MsSophie
Posts: 142
Joined: 3/26/2006 From: Stockholm, Sweden Status: offline
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Ah, a lot to go on here; quote:
ORIGINAL: michaelGA what gets me is, there are some Dommes here that actually post in their journals about offering phone donimation for a set amout per minute. if i wanted someone to "tell" me what to do to myself and such, i could do that for free on IRC chat. Of course you can get instructions for free on an IRC chat, but how do you know who is giving the instructions? In my experience, as a woman, there is very little to gain, on a strictly personal level, from sitting and typing wanking material for a total stranger. Call me jaded, but why should I take time from my life to submit to someone else's desires when this gives me absolutely zero satisfaction? And the cruel, crass truth is that most women actually don't derive much pleasure from typing. We do not have a clit in our fingertips. The other crass truth is that it is usually this particular attitude which provokes many "phone dommes" to open up a Niteflirt line and post about it in their journal. Try logging on to any of the larger IM netwroks with a female name and see what happens, you get inundated with insane suggestions of what all these people want you to do to them, and do to you. You may as well charge for the time it takes to shut the IM windows down cause the individuals on the other side cares not one bit for what *you* want and desire. quote:
too bad this allows such things. why don't these ProDommes just use their own website for this form of advertising? This is of course a point. However, personally I think it's better that you can read in the open when someone is expecting a fee for the time you are spending together than sling it on you forteen mails down the line. quote:
and why are the physically attractive ones mostly ProDommes? makes it harder to sort through the BS on this site with all these Pros roaming around. You know Michael, I think the above sentence is rather disturbing. To me, at least, it displays a blatent disregard for womanhood. It objectifies women and seem to indicate that you have some kind of mock version of what a woman should be in your head and expect everyone to live up to it. Have you got any idea how much time, effort and money goes into the "dream domme" image? Who do you suggest should pay for this fantasy creation? Is it every dominant womans duty to maintain this image or should it be done by those who crave it? Take a look at my picture, wheather you have a preference for my body type or not it's a bloody good picture which to a lot of people is appealing, if not desirable. This photo was created during my years as a pro. I say created, because that is the simple fact. The make up, the dress, the hair, the nails, photography, retouching and everything else took a huge amount of effort, money and time. Do you honestly think this is how I look when I pop down to the local supermarket or even go on a regular date? Who, with a regular job, has the time and funds to spend two hours in front of the mirror before going to work?
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