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tsatske -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 5:34:58 PM)
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Is your laughter helping you find a third? because there is some very good advice in this thread.
I am not what you want, as I said before. But, I go out of my way to make sure people know that. And, in the course of searching, I do not write Doms who mention one time politely, something like - searching for HWP, or 'very active, need some one fit enough to join me in my daily run', ect. You go overboard, and, in addition to keeping me and other fatties from writing you, doubtless turn off many women who are up to your physcal standards, but don't like the prejudice and animosity.
Another piece of advice - joining a third is a riskier proposition even than a single, monogamous romantic attempt. When I date a guy, I always ask about his exes. If he is still full of hate and venom, I move on. I am looking for a mature attitude, 'It didn't work. It happens. as much my fault as hers.', ect.
when I read that you took the time to post a 'warning' against a submissive woman on this site - calling her out by name (Which is, btw, against TOS, I will be reporting your journal entry), my imagination goes to what it would be like to try to become part of your relaitonship - i think, this is a couple hard to join - and if i were to fail, obviously there would be anger and venom aimed my way - why would I risk that?
As someone said, you might want to try pointing out what you are looking for in terms of the relaitonship - a beta sub, an equal sister, someoen considered secondary, a slave to both? someone to live in? children? ect, ect.
Although it is perfectly clear from your posts that you were board on Sunday night and simply trolling, as not only was your question desighned as bait, but your responses have shown no interest in the actual helpful suggestions you have been given.
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