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ORIGINAL: Tamoko

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ORIGINAL: antipode
Think about it this way: You write a resume. You want it reviewed. Would you have it reviewed by other job applicants, or by recruiters/hiring managers? We aren't your best reference for what is an effective profile.

Excellent point Antipode. I hadn't thought of it that way. I could certainly ask for the same feedback in the Ask a sub/slave forum.

ForeverOwned and Focus, I see where you're coming from, and I agree, but allow me to clarify. I refer to my current primary partner as "Vanilla" in a BDSM context. Not a Poly context. She and I always have maintained that a person need to be able to pursue personal fulfillment, and if a single partner cannot provide all that one requires without making significant personal sacrifices, then they have every right to seek that fulfillment wherever they need to. She cannot fulfill my BDSM needs, and I don't expect her to. If she did, she would no longer fulfill my need to have someone I can relate to as an equal.

When theory and conversation become a flesh and blood 24/7 slave living in our house will be a moment that will not be forgotten. Its the point of no return, so to speak. Scary; yes to a degree, but a necessary step. She has made it clear that she's looking forward to it. She enjoys challenging herself and her preconceived assumptions about the world and relationships.