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I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:07:48 PM   
Domtaur


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Status: offline 		My wife and I have been on her for over a year..Im kind, respectful and courteous. I dont send emails like " be my slave bitch"...but no less we cant get a response of any kind...We may not be the most attractive, but we take care of ourselves unlike the majority of overweight or downright obese people on this  and all of the other BDSM sites. So please asssist Us... what are we doing wrong...Or is it that we intimidate the fat and apathetic people that dont think they can make the grade...Or IS BDSM just a way of the fat and obese and downright impotent to get laid, or is this site so laden with fakes and scammers that it doesnt matter at all..
I dont mean to sound in any way superioristic, but someone please enlighten me.. We're active in the local community and many know US to be genuine...
Enlighten US please

DT and LilT
PS: excuse my grammatical and other errors as I might not be as good as the rest of you think you are..
Thnak you for any input, no matter how self aggrandising or superioristic it may be...
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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:10:56 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		If you come off like you just did, in an email... I wouldn't want to talk to you. How many times did you mention fat? Okay... you don't want fat people... and you might find some good reasons, but if you are going to be so anal, to be offensive... why bother with an ass... that might not carry a huge one behind him/her?

There are ass's and then there are ass's. I'd take the bouncy kind before an attitude like your own.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:12:11 PM   
Jeffff


Posts: 12600
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Status: offline 		I want a hot babe....no fatties...


Love

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:13:56 PM   
osf


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Domtaur

My wife and I have been on her for over a year..Im kind, respectful and courteous. I dont send emails like " be my slave bitch"...but no less we cant get a response of any kind...We may not be the most attractive, but we take care of ourselves unlike the majority of overweight or downright obese people on this  and all of the other BDSM sites. So please asssist Us... what are we doing wrong...Or is it that we intimidate the fat and apathetic people that dont think they can make the grade...Or IS BDSM just a way of the fat and obese and downright impotent to get laid, or is this site so laden with fakes and scammers that it doesnt matter at all..
I dont mean to sound in any way superioristic, but someone please enlighten me.. We're active in the local community and many know US to be genuine...
Enlighten US please

DT and LilT
PS: excuse my grammatical and other errors as I might not be as good as the rest of you think you are..
Thnak you for any input, no matter how self aggrandising or superioristic it may be...


do like i did write a credable profile and journal and then get everybody to hate you and women will hit your profile to see what all the fuss is about

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:15:27 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Oh believe me... they are working on that hate part with all that hate they just put out. Even if he/she hadn't mentioned fat so much.. the whole attitude is just inflamitory.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:17:28 PM   
sinandhoney


Posts: 61
Joined: 7/23/2009
From: Lincoln, NE
Status: offline 		Wow, that wasn't offensive at all. I can't imagine why they aren't lining up at your door.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:18:01 PM   
osf


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

Oh believe me... they are working on that hate part with all that hate they just put out. Even if he/she hadn't mentioned fat so much.. the whole attitude is just inflamitory.


lolololol

if you only knew lolololol

but really thanks for your continuing help lolololol

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:21:35 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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It could just be your approach and how you present yourself. 



My wife and I have been on her for over a year..Im kind, respectful and courteous. I dont send emails like " be my slave bitch"...but no less we cant get a response of any kind...We may not be the most attractive, but we take care of ourselves unlike the majority of overweight or downright obese people on this  and all of the other BDSM sites. So please asssist Us... what are we doing wrong...Or is it that we intimidate the fat and apathetic people that dont think they can make the grade...Or IS BDSM just a way of the fat and obese and downright impotent to get laid, or is this site so laden with fakes and scammers that it doesnt matter at all..
I dont mean to sound in any way superioristic, but someone please enlighten me.. We're active in the local community and many know US to be genuine...
Enlighten US please

DT and LilT
PS: excuse my grammatical and other errors as I might not be as good as the rest of you think you are..
Thnak you for any input, no matter how self aggrandising or superioristic it may be...



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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:23:22 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		osf... they related to you?

Always helpful... Lockit

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:25:12 PM   
Jeffff


Posts: 12600
Joined: 7/7/2007
Status: offline 		How do I put this....... I think they may be looking for a....... rubenesque. woman? ...but are afraid to come right out and say so.

Of course, I could be wrong too.


