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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 6:36:12 PM

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As I have been judged a bigot: to judge without any knowledge is the biggest bigotry All

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 6:36:45 PM

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Rudyard Kipling states in "IF"...if you can hear your words twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools....Most of you have proven his words to be true..Attack Us as you wish....
Thank You Kindly

He also wrote Man in the Mirror, which I would advise you to take a close look at.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 6:41:56 PM

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Id like to thank you A/all for your input...Its been invaluable

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 6:43:55 PM

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As I have been judged a bigot: to judge without any knowledge is the biggest bigotry All

First off, you judged all overweight people without knowledge Of the individuals as people. Secondly, we judged you by your tone and your words. You supplied us with our knowledge about you by what you conveyed as important to you. Your bigotry got you in trouble and your "stinkin thinkin" stands in your own way. Nothing else. Well that and the fact that you want perfection when you are not all that attractive yourselves. A great personality can make up for a lot in the looks department but your personality just made you even uglier than mere physical appearance alone.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 6:45:02 PM

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You need to love your wife. You need to ask yourself every day how you can make her pleased to have you as a husband.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 6:54:42 PM

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Taursub here... The wife... I have been listening over the shoulder for most of the nite...I realize that Domtaur may not be the most politically correct person you know...However you may be it taking this too hard. I understand that He may be a bit harsh on the outside...We may not be anywhere near the most beautiful couple or anything else...I am dismayed that when Domtaur asked for help I received the bashing from some as well. We all love someone that may have some flaws. ..However you have provided a lot of insight for me.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 6:57:51 PM

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Taursub here... The wife... I have been listening over the shoulder for most of the nite...I realize that Domtaur may not be the most politically correct person you know...However you may be it taking this too hard. I understand that He may be a bit harsh on the outside...We may not be anywhere near the most beautiful couple or anything else...I am dismayed that when Domtaur asked for help I received the bashing from some as well. We all love someone that may have some flaws. ..However you have provided a lot of insight for me.

Your posts are as fat with dots as those of your husband. Who do you think that you are fooling? You are a mean, manipulative liar.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 7:00:28 PM

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Not politically correct? How about not even a reasonable or a balanced person who really wishes to know something and coming in with his mind set on how we would react, what we all looked like and that smug, opinionated disrespect he showed, just showed him for what he was.

You enable him.

There isn't anything that he has said that shows a man fair, balanced and seeking assistance. He showed that he wasn't fair, even if he has his likes and dislikes, wasn't balanced in attitude, expectation or reasonable placement for a question and he wasn't seeking assistance but to insult and bring on a passive aggressive, humiliation sesson.

Blame these people if you like... but nothing about any of your post... his or your own, was emotionally sound or socially acceptable, to skinny or fat folks.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 7:01:01 PM

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Rudyard Kipling states in "IF"...if you can hear your words twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools....Most of you have proven his words to be true..Attack Us as you wish....
Thank You Kindly

"Knave" isn't the same as "someone who disagrees with you."

There was a lot of good advice here, neatly summed up by peppermint. However, your dom ignored that, for the most part, and was a sterling example of the differences between "not politically correct" and "asshatery". There are many ways, described by many people here, to indicate your preferences without being asshats.

Even if your profile wasn't obnoxious, the journal entries are. Those would've turned me off altogether.

another of the "fat and working out" crew

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 7:01:11 PM

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quote:

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Taursub here... The wife... I have been listening over the shoulder for most of the nite...I realize that Domtaur may not be the most politically correct person you know...However you may be it taking this too hard. I understand that He may be a bit harsh on the outside...We may not be anywhere near the most beautiful couple or anything else...I am dismayed that when Domtaur asked for help I received the bashing from some as well. We all love someone that may have some flaws. ..However you have provided a lot of insight for me.

