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Found the perfect subboy here. - 3/22/2006 7:24:12 PM   
Flame73


Posts: 49
Joined: 7/6/2004
Status: offline 		I was contacted by a young switch on here some months ago, We met and had a bit of chemistry, so We decided to see where that took Us. He's since decided to give up domination for awhile and see how far his submissive needs go. Just this week he was offered and took My collar. I couldn't be more pleased. My boy wolfie is sincere, obedient, pleasing and very open-minded. I've been documenting Our scenes in My profile journal and I forsee an exciting future for Us.
I am a Switch with 14 years in the lifestyle, married to My Dom. I have been happily living the poly lifestyle for almost 10 years now. I have had several long-tern Domme/sub realtionships in the past. I think CM is a great forun for meeting like minded friends and potential playmates. It's all a matter of patience and asking the right questions.

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RE: Found the perfect subboy here. - 3/23/2006 5:35:29 PM   
Aimtoplease101


Posts: 319
Joined: 2/8/2006
From: San Diego, California
Status: offline 		Out of curiosity, what was it about his profile/ contact that made you decide to give him a chance?

Regards,
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RE: Found the perfect subboy here. - 3/23/2006 5:43:16 PM   
fastlane


Posts: 2159
Joined: 5/26/2005
Status: offline 		very cool...rock on!

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RE: Found the perfect subboy here. - 3/23/2006 7:53:34 PM   
rohitsubbie


Posts: 4
Joined: 3/23/2006
Status: offline 		Greetings to A/all

I am an engineer by profession but a true sub by heart..body and soul..searching for a true MIstress...wish that my search end up this century..:-)

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RE: Found the perfect subboy here. - 3/29/2006 9:34:12 PM   
Flame73


Posts: 49
Joined: 7/6/2004
Status: offline 		In answer to aimtoplease's queary. It was a number of things. The completeness of his initial contact, outlining what he was searching for, his experience, what he was drawn to by my profile, questions about My fetishes and My perferences. His message was well thought out, grammatically correct and lacked any hint of disrespect.
I have to admit I find messages with the phrases "please use me," "no limit slut," and "live only to serve You," in initial contacts annoying. This is because no self-respecting Mistress/Domme would consider using someone based upon a note that reads like a description on a cheap porno. I often respond to the claim of  "no limit slut" with the statement that I have a castration fantasy I'd like to live out, when could they meet with Me to satisfy it. I find the declaration of living only to serve Me insulting in the extreme. I do not wish or desire the service of someone who does not have the intelligence, presence of mind, or class to first get to know Me. This is the ultimate announcement of a totally clueless individual.
I also found his honesty about past bad experiences and his misgivings We discussed prior to meeting refreshing. It made him a real person in My eyes, before I'd ever met him.
So in short, the things that most influence Me is honesty, realism, curiosity and the willingness to invest "getting to know" time, as much as needed to establish a framework of understanding.

Ms Flame, owner of wolfie

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RE: Found the perfect subboy here. - 4/3/2006 11:15:36 PM   
wolfieswitch


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Joined: 12/5/2005
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It really was a blessing finding Mistress here on collarme.  it was by no means easy or quick finding someone that i really clicked with and felt at home talking to.  We exchanged a few e-mails on here before starting to chat on messenger and it went from there.  Feel free to keep up with our adventures under Her profile (Flame73).

It is a bonus that this site is free (ad-driven of course) and that there are no special restrictions put on males versus females.  Keep up the good work on the site!

Another aspect that needs to be addressed for aimtoplease:
look to make sure you are compatible with someone on different levels before sending a message.  Make sure you thoroughly read their profile.  Outline some of the things you see that are in common for loves... likes... and dislikes.  i believe that in my original letter to Mistress i outlined some of our common desires and made sure that i checked it for small things like proper formal formatting (including salutation and closing), spelling, and grammer issues.  Good luck in your search...

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RE: Found the perfect subboy here. - 4/4/2006 8:40:01 PM   
MsSimone


Posts: 119
Joined: 7/15/2004
From: Chicago,Illinois
Status: offline 		Congratulations! That is wonderful for you both. It can be so hard to find one whom you mesh with. I am still searching for that right boy. And I agree ,the completeness of the initial contact and sincerity go along way to impress us Mistresses. One liners just do not cut it. Why should I bother?

Mistress Simone

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RE: Found the perfect subboy here. - 4/11/2006 4:55:01 PM   
LadyEsenem


Posts: 24
Joined: 1/27/2006
Status: offline 		That's wonderful!

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RE: Found the perfect subboy here. - 4/15/2006 6:26:47 PM   
LadyAlexa


Posts: 141
Joined: 1/2/2005
Status: offline 		wolfie...
very good comments.     I agree with Flame about the one liners that we get.   Why should we bother even acknowledging them?  Especially when you realize they haven't read the entire profile.

wolfie...Flame is fortunate that you took the time to review, understand, and compose a true email.  

I always wonder when subs will learn!  What amuses me more, are those that have already contacted me before and I've responded saying no thanks, then they contact me again months later.

Good luck
Alexa
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