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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 10:20:57 AM

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In ref to your last sentence(LadyDeath1969).. I agree wholeheartedly to that

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 10:22:12 AM

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I absolutely love using a strapon. Most submissives that come to me aren't physically ready to take one and have to be "trained". I used to have one submissive that could take it on a regular basis and it was a huge turn-on for me. I loved to do him from the front so I could watch his face while I did it. I haven't found anything else that gives me the same feeling of power, control, and even intimacy. The submissive is TOTALLY yours.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 10:25:28 AM

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yeah well i am one of the few who has been trained in that

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 10:26:04 AM

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Never had a strap-on inside me...only real dick...I look forward to trying it though...

Also, I LOVE the idea of having to use a strap-on to fuck Mistress...GREAT IDEA!

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 10:29:18 AM

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Mistress, when You do that, do You place pillows underneath him to accomodate the angle, or do You have him put his legs on Your shoulders?

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 12:52:44 PM

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It is particularly humiliating, by the way, to have her use her strap-on on you, your legs tied by your hands on the bed posts, so she can watch your face while masturbating you at the same time. Eventually, she would make me cum on myself while having her way with me. She laughed hard over that one.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 12:56:21 PM

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The idea of having a beautiful Dominant woman behind me with a strap on, or being at her mercy is a huge turn on... I'm currently looking for a mistress to top me and would love to have her do that.. The idea of the thigh harness was pretty good..

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 3:20:12 PM

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I also just loved watching a man fuck himself on a dildo and the thigh harness could be strapped onto a chair or other piece of furniture so I could get a good view.

What a great idea!!! As a voyeur, I love the idea of watching him perform for me while I sit back and relax.

TammyJo I've loved your Amazon reviews for years. It's nice to "meet" you through the boards.

Thank you -- maybe one day KinkyBooks.com will have a better website up and folks can see my more explicit reviews of books.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 3:22:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyDeath1969

i LOVE the power exchange.....

and for some wicked reason, i LOVE the fact of having a man on all fours, at my total mercy.......what type of lube to use, how big of a toy will he receive, etc......

not only that, i do LOVE to make a man do most of the work, i just lay back and watch him lower himself onto the dildo and ride it like the inner bitch he is........

not only that, i have noticed, once you use a slave or sub that way, they tend to be bonded to you even more than ever before......

See, I prefer to do it face to face, as I would if he were penetrating me. I like the intimacy of it not "power" because I don't feel less powerful when I'm penetrated so I don't understand why he would (necessarily) feel less powerful when penetrated.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 3:24:50 PM

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I haven't found anything else that gives me the same feeling of power, control, and even intimacy. The submissive is TOTALLY yours.

Welcome to the world of fucking another person.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 3:25:32 PM

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Does anyone know where to buy the dildo panties.... these look likd panties but can have the dildo in front and maybe one inside for the Mistress.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/26/2006 6:23:59 PM

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Strap-on blow jobs are the best.
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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/27/2006 12:25:07 PM

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who wouldnt like a strap on inside him..i sure would ..it makes one feel totally owned i would imagine...

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/27/2006 12:54:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyThornrose

I haven't used my strap-on on anyone. Yet. I've used other toys but I prefer my fingers/hands. I like penetrating a slave, with as little between us as possible. However, I would love to experiment with a feeldoe! http://www.feeldoe.com/

Okay, I'm not a domme, but I love my feeldoe. Harnesses were just too intimidating for me. But I have a feeldoe slim that can hold a small vibrator...and yum. Just yum. Great when I am in one of my boi moods.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/27/2006 10:28:39 PM

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http://www.blowfish.com/ Check out the variety of dildos on this website and very reasonably priced. Silicon is the best. Vixskin is a softer version of silicon for those who prefer something a little softer. Firm is good for anal penetration though. dildos used with a harness should have either a flanged bottom or balls to stay inside the harness.

For interesting videos related to penetrating men with strapons check out "Bend Over Boyfriend" at http://www.goodvibes.com/
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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/28/2006 3:16:10 AM

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MsLushusboobs, thank You for the suggestion on the strapon but these are not the ones i am looking for. The panties one have the ability to add a dildo to the side for Her added pleasure.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/28/2006 4:34:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyDeath1969

i LOVE the power exchange.....

and for some wicked reason, i LOVE the fact of having a man on all fours, at my total mercy.......what type of lube to use, how big of a toy will he receive, etc......

not only that, i do LOVE to make a man do most of the work, i just lay back and watch him lower himself onto the dildo and ride it like the inner bitch he is........

not only that, i have noticed, once you use a slave or sub that way, they tend to be bonded to you even more than ever before......

Oh yeah mine goes at it like a bitch in heat

I love to see him driven by lust like that, that is what gives me the biggest thrill.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/28/2006 5:53:36 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyDeath1969

i LOVE the power exchange.....

and for some wicked reason, i LOVE the fact of having a man on all fours, at my total mercy.......what type of lube to use, how big of a toy will he receive, etc......

not only that, i do LOVE to make a man do most of the work, i just lay back and watch him lower himself onto the dildo and ride it like the inner bitch he is........

not only that, i have noticed, once you use a slave or sub that way, they tend to be bonded to you even more than ever before......

I couldn't agree more, Lady. I was just talking about this with My partner yesterday. We were discussing how I would conduct the first strap-on session we had. How I would take him hard and fast, him on all fours with some bondage the first time, but how it would also be very loving and romantic the next time to simply have him lay down on his stomach, Me enter him and lay down on top of him, and basically just grind into him. There are so many variations, of course. Another favorite of Mine is to have him ride Me. That certainly fulfills the exhibitionist in him and the voyeur in Me.

And I would suggest that all of the Ladies check out the strap-on called the NEXUS and Nexus Jr. There is no possible reason why WE shouldn't be enjoying the sensations as much as the boy.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 3/30/2006 1:19:52 PM

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I loved to do him from the front so I could watch his face while I did it. I haven't found anything else that gives me the same feeling of power, control, and even intimacy. The submissive is TOTALLY yours.

That is what i love, too, but in reverse. As a submissive cd, what i adore is giving up 'male' power and control and submitting to Her will completely. Assuming the traditional 'female' role of being the submissive partner and 'giving' pleasure really excites me. Watching the look of power and control on Her face as She takes me is a huge turn-on, too.

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RE: Mistresses using a Strap on? - 4/30/2006 5:04:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyDeath1969

i LOVE the power exchange.....

and for some wicked reason, i LOVE the fact of having a man on all fours, at my total mercy.......what type of lube to use, how big of a toy will he receive, etc......

not only that, i do LOVE to make a man do most of the work, i just lay back and watch him lower himself onto the dildo and ride it like the inner bitch he is........

not only that, i have noticed, once you use a slave or sub that way, they tend to be bonded to you even more than ever before......

I agree with all of these points. The power rush is unbelieveable. A few years ago, I had the opportunity to use a strap on with a guy. Before that, I'd penetrated him with my fingers and loved it. It was the most intense Domme "head space" I'd ever felt. Then he got a strap on and wanted me to use it on him. By then, the relationship had taken a downturn and I was not interested in using the strap on, precisely because I believed that it would create a bond between us and I did not want to get closer to that person.

Since then, my opportunities have been few and far between. What I discovered is that while strap on is high on my list of things I like to do, I do not want to do it with just anyone. For me, certain activities, like strap on, are so intimate that I am fine with waiting until I click with someone and I have a real interest in doing it. Should I acquire a regular submissive, I would indulge more often.

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