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RE: Suspicious? - 1/21/2010 3:04:37 PM   
QueenRah


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Status: offline 		Ah, nah. Somebody's playin' you. Totalement.

And if you roll blithely into this trap, you won't get any shoulder time from me, sister.

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RE: Suspicious? - 1/21/2010 4:34:49 PM   
Rhodes85


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She had brought into the picture her "husband."  I say that because her profile states she is single with no mention of the guy.  After a while she brought in kids into the picture and states that it would be a poly. 


Massive red flag right there. It shows shes being deceitful and deceptive about her right from the second you read her profile. If she will hide that shes capable of deceiving you about all kinds of things.

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I have spoken to him only on the phone and her online only.  I had asked for the hospital phone number as it isn't permanent, but he refused to give it.  I have talked to the "kids" as they snuck online under the woman's IM address...


Even bigger red flag here. First, you spoke to *him* on the phone but her only online. That doesn't sound a little odd to you? Sounds to me like hes pretending to be the woman to me. The 'kids' sneaking onto 'her' IM is somewhat creepy in itself. It basically being careless on her part to the point that her kids are exposed to the whole dom/sub situation. That is NOT something children should be exposed to. Period. This is of course assuming that she really exists and the kids weren't some kind of fucked up game the guy was playing.

My advice is simple: stay as far away from this person as possible.

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RE: Suspicious? - 1/21/2010 4:41:19 PM   
Cdub2U


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ORIGINAL: Evilcaduceus

I have spoken to him only on the phone and her online only.  I had asked for the hospital phone number as it isn't permanent, but he refused to give it.  I have talked to the "kids" as they snuck online under the woman's IM address...


Why are you posting this crap.....  JUST RUN!

You don't have to have a Phd to be able to smell bull shit!
[block the email and phone]


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RE: Suspicious? - 1/21/2010 5:59:11 PM   
Evilcaduceus


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RE: Suspicious? - 1/24/2010 4:38:18 AM   
azjojoba


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Status: offline 		If she is young she is a pro. Just accept that, and if pros are OK with you go for it. She does seem to have a few things that should be yellow flagged.

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RE: Suspicious? - 1/24/2010 4:55:04 AM   
VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: azjojoba
If she is young she is a pro.


Wha?!?!

Just run that bit by me again...


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RE: Suspicious? - 1/24/2010 5:11:52 AM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		Didn't you know? It's against the law to be young AND amateur...if you ain't charging, you ain't doing it right!

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RE: Suspicious? - 1/24/2010 5:16:41 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		There is no "her".  It's a guy who has created some elaborate story.

He's likely married, and I suspect the bit about the kids coming on his chat window is true.

Now it becomes fairly obvious why he refuses to let you have his pic.  If you recognized him and sent it to his wife...




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RE: Suspicious? - 1/24/2010 5:55:50 AM   
VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: myotherself

Didn't you know? It's against the law to be young AND amateur...if you ain't charging, you ain't doing it right!


Oh dear. Does that mean my cover has been blown?

He has seen right through me: I'm actually ninety-five AND male AND I charge all my cybersubs hundreds and hundreds of pounds....

And I still live in my mum's garage. (Although I'm not quite sure if that gels with me being ninety five.)


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RE: Suspicious? - 1/25/2010 8:19:56 AM   
MistressTonya2u


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Status: offline 		First, I do have a husband with no online photos. It is not that there is a game being played, he is just a very private person and does not want anything of him posted anywhere on the net. That being said, I do think its possible to have a photo of her and not him.

BUT, I do mention him in My profile. I do not like lies or "oops, I forgot to mention..blah..blah..blah.." moments so I try to be as upfront as possible. Forgetting to mention you have kids and a husband? No, I don't buy that. Also, making yourself single in your profile? Why?It just feels like a set up.RED FLAG.

