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Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 3:28:48 PM

LadyOddsworth

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What are some of your favorite non sexual power exchange activities?

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 3:49:52 PM

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 4:30:02 PM

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I'm not sure if this is what you mean, but I love being at dinner at someone else's house with my boyfriend and taking care of his needs--getting his drinks, clearing his plates, etc. It's a little thing, but it makes me feel very connected to him and very submissive.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 4:32:50 PM

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Can't come up with a thing...everything tends to end with us fucking.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 4:36:49 PM

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quote:

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I'm not sure if this is what you mean, but I love being at dinner at someone else's house with my boyfriend and taking care of his needs--getting his drinks, clearing his plates, etc. It's a little thing, but it makes me feel very connected to him and very submissive.

Yes these types of things are what I am looking for... Some like to give foot rubs, some to do dishes or draw baths.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 4:38:45 PM

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I always walk to his left and just a slight step behind.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 5:07:35 PM

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i love it when i overhear people saying to others or to my husband how i take care of him and that they are jealous of how well i treat him. They all want to know how what his secret is. He just smiles.

i love attending to his every whim especially when others are around. It gives me a thrill and it makes him happy.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 5:40:43 PM

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i love it when i overhear people saying to others or to my husband how i take care of him and that they are jealous of how well i treat him. They all want to know how what his secret is. He just smiles.

i love attending to his every whim especially when others are around. It gives me a thrill and it makes him happy.

This reminds me of something that happened over the holidays. We were with another couple and my boyfriend finished his drink and without either of us saying anything, I got up and made him another one. The other man said to his wife, "Look, he didn't even say anything and she's refreshing his drink. Why don't you do that?" It did give me a litte thrill.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 5:43:21 PM

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I scratch Him...head, face, back. Its HIS favorite thing anyway. MY favorite thing is just seeing Him smile at me and hearing Him say 'good girl'.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 6:21:50 PM

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Proof reading his letters and doing research for him. Laundry is just not fun.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 6:27:43 PM

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Can't come up with a thing...everything tends to end with us fucking.

Best. Answer. Evah!

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 6:41:45 PM

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Waiting on him, getting his drinks, making his dinner, doing his laundry cleaning his house, giving him a massage.....anything to please him.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 7:01:28 PM

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Bringing him tea in a chilled mug when he comes in from work.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 7:01:56 PM

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I work a professional job and my salary goes into My Lady's account, and she gives me an allowance. I also am a great back scratcher and foot rubber.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 8:58:04 PM

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Waiting on him, getting his drinks, making his dinner, doing his laundry cleaning his house, giving him a massage.....and then fucking

OK, I stand corrected.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 9:01:28 PM

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]i love it when i overhear people saying to others or to my husband how i take care of him and that they are jealous of how well i treat him. They all want to know how what his secret is. He just smiles.

I love that Dominant smile. It also comes into play when a Dominant man is surrounded by a bunch of vanilla men griping about their wives, saying they can't get a blow job, or telling a misanthropic joke, where the punch line amounts to, men must obey to get pussy. while all the other men are nodding, there is one just smiling, keeping his thoughts to himself. Get his number.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 10:40:44 PM

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Gunfights. Nothing like a good gunfight to settle once and for all who's boss.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 10:45:46 PM

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We talk. And we play cribbage. and we talk. And we have fun going to the RV shows and other things...and we have fun getting together with friends for happy hour...and we have fun.....we have fun....

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/17/2010 11:12:24 PM

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1.Cuddling in bed.
2. Enjoying breakfast together.
3. Waking up at night with someone who is COLD.
4. Loving someone.....caring no matter what...just loving without discrimination,

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 4:01:27 AM

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When He come in, i undo His shoe laces and take His shoes off........LOVE IT! Also foot rubs, sitting at His feet watching TV, getting Him drinks, hearing Him say Good girl, Good puppy, or Good slave.....knowing something that i have done has pleased Him no matter how vanilla! Oh oh and also being in public and the way He treats me in an ever so subtle way, differently from the way Oour vanilla friends treat their partners *happy sighs*

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