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Falkenstein -> RE: How would you react? (2/13/2010 3:36:09 PM)
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ORIGINAL: chicagoswitch
This post addresses all the Dominants, please consider the following scenario and give me your thoughts. Thank you. You have a strong, intelligent submissive you have been with for over a year. She has never hesitated or questioned you when asked to do anything, sexual or non-sexual. She trusts you so much, you have never needed a safe word. She adores you and shows it with every fiber of her being. You must play at hotels because you both have ums at home. She always arrives first, pays for the room and makes sure everything is in order before you arrive. Today, you asked her to do something and she hesitated, she questioned you. How do you respond?
Frankly, I am not the überMaster, and in my life, a lot of things takes precedence to being obeyed in play, thus my point of view is probably not pertinent.
Being an officer (albeit a reservist), an order stated and not obeyed is a catastrophy of Haitian proportion for me.
I would first get myself, and for you too, a glass of whatever liquor / wine is available to break the situation and gain time to regroup.
Then I would do ask myself why you did not obey the order and try to find earlier weak signals I may have ignored or misinterpreted. Ie, I would try to find the root cause for your rebellion.
If I cannot find a cause and a solution, I would discuss the issue overtly and candidly with you.
As a man heavily involved in financial matters, I cannot help but notice than you are financing most of these adventures. Money is really scarce for all of us nowadays, thus I wonder what came to his mind to order you additional spending and be unhappy when you refused, quite reasonnably. His attitude is most unreasonable and I may add, un-gentlemanly.
Finally, I disagree with your quote. From the way you express yourself, I infer that you will achieve greatness when the opportunity comes.
With my kind but kinky regards
Henry
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