quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetboundesire

quote:

ORIGINAL: Drifa

Unless that guy has some serious back or neck injury that makes it painful for him to eat pussy, then at least occasionally he ought to deliver.

lmao! no he's an athelete. He told me once again over the phone yesterday that he does do this with other women but has not felt compelled to do it with me. He likes to do what he likes to do when were together, which are many things he will never do with his vanilla girls, there is no script, no real advanced, "here is what I will do." I don't think he understands the importance of this act to me and I think even when he does, I care more and will be hurt more than he when it's over. I can't go on like this. It's a mental thing. It changes things. I've never felt turned off about us till now. So anyway, my heart is preparing.

(funny side note: when I go to this thread, Lords of Acid's "Pussy" song starts to play in my head! lol)

quote:

ORIGINAL: divi

I agree with the sexy redhead... He sounds extremely annoying and I would be insulted if he did it with others and not me.  I love  getting my pussy licked and the only excuse I would except was if he didn't have a tongue.  Throw that loser to the curb

quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Seriously, this guy is really annoying. You sound like a smart lady; you do not need to compromise anything to get what you want. I would rather not be with anyone, than be with someone who does not care about what is important to me.

By the way, the fact that he keeps telling you he does this with other women and not you? I would be so OUT of there. I am glad you are turned off to him, keep that feeling up and your self respect will kick in.

quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO

OP:
I think it is most unfortunate and disrespectful you have told so much about your Dom and your relationship on here..as the thread progressed..
Unless of course he knows.
 GM

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO

OP:
I think it is most unfortunate and disrespectful you have told so much about your Dom and your relationship on here..as the thread progressed..
Unless of course he knows.
 GM

I feel the same on that subject.  Besides making Him look bad, it makes her look bad too for telling such private things.  Were I a Dominant, I would think twice aboutbeing with a submissive that tells so much to others.

quote:

ORIGINAL: DomImus

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied
Standard dominant thinking will sometimes result in a submissive finding a more pleasing dominant.

At which point domination essentially becomes a farce.

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO

OP:
I think it is most unfortunate and disrespectful you have told so much about your Dom and your relationship on here..as the thread progressed..
Unless of course he knows.
 GM

I feel the same on that subject.  Besides making Him look bad, it makes her look bad too for telling such private things.  Were I a Dominant, I would think twice aboutbeing with a submissive that tells so much to others.

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO

OP:
I think it is most unfortunate and disrespectful you have told so much about your Dom and your relationship on here..as the thread progressed..
Unless of course he knows.
 GM

I feel the same on that subject.  Besides making Him look bad, it makes her look bad too for telling such private things.  Were I a Dominant, I would think twice aboutbeing with a submissive that tells so much to others.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO

OP:
I think it is most unfortunate and disrespectful you have told so much about your Dom and your relationship on here..as the thread progressed..
Unless of course he knows.
 GM

I feel the same on that subject.  Besides making Him look bad, it makes her look bad too for telling such private things.  Were I a Dominant, I would think twice aboutbeing with a submissive that tells so much to others.

Sadly, this girl came here looking for advice. She is new and wasn't sure if his was a common thought or not. She DID try to speak with him about it, she did her part for communication and kept hitting the wall of "this is how D/s works, as the sub, you must accept that."

There is no way to get the answers she needed without divulging the information she did. Even the fact that she told us he does imbibe in cunninglingus was because most were advising that maybe he didn't know how, or didn't like it. Over and over, she has not bad mouthed him, but talked about how in every other way she thinks he has been great (that certainly isn't disrespectful).

It's all fine and dandy to say that someone shouldn't disrespect their partner by talking about it on here. But how else would she get answers to her questions when she has already repeatedly tried to discuss it with him and gets the "this is D/s, deal with it" speech?

GM I always look forward to the insightful, thoughtful things that you say and sweetsub1957, you know I adore you, but what else was she supposed to do? Again, remember, she attempted the communication with her partner, so advising her to do that is redundant. Talk with her friends? Well technically that is the same as talking with us, although if her friends are more vanilla bent, they wouldn't understand the situation at all. Put on her big girl panties and just figure it out on her own? If that is what everyone should be doing, what the hell is the point of these boards?

quote:

ORIGINAL: breatheasone

quote:

ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO

OP:
I think it is most unfortunate and disrespectful you have told so much about your Dom and your relationship on here..as the thread progressed..
Unless of course he knows.
 GM

I feel the same on that subject.  Besides making Him look bad, it makes her look bad too for telling such private things.  Were I a Dominant, I would think twice aboutbeing with a submissive that tells so much to others.

Sadly, this girl came here looking for advice. She is new and wasn't sure if his was a common thought or not. She DID try to speak with him about it, she did her part for communication and kept hitting the wall of "this is how D/s works, as the sub, you must accept that."

There is no way to get the answers she needed without divulging the information she did. Even the fact that she told us he does imbibe in cunninglingus was because most were advising that maybe he didn't know how, or didn't like it. Over and over, she has not bad mouthed him, but talked about how in every other way she thinks he has been great (that certainly isn't disrespectful).

It's all fine and dandy to say that someone shouldn't disrespect their partner by talking about it on here. But how else would she get answers to her questions when she has already repeatedly tried to discuss it with him and gets the "this is D/s, deal with it" speech?

GM I always look forward to the insightful, thoughtful things that you say and sweetsub1957, you know I adore you, but what else was she supposed to do? Again, remember, she attempted the communication with her partner, so advising her to do that is redundant. Talk with her friends? Well technically that is the same as talking with us, although if her friends are more vanilla bent, they wouldn't understand the situation at all. Put on her big girl panties and just figure it out on her own? If that is what everyone should be doing, what the hell is the point of these boards?

i'm glad you said this LafayetteLady, When i was brand new to this, i literally didn't know anything. i honestly didn't know, if in this realm, women did drop to their knees when a man said so.... Am i stupid? NO!....i just didn't know if it was VERY different here, or no different just kinky. i knew nothing, and i had zero people in real life to talk to. i did make some online friends that i made a point to meet in person a few times, but i didn't have a support structure of ANY kind in this ....Any way, i was grateful for the few nice people, that helped me when i needed it...i STILL remember who they are, and some are regular posters here.

quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO
IF it was a male sub going on and on about not getting his cock sucked he would have been slapped to shit long ago..
GM

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetboundesire

came here for answers. I can hide my picture and I'm not revealing him. I just had to know this answer. I'm new. There are many private things I have read here. I would never put his face or name up. I needed answers I thank you all, except that dimwit domiguy. Anyway.

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

poor sweetboundesire and all of Packer nation.  They are both so disappointed at this point in their seasons.

quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO

IF it was a male sub going on and on about not getting his cock sucked he would have been slapped to shit long ago..
GM