And are you ok with what he said here? He disrespected a lot of people. if thats the kind of man you want, have at it. But if one has to figure out a problem, the fist place to look at is the internal, not the external.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 7:01:33 PM

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Taursub, Sorry about the dots i do not sure the internet much

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 7:02:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Domtaur

Taursub here... The wife... I have been listening over the shoulder for most of the nite...I realize that Domtaur may not be the most politically correct person you know...However you may be it taking this too hard. I understand that He may be a bit harsh on the outside...We may not be anywhere near the most beautiful couple or anything else...I am dismayed that when Domtaur asked for help I received the bashing from some as well. We all love someone that may have some flaws. ..However you have provided a lot of insight for me.

Taursub, please let me be the first to apologize for hurting you. I shouldn't have. The things your husband said hurt others, and, he implied (imo) that you and he were perfect.

None of us are.

He totally rubbed me the wrong way. I do hope that he is more forgiving of your flaws and his, than he is of others.

I would respectfully suggest that he and/or you if you feel the same, learn to love first, and judge only when necessary.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 7:05:12 PM

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Thank you all for your input no matter how negative and unhelpful.. the fact that most Americans or overweight and apathetic
is not by my doing, and i dont MEAN to sound superior , but the fact that most of you think so, reads greatly to your own issues...and We've been together for 28 yrs , as most of you have not . just because we arent turned on by like fat obese people , dont judge us....
For a person to ask help and to be judged and not helped when asking for such rds greatly into a community thats supposed to be so free....So what if we arent attracted to 6 X 6s in a sexual sense...no reason to jump down our throats....go on a freakin diet and exercise ya fat fucks...I wont apologise for what I am, not like im asking for apologies from any of you...If any of you can cut copy and paste an EMAIL I sent to you...you might have some room to judge...If not get back on your self righteous horse and RIDE INTO THE SUNSET

Oh my where to start. The fashion I think. The poly blend sparkly Fashion Bug dress and the 80's double breasted blazer....hideous. Your grammar is atrocious, I can't believe your attitude being delivered by two such well....not even average looking people. Oh, and whomever is playing with the hitachi, please wax that ass and bleach your little starfish, very offputting.

Any further advice, please feel free to ask.

Aynne~ Fashion and anal consultant.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 7:05:35 PM

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and my typos & possible spelling

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 7:07:42 PM

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What he said is what he is looking for i am a sub. I have many friends in and outside the lifestyle of many races and many sizes. I am not Domtaur I an taursub

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 7:11:11 PM

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Obvisouly we are not perfect. I understand how that can happen. (being rubbed the wrong ay) He is HARSH & ROUGH but to know him is to love him and he does soften up. Breaking through that hard exterior is not easy

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 7:11:28 PM

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What he said is what he is looking for i am a sub. I have many friends in and outside the lifestyle of many races and many sizes. I am not Domtaur I an taursub

So indirectly you are saying he is wrong and you disagree with him?

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 7:12:12 PM

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Funny... in your profile... when he is speaking or writing... the words and such are typed a certain way and change when the submissive is speaking/typing. What is being typed here... isn't lining up with that difference. The person who wrote most of the profile isn't the one claiming to be sub here... yet is on the profile.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 7:13:00 PM

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Your posts are as fat with dots as those of your husband. Who do you think that you are fooling? You are a mean, manipulative liar.

Hold your cards. We have a bingo.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 7:13:36 PM

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Domtaur,

You have a preference for thin partners. Everyone on this forum will support your right to have a preference whether it is for redheads, black, white, Asian, older, younger, etc. No one will say you can't have a preference. You can put that preference in your profile as in "only height and weight proportional females need apply." No one will put you down for having that preference, in fact we will support your right to do so.

However, when you try to make yourself look more inviting by putting down a certain group, you only succeed in making yourself unappealing. Rather than choosing to show us what an articulate and intelligent person you are, you preferred to put down people you have never met. This shows a lack of CHARACTER. Character, honesty, and integrity are qualities most submissive seek when they are looking for a Dominant. When submissives are asked what they look for in a Dominant they do not reply "thin." They will say something like "great sense of humor" or "Dominant personality" (charisma), or "honesty" or something to do with the person's personality.

People do not come to the forums to brag that they have red hair and that anyone who doesn't is lazy, unintelligent, and a burden on society. People do not come here to brag that they have blue eyes and all other eye colors are inferior.

Do you get the point, OP?

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