner in my job.

Yet you are planning on writing a book? I salute your courage.

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/23/2006 2:19:03 PM

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I will help you. get in touch.

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/24/2006 3:56:57 PM

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Look.

This is my project and I will distribute it how I want. IF you want to participate, great. Email me. If not, great, move on.

But I am not going to release a lot of work in a general forum like this where, frankly, some of you could use some lessons in manners. I don't want it picked over and debated like this simple request has been.

And yes I am planning on writing a book. Publishing is publishing in my field. I will be proud to put my name on this when it is finished.

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/24/2006 3:59:49 PM

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I'll take the survey!

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/24/2006 5:31:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: MsCesca

Look.

This is my project and I will distribute it how I want. IF you want to participate, great. Email me. If not, great, move on.

I can't move on; Edmund Burke and Rev. Martin Niemoller won't let me.

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And yes I am planning on writing a book. Publishing is publishing in my field. I will be proud to put my name on this when it is finished.

And I thought you were a biologist. I've been on a number of tenure/promotion committees and one thing that's always a matter for contention is professional vs popularization, with popularization counting as a small fraction of peer reviewed work. As I recall. Isaac Asimov's tenure request was endangered by "failure to publish," meaning, of course, in tenured journals and through approved houses. It's not bad for a soft scientist to succeed in an off-field non-juried publication... but for a hard scientist to do so with a soft-science book? Heck, I got flak when I co-wrote Determinants of Parole Success for the Second Correctional Symposium since it was "out of field."

Do you expect to make so much on the book you can endow a chair? After all if you are going to out yourself on the cover of the book, the evils you expect to have happen if you do so here will only be multiplied exponentially.

I suspect you'll curry a number of exhibitionist types, but I think this little notestream has gone a way toward to full disclosure for those who have had a trusting nature.

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/24/2006 5:48:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: ProtagonistLily
Gosh, thanks for clearing all that up. I was about to lose some serious sleep......

K

Well, I am glad that you will be well rested then.

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/24/2006 5:58:58 PM

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Perhaps one of the boards should be devoted to posting stories/ fantasy's/ anecdotes/ etc? Or is there one already that I've just overlooked?

Let's keep it friendly people!

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/24/2006 6:05:44 PM

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she just asked a simple question... (didn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out).

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/24/2006 6:07:06 PM

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I like doing surveys. :)

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/24/2006 6:36:13 PM

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I am currently not in a tenure track position, but am a sabatical replacement. I have a PhD in bio and a JD. It is the JD that worries me with being out in the kink world. I am sitting for the bar soon and my application can be denied for character and fitness reasons.

Because of my non traditional background I have published or will soon publish in many different fields. I really don't think it will hurt me to do this book. And I could always not put it on my CV.

In any case there will not be a book unless I can get some feedback.

Cheers.

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/24/2006 6:57:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: MsCesca

I am currently not in a tenure track position, but am a sabatical replacement. I have a PhD in bio and a JD. It is the JD that worries me with being out in the kink world. I am sitting for the bar soon and my application can be denied for character and fitness reasons.

Because of my non traditional background I have published or will soon publish in many different fields. I really don't think it will hurt me to do this book. And I could always not put it on my CV.

In any case there will not be a book unless I can get some feedback.

Cheers.

Ma'am i'll take Your survey. On Your JD? Good luck i concur that You will be scrutinized before receiving it. Are You taking it this summer, or sooner?

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/25/2006 1:57:17 PM

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Thanks angelic.. I have emailed you... this summer!!

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/26/2006 4:59:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsCesca
I routinely get in pissing contests on alt because of this type of agressive behavior, I am not doing that here. If you would like to participate email me. Thanks Teego. RealOne, never mind.

hey whatever you think will work for ya! seems to me that you are in several pissing contests with this approach as well. should be an interesting book! "How to get into pissing contests on bdsm sites for dummies"

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RE: share your BDSM experiences with me... - 3/26/2006 9:20:25 AM

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You are so clever.

Grow up.

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