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Drifa -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:14:04 PM)

OP, your overall presentation is so bitter and offensive I'm wondering why you even need to ask why you can't find someone.

Just politely mention in your profile that you only want to be contacted by people that are height-weight proportionate and STFU about all the fat people already.




stella41b -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:15:11 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Domtaur

Taursub here... The wife... I have been listening over the shoulder for most of the nite...I realize that Domtaur may not be the most politically  correct person you know...However you may be it taking this too hard.  I understand that He may be a bit harsh on the outside...We may not be anywhere near the most beautiful couple or anything else...I am dismayed that when Domtaur asked for help I received the bashing from some as well.  We all love someone that may have some flaws. ..However you have provided a lot of  insight for me. 


Oh please. Pull the other one, it's got bells on it.

This isn't about being politically correct or 'harsh' (and trust me, neither of you know what 'harsh' really is if this is what you call 'harsh') this is about very basic things called manners, social etiquette, social skills and whether you like it or not, and whether you accept it or not, it's the basic manners and social skills that people assume you are taught by your parents as a toddler which is the oil which greases the cogs and wheels of BDSM.

Now reading the thread it appears you are one of those miserable refugees on the other site and this much I will say to you - you can call people fat all you like, you can call people fake all you like, you can call them whatever you like, you can blame this site, you can blame that other site, but if you really want to know why you cannot find anyone and why you're not getting that extra jiggy jiggy you both need only look in the mirror.

I'm not in the States nor am I American, but your posts on this thread made me stop and think not about how many Americans are overweight, but how many Americans are mentally retarded and just how big the issue of mental retardation in the community in the States might be. If we were to take you at your words here in your postings on this thread alone and accept what you say that you are a nice average couple who take care of themselves and who are well known in the community I'm sorry but it would appear that you have a crisis on your hands.

I'm therefore glad this thread has provided some insight for you. You have consistently upset and offended people right through from the get go.

So how about trying all this again - but this time with very basic manners and consideration for other people?

Or is that too difficult for you both?




RedMagic1 -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:17:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88
please wax that ass and bleach your little starfish, very offputting.

OMG!!!!!

Okay, serious question -- really.  Aynne, do you do that?  I don't know anyone outside the porn industry who cops to doing this.  Do you?

(Meanwhile, I'm trying to talk myself into maybe doing some teeth whitening....)




kittinSol -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:19:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Domtaur

Obvisouly we are not perfect. 



Well, yeah... OBVIOUSLY [sm=biggrin.gif] .




Domtaur -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:19:20 PM)

Good nite all and Thank you
Taursub




wykkidesire2plsU -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:22:46 PM)

Wow. i did not expect the aggressiveness from the OP when i clicked on this one!

i have three thoughts when i read the original post:

1. He revisited being rude over and over almost in a contrived way, so perhaps this was just to flame...

2. That kind of out there full blown over the top arrogance usually is a shield and when i clicked on his picture i saw why.....

3. Superioristic was the word of the day in his "Brain Booster app"...he had to use it three times in a sentence...[;)]




Aynne88 -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:22:53 PM)

lol RedMagic!!! No I don't bleach my winkie eye[;)] but I am a natural redhead so....without divulging too much, it's not necessary ;)

Yes I do get a full brazilian, and no I don't like it, it sucks and it hurts, but He likes it and you know how that goes..[;)].

You crack me up!  I just had to point out how ridiculous their insults were and those were the first things I noticed. Among the many many others I neglected to mention, I am supposed  to be folding laundry not critiquing ass hair, but hey, I gotta be me.




lusciouslips19 -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:24:56 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

lol RedMagic!!! No I don't bleach my winkie eye[;)] but I am a natural redhead so....without divulging too much, it's not necessary ;)

Yes I do get a full brazilian, and no I don't like it, it sucks and it hurts, but He likes it and you know how that goes..[;)].

You crack me up! I just had to point out how ridiculous their insults were and those were the first things I noticed. Among the many many others I neglected to mention, I am supposed to be folding laundry not critiquing ass hair, but hey, I gotta be me.


Well I dont have a dom. So at this point my hair can be braided! [:D]




Domtaur -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:25:09 PM)

All of which you proclaim is taught.Is of the vaniila  indoctrinations of which most rebel against.Isnt it? Enough said.
taursub




lusciouslips19 -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:26:39 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Domtaur

All of which you proclaim is taught.Is of the vaniila indoctrinations of which most rebel against.Isnt it? Enough said.
taursub


Waaaa??????




kittinSol -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:27:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Domtaur
Enough said.