I have had people (male and female) want to lavish money on Me before ever meeting or even having a telephone conversation. RED FLAG. I don't buy that either. (unless we are talking about a pro/fin domme situation which is completely diffrent from what we are talking about)

I agree with others that it sounds like she does not even exist. I think the man created the profile and is just telling you what he thinks you want to hear. Be careful. Let us know what happens and take care of yourself.

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RE: Suspicious? - 1/25/2010 9:06:02 AM   
notinferior


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Status: offline 		No question in my mind.....  the guy is a scammer.  In the first place, nobody with the means to do so agrees to pay for medical expenses for a sub/slave until they have known them for a very long time.  Anyone who even talks about something like that is a little weird.  Second, the whole "shes in the hospital" thing is just a little too convenient.  The last piece to the puzzle is the part about her being inline and him on the telephone.  The kids thing is his way of adding "verification".  This guy is pretty obvious and sadly, your desire to find the right dominant is blinding you.

Now it seems he has "disappeared".  Need any more clues to solve the mystery?  Hey though, don't be discouraged.  Someplace out there exists the right person for you.... and there won't be anything "funny-odd" about your correspondence with them. 

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RE: Suspicious? - 1/25/2010 7:08:58 PM   
Evilcaduceus


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Status: offline 		I had just "spoken" with her over IM today and we are for sure finished.

I spilled my feelings to her, what sounded fishy to me and what I was concerned about.  She actually blew me off and was threatening to cut communication.  I told her that I have proven that I am real when I called, and that I have a right to know that she is real.

The part that shocked me, is that she said as a slave, I have no rights to anything.  I understand  that if that slave is owned and rules are established, then that is a possibility, but I am not a slave, but a sub, and not owned by her.  She even, after not responding to my feeling and blowing me off, GAVE ME ORDERS that i NEED to do, and one of them was to call "master" (her husband) and apologize to him.  Apologize for what, I am unsure. 

Regardless, i will not do the orders nor will I apologize to anyone.  Part of me wants to call and bitch him out and demand answers, but the other is afraid of what will happen.

I will keep you all posted, as always thank you

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RE: Suspicious? - 1/25/2010 9:42:28 PM   
rob425


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Status: offline 		Why are you still bothering to communicate with them? After a call like that i would drop it and find somebody else. These people obvious have no respect for you

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RE: Suspicious? - 1/25/2010 10:34:14 PM   
MistressTonya2u


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Status: offline 		I agree, at this point, I would not call him to confront him or have anything else to do with "her".

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RE: Suspicious? - 1/26/2010 6:32:15 AM   
notinferior


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Evilcaduceus

I had just "spoken" with her over IM today and we are for sure finished.

I spilled my feelings to her, what sounded fishy to me and what I was concerned about.  She actually blew me off and was threatening to cut communication.  I told her that I have proven that I am real when I called, and that I have a right to know that she is real.

The part that shocked me, is that she said as a slave, I have no rights to anything.  I understand  that if that slave is owned and rules are established, then that is a possibility, but I am not a slave, but a sub, and not owned by her.  She even, after not responding to my feeling and blowing me off, GAVE ME ORDERS that i NEED to do, and one of them was to call "master" (her husband) and apologize to him.  Apologize for what, I am unsure. 

Regardless, i will not do the orders nor will I apologize to anyone.  Part of me wants to call and bitch him out and demand answers, but the other is afraid of what will happen.

I will keep you all posted, as always thank you



Nothing like the smell of bullshit in the morning to wake you up.    Time to lose this guys number and move on, always another bus coming.  Calling him to tell him off just gives him beat-off material.  Just block him and find someone else to pursue.  Good luck...... pretty soon you'll have a bullshit meter with a HUGE red-zone.

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RE: Suspicious? - 1/26/2010 8:33:55 AM   
Evilcaduceus


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Status: offline 		Yeah, I blocked them.  I am pretty much finished with actively looking for a while.  It sucks when things like this happen, but I guess everyone deals with it at some point or another.  Thanks again 

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