Jeffwey

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:25:44 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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From: Hell
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Domtaur

My wife and I have been on her for over a year..Im kind, respectful and courteous. I dont send emails like " be my slave bitch"...but no less we cant get a response of any kind...We may not be the most attractive, but we take care of ourselves unlike the majority of overweight or downright obese people on this  and all of the other BDSM sites. So please asssist Us... what are we doing wrong...Or is it that we intimidate the fat and apathetic people that dont think they can make the grade...Or IS BDSM just a way of the fat and obese and downright impotent to get laid, or is this site so laden with fakes and scammers that it doesnt matter at all..
I dont mean to sound in any way superioristic, but someone please enlighten me.. We're active in the local community and many know US to be genuine...
Enlighten US please

DT and LilT
PS: excuse my grammatical and other errors as I might not be as good as the rest of you think you are..
Thnak you for any input, no matter how self aggrandising or superioristic it may be...


See the portions highlighed in red?  This is your problem.  Your words belie your claim that you are courteous and respectful.  You pay lip service to not trying to sound superior, but your elitist attitude comes though loud and clear.  You are so focused on the "fat, lazy, apathetic" people on BDSM sites that it's apparent you not only have an over-inflated sense of superiority and entitlement but are also unrelentingly shallow.  And that's just from your OP, I haven't even gotten to your profile yet.
 
What sub in her right mind would be interested in someone with your attitude?  Never mind the fact that you're a married couple approaching eligibility for AARP and women who want to join and established couple are in notoriously short supply.  (It's called "unicorn hunting" for a reason.)  You've only been searching on this site for a year.  Other people have been here far longer than you without success.  How long did it take you to find your spouse?  Now double that length of time and and you'll have some idea of how long you should expect to wait to find a partner who is compatible with both of you. 
 
What do you have to offer this unicorn that she can't get from someone younger, better looking, with a better personality, and single?  What do you expect of her?  Is she going to be a member of your family, equal in status to your spouse?  Or will she be a "second class citizen" whose emotional and physical needs always come last?  You have a lot of work to do before you can even think about finding another partner.  Start by adjusting your attitude and go from there.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:27:33 PM   
ForeverOwned


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Status: offline 		Beautifully said Lockit.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:29:16 PM   
LafayetteLady


Posts: 7683
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Northern New Jersey
Status: offline 		Are y'all serious? You really don't know why you aren't getting any responses? Check out the responses you get to your post here. If you have half a brain between you, listen to what we all say and adjust your self-righteous attitudes. You say your active in your local community so many know you to be "genuine." I can tell you are "genuine" with your post as well. Genuine assholes.

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:31:07 PM   
Jeffff


Posts: 12600
Joined: 7/7/2007
Status: offline 		Dude and dudette., everyone is entitled to want what they want. Courtesy and presentation mean a great deal.

You also might want to consider more than physical appearance. If that is really important to you, you probably should look up  "escort service" on your local yellow pages.


Jeff
(who wants to beat and bang some one who looks like Angelina Jollie)

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:32:00 PM   
CarrieO


Posts: 2432
Joined: 1/27/2008
Status: offline 		Attitude problem....serious attitude problem.

Big problem....BIG problem.



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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:34:15 PM   
LadyOddsworth


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Joined: 1/2/2010
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Domtaur

My wife and I have been on her for over a year..Im kind, respectful and courteous. I dont send emails like " be my slave bitch"...but no less we cant get a response of any kind...We may not be the most attractive, but we take care of ourselves unlike the majority of overweight or downright obese people on this  and all of the other BDSM sites. So please asssist Us... what are we doing wrong...Or is it that we intimidate the fat and apathetic people that dont think they can make the grade...Or IS BDSM just a way of the fat and obese and downright impotent to get laid, or is this site so laden with fakes and scammers that it doesnt matter at all..
I dont mean to sound in any way superioristic, but someone please enlighten me.. We're active in the local community and many know US to be genuine...
Enlighten US please

DT and LilT
PS: excuse my grammatical and other errors as I might not be as good as the rest of you think you are..
Thnak you for any input, no matter how self aggrandising or superioristic it may be...


I can feel the love....

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:35:55 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		Domtaur, I feel for you and your wife and would like to help.  Look up Belladevine.  The three of you could have some hot hot hot chemistry together.

WinD
Match Maker Extraordinaire

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:36:28 PM   
Aileen1968


Posts: 6062
Joined: 12/12/2007
From: I miss Shore, New Jersey
Status: offline 		I can't even begin to imagine why you're having such difficulties....being so pleasant and non-judgemental and all.
The skinny Nigerian princesses should be all over you.




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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:38:58 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		This thread should be placed right next to the, "why are new posters thread like crap" thread.

It would tie it all up nicely.


Jeff

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RE: I need Help Please - 1/17/2010 4:39:19 PM   
AnimusRex


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Domtaur
Or is it that we intimidate the fat and apathetic people that dont think they can make the grade...


Yes.
Thats it.
You are intimidating all of the fat apathetic chicks who can't make your grade, or hope to be in your presence...

Well that, and your incredible hawtness, and general overall superioritisticness.

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