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Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/23/2006 10:02:19 PM

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Mistresses using a Strap on?

How often do You as Mistresses Use a Strap-on?
What Excites You the most?

If You didn't or don't use one, and Your Submissive/Slave
wanted You to, would You?

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/24/2006 3:40:32 AM

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I use it as often as I want too. My sub enjoys it to have it used on him. I enjoy it because it gives me a certain power thrill over him and knowing that I'm giving back to him what he's been giving to women for all these years lol He likes it because it makes him feel like a dirty slut. So we are both happy

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/24/2006 11:41:36 AM

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I use it as often as I want too. My sub enjoys it to have it used on him. I enjoy it because it gives me a certain power thrill over him and knowing that I'm giving back to him what he's been giving to women for all these years lol He likes it because it makes him feel like a dirty slut. So we are both happy

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/24/2006 11:56:46 AM

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my Mistress using several on me, i am a 42 y/o male transsexual which until W/we met was a virgin. As a woman i IDed as a bigo dyke and men just wasn't a part of me relationship wise. In addition as a woman i wasn't really comfortable with my body nor willing to share it with anyone. Many butch lesbians aren't, they are called Stones (no sexual touching by their partners allowed)
But after transitioning i felt more comfortable with the new body i have and coupled with testosterone my sexual needs changed over time.

i've been lucky enough to find a gorgeous Woman to not only love me as who i am, but satisfy my every need! my only regret is that i waited over 35 years to find Her.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/24/2006 12:21:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: knees2you

Mistresses using a Strap on?

How often do You as Mistresses Use a Strap-on?
What Excites You the most?

If You didn't or don't use one, and Your Submissive/Slave
wanted You to, would You?

quote:

I use it as often as I want.
The fact that he is so submissive to my wishes that he would do anything to please me.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/24/2006 12:39:46 PM

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/24/2006 12:48:08 PM

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All the time.

It make me feel powerful and pay back is so much fun.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/24/2006 9:24:34 PM

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what are the best dildos? I've seen some that are curved, what's the story on that?

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/24/2006 9:32:07 PM

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I dont, it looks like to much work personally, and neither of my two seem to care enough to make it an issue.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/25/2006 1:53:35 AM

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I looooove assplay. Especially with men who are nervous about it. I like giving them unexpected pleasure. The look on their faces is very pleasing to me - and the fact that "Alpha Males" trust me enough to let me do it. I'm not interested in giving anal pain. I find the surprise of pleasure a lot more fun. If it's a new partner who has enjoyed assplay in the past, I forbid him from playing with his ass until I get the opportunity to "break him in" again. I like the build-up of anticipation.

I prefer giving other forms of pain or punishment. If you're looking for info about anal play, someone on the forums suggested this link: http://tperkins.com/anal/index.html I think it's great! If you've read any of my posts, you'll recognize that health and safety - physical, mental, spiritual and emotional - are big issues for me.

I haven't used my strap-on on anyone. Yet. I've used other toys but I prefer my fingers/hands. I like penetrating a slave, with as little between us as possible. However, I would love to experiment with a feeldoe! http://www.feeldoe.com/

Hmmm... I don't think I really answered your question. I got a bit carried away talking about one of my favorite things! I hope you'll find this information helpful.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/25/2006 6:11:38 AM

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I used to get it everyday and loved it. hope to find a mistress soon who enjouys it as much as i do

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/25/2006 11:54:03 AM

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Ma'am which strap on device would be good to buy? i kind of like the dildo pants.. Are they good?

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/25/2006 12:16:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you

Mistresses using a Strap on?

How often do You as Mistresses Use a Strap-on?
What Excites You the most?

If You didn't or don't use one, and Your Submissive/Slave
wanted You to, would You?

quote:

"Yes I Said It!"

Sincerely, Ant

I would love to have someone serving me who could also take strap-on or rougher anal play. When I've had slaves who enjoyed it, I enjoyed it alot though I personally prefered the thigh harness because I think it came me more control and more access to my own body.

I also just loved watching a man fuck himself on a dildo and the thigh harness could be strapped onto a chair or other piece of furniture so I could get a good view.

Fox cannot for medical reasons and it makes us sad but I get angry at the bastards who assualted him and left his body that messed up. Maybe in the future we can afford surgeries or something.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/25/2006 9:10:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

I also just loved watching a man fuck himself on a dildo and the thigh harness could be strapped onto a chair or other piece of furniture so I could get a good view.

What a great idea!!! As a voyeur, I love the idea of watching him perform for me while I sit back and relax.

TammyJo I've loved your Amazon reviews for years. It's nice to "meet" you through the boards.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/25/2006 10:42:42 PM

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My Domina loved to use the Dildo's and She has a big
varied assortment. We had a few favorites, I love a woman with a strap on, especially one who is very good at using them

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I also enjoyed when she demanded me to use it on Her to bring Her to multiple orgasms.
Wasn't the only toys in the bag that brought us pleasure but definately a regular.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 1:07:28 AM

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who wouldnt want a dominant lady fucking them in the arse?

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 7:32:36 AM

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My Domina loved to use the Dildo's and She has a big
varied assortment. We had a few favorites, I love a woman with a strap on, especially one who is very good at using them!

So give me some quick techniques! I've read towards the spine is better. What are some good angles face to face?

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 9:20:32 AM

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i LOVE the power exchange.....

and for some wicked reason, i LOVE the fact of having a man on all fours, at my total mercy.......what type of lube to use, how big of a toy will he receive, etc......

not only that, i do LOVE to make a man do most of the work, i just lay back and watch him lower himself onto the dildo and ride it like the inner bitch he is........

not only that, i have noticed, once you use a slave or sub that way, they tend to be bonded to you even more than ever before......

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 9:55:52 AM

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i LOVE the power exchange.....

and for some wicked reason, i LOVE the fact of having a man on all fours, at my total mercy.......what type of lube to use, how big of a toy will he receive, etc......

not only that, i do LOVE to make a man do most of the work, i just lay back and watch him lower himself onto the dildo and ride it like the inner bitch he is........

not only that, i have noticed, once you use a slave or sub that way, they tend to be bonded to you even more than ever before......

+1 to that!

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 10:18:24 AM

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I don't use a strappie often because My current sub is a big wuss.

Using a strappie is a thrilling activity, when used on the right man.

If My sub craved the strappie, I'd use one a lot more often.

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