Promise :-) ?




peppermint -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:30:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


quote:

ORIGINAL: Domtaur

All of which you proclaim is taught.Is of the vaniila indoctrinations of which most rebel against.Isnt it? Enough said.
taursub


Waaaa??????


Yeah...me too on the Waaaa??????




Missokyst -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:33:38 PM)

Ok, I get that you are not attracted to fat fu*ks.. but what is keeping the better looking thinner people from joining you?  Surely it could not be your winning personalities!  If you were worth having wouldn't someone have grabbed you up by now?  Maybe you aren't as much of a catch as you think.
*smirk*
quote:

ORIGINAL: Domtaur
So what if we arent attracted to 6 X 6s in a sexual sense...no reason to jump down our throats....go on a freakin diet and exercise ya fat fucks...I wont apologise for what I am, not like im asking for apologies from any of you...




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:33:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: peppermint

quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


quote:

ORIGINAL: Domtaur

All of which you proclaim is taught.Is of the vaniila indoctrinations of which most rebel against.Isnt it? Enough said.
taursub


Waaaa??????


Yeah...me too on the Waaaa??????



Dooood, put down the bottle and back away from the keyboard...




Domtaur -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:43:38 PM)

And if all this was an excerice to prove to a subby that noone would want to join our poly household, I thank you for putting me a ease.

traursub can sleep well tonite




peppermint -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:45:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Domtaur

And if all this was an excerice to prove to a subby that noone would want to join our poly household, I thank you for putting me a ease.

traursub can sleep well tonite


Great!!!  We were all concerned. 




xxblushesxx -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:45:45 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Domtaur

And if all this was an excerice to prove to a subby that noone would want to join our poly household, I thank you for putting me a ease.

traursub can sleep well tonite


Honey,

It's taursub...not traursub.




BratAli19 -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:45:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

quote:

ORIGINAL: Domtaur

My wife and I have been on her for over a year..Im kind, respectful and courteous. I dont send emails like " be my slave bitch"...but no less we cant get a response of any kind...We may not be the most attractive, but we take care of ourselves unlike the majority of overweight or downright obese people on this  and all of the other BDSM sites. So please asssist Us... what are we doing wrong...Or is it that we intimidate the fat and apathetic people that dont think they can make the grade...Or IS BDSM just a way of the fat and obese and downright impotent to get laid, or is this site so laden with fakes and scammers that it doesnt matter at all..
I dont mean to sound in any way superioristic, but someone please enlighten me.. We're active in the local community and many know US to be genuine...
Enlighten US please

DT and LilT
PS: excuse my grammatical and other errors as I might not be as good as the rest of you think you are..
Thnak you for any input, no matter how self aggrandising or superioristic it may be...


See the portions highlighed in red?  This is your problem.  Your words belie your claim that you are courteous and respectful.  You pay lip service to not trying to sound superior, but your elitist attitude comes though loud and clear.  You are so focused on the "fat, lazy, apathetic" people on BDSM sites that it's apparent you not only have an over-inflated sense of superiority and entitlement but are also unrelentingly shallow.  And that's just from your OP, I haven't even gotten to your profile yet.
 
What sub in her right mind would be interested in someone with your attitude?  Never mind the fact that you're a married couple approaching eligibility for AARP and women who want to join and established couple are in notoriously short supply.  (It's called "unicorn hunting" for a reason.)  You've only been searching on this site for a year.  Other people have been here far longer than you without success.  How long did it take you to find your spouse?  Now double that length of time and and you'll have some idea of how long you should expect to wait to find a partner who is compatible with both of you. 
 
What do you have to offer this unicorn that she can't get from someone younger, better looking, with a better personality, and single?  What do you expect of her?  Is she going to be a member of your family, equal in status to your spouse?  Or will she be a "second class citizen" whose emotional and physical needs always come last?  You have a lot of work to do before you can even think about finding another partner.  Start by adjusting your attitude and go from there.


beautifully stated!




RedMagic1 -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:46:02 PM)

Cool.  Glad we could help.  Pleasant dreams.

On to more important matters.....

Sylvere?  There's a VideoAdminAlpha Posse???????




Domtaur -> RE: I need Help Please (1/17/2010 7:46:35 PM)

Concerned? In what way.




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