peppermint
Posts: 5169
Joined: 10/18/2005 From: Montana Status: offline
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You asked for advice...so here I go. 1. Read on the internet, attend munches, talk to other lifestylers for 6 months before even considering a commitment to a Dominant. Do some soulsearching. Discover what YOU want and YOU need. To discover your local munch read my signature. 2. Please realize that while you are being considered, you are also considering the Dominant. You can choose to move on. Make sure you know what being considered means to both yourself and the Dominant. Some Dominants use "under consideration" to keep you from talking to other Dominants while they keep looking around to see if they can find something better. 3. Use the SEARCH feature at the top of this page and use the term "sub frenzy." Read what it is about and make sure you do not fall prey to sub frenzy. 4. Most of the people who write in these forums are people with many years of experience. We also joke around a lot. Don't get all bent out of shape over a little joke. Too bad you didn't get it. 5. If you ask for advice here expect that you may not like some of the advice given. When you write in the forums you never know what you are going to get back. Some of it may hit the truth on the head even when you are not willing or able to understand. Yelling and calling people names will not change the truth. 6. Don't fall in love or expect too much until you and your partner have met face to face real time. 7. Have fun. Don't take yourself too seriously. Don't play a role. Be yourself.
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We are stardust, we are golden, and we got to get ourselves back to the garden. Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets. Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.
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