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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/27/2010 4:56:41 PM

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a very large portion of men

I masturbate a very large portion?

How did you know?

I bet you would like it if you masturbated the entire portion.

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/27/2010 4:59:45 PM

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For Greedy

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Oh, that is way better than Jeff's anteater....

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/27/2010 5:03:24 PM

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OK devils advocate again…

OK guys your full of crap… Guess what girls so are too…Do the research a very large portion of men and women masturbate even when they have partners…It is natural and for men healthy because it is proven to reduce your susceptibility to prostrate cancer. Yes I masturbate!

Now why do you men and women post provocative pictures in your profile? I’ll tell you many are no different than any porn you find anywhere else on the net, even sexier because you know they are real not models being paid. You do it stimulate the type person you are looking for. Actually I wanted to look pretty for myself, so I spent forever trying to get an okay pic using my webcam lol. I wanted to be able to have one photo somewhere where I could think "hey I look okay!", it wasn't for others.Well stimulation often leads to masturbation so if you don’t want that take the damn pussy, tit, skimpy outfits and butt pictures out of your profiles.

How many of you look at the pictures on the site? Do they ever stimulate you? Get you in the mood for sex…either with yourself or with a mate?
Never has a profile pic led me to masturbation or sex with someone. Most look goofy to me.
Say no and I’ll call you a liar…or you like the guys that tell their wives or girlfriends when caught with a Playboy…”Oh I don’t look at the pictures I just read the articles…yea right.
I look at the pics but not to get aroused or horny. Usually it is to see what a forum member looks like. And nope I'm not lying.
Butch
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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/27/2010 5:26:33 PM

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Yes I've already conceded my choice of words were less then...well…thoughtful...forgive me. And again I was generalizing and it should have been aimed more to men then women.

Now it does amaze me how often women deride men who post pictures of their cocks in their profiles. They say laughingly…is that supposed to turn me on ha ha

Yet when I look at CM in general I see more vaginas…butts and tits then cocks…does this not seem a little hypocritical to you?

Why would women post those kinds of pictures if not to stimulate men? I even see many bi or lesbian women posting vagina shots…what’s with that.

That is why I find it hard to believe that many women do not post pictures to stimulate…it just does not pass the eyes on the site test.

Butch

PS… I will apologize to any woman on this site for insinuating them lairs...but not men because as we know all men are scheming liars....lol

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/27/2010 7:56:00 PM

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Hmmmmm. A basic response: Yes.
To elaborate:
To know that another finds my attempt at erotic posing to be stimulating is indeed a 'turn on'. I love to think that another would find me attractive enough to seek and find pleasure through a purely visual stimulation (and, of course, any attendant phantasy that follows). Women, Men, it doesn't matter, as MY preference isn't involved in this situation. As most sex occurs in the brain rather than the body (those who haven't reached this realization, please take a moment to absorb this knowledge), to tickle another's brain just through visuals is a huge ego boost. Anyone claiming otherwise needs to stop posting pics of themselves.....lol....or is lying. We are a visually stimulated species (yes, male and female alike), and to be the object of ANY admiration in a sensual context is an affirmation of our own 'desirability' that is unknown under any other context.

That is my two cents. Those requesting change or refund are gleefully ignored.

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/27/2010 10:05:00 PM

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eyebawl hawt bby o bby

Seriously though, yeah. That's creepy.

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ok I seriously am getting the heebeegeebees at the thought of someone wanking to my eyeball but whatever turns you on dude

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/27/2010 10:45:38 PM

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thank you for the laugh on the flying monkey sexyred1, thats's a good one

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/28/2010 2:15:05 AM

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FR~
strange thing is that eventhough i might put my own sexy pictures up to titillate, i am not turned on by pictures of others so much... especially not pictures of men who try to look sexy and strong... and dicks don't do it at all for me... though some are eyewatering big... rather special to look at in amazement but that's it really.

If i do get turned on by stills it is always about what happens on the picture and usually both sexes need to be on it to make it sexy for me, and no nudity is required.

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/28/2010 10:05:20 AM

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While I am an exhibitionist, it just doesn't appeal to me at all.
But I don't post 'that' kind of photo here. If I were to post a nude or nearly nude it would have to be artsy and beautiful like Pyroaquatics

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/28/2010 2:18:24 PM

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Yet when I look at CM in general I see more vaginas…butts and tits then cocks…does this not seem a little hypocritical to you?

You seem to have forgotten the number of men who also put up chest shots and ass shots. (like your own photo I might add).

I don't recall ever seeing a vagina photo. Even when we all share photos... hmmmm. I have certainly had them taken (and published in magazines as well), but they were clearly porn.

I get what you are saying, I just don't agree. That's cool.

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/28/2010 5:59:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

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Yet when I look at CM in general I see more vaginas…butts and tits then cocks…does this not seem a little hypocritical to you?

You seem to have forgotten the number of men who also put up chest shots and ass shots. (like your own photo I might add).

I don't recall ever seeing a vagina photo. Even when we all share photos... hmmmm. I have certainly had them taken (and published in magazines as well), but they were clearly porn.

I get what you are saying, I just don't agree. That's cool.

It is socially acceptable for men’s chests to be displayed...not bare tits...but even then do a count see which sex is displaying more no no's and skin...and I'm not hypocritical...I like looking at women’s no no’s and it does stimulate me thank you it. It is mostly the women who are hypocritical when they say they are not posting these pictures to deliberately stimulate men or the gender of choice.

Men are no different than women in this manner they display the type picture they think will attract and stimulate their gender of choice.

To deny it for either sex to me is, in general, hypocritical…this despite the occasional exception.

Butch

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/28/2010 6:09:36 PM

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My god I couldn't have said it better myself. I figured if I said it it wouldn't go as well, thank you!

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ORIGINAL: kdsub

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

quote:

Yet when I look at CM in general I see more vaginas…butts and tits then cocks…does this not seem a little hypocritical to you?

You seem to have forgotten the number of men who also put up chest shots and ass shots. (like your own photo I might add).

I don't recall ever seeing a vagina photo. Even when we all share photos... hmmmm. I have certainly had them taken (and published in magazines as well), but they were clearly porn.

I get what you are saying, I just don't agree. That's cool.

It is socially acceptable for men’s chests to be displayed...not bare tits...but even then do a count see which sex is displaying more no no's and skin...and I'm not hypocritical...I like looking at women’s no no’s and it does stimulate me thank you it. It is mostly the women who are hypocritical when they say they are not posting these pictures to deliberately stimulate men or the gender of choice.

Men are no different than women in this manner they display the type picture they think will attract and stimulate their gender of choice.

To deny it for either sex to me is, in general, hypocritical…this despite the occasional exception.

Butch

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/28/2010 7:56:26 PM

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no body better be masturbating to miss cillies pic

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/28/2010 7:59:30 PM

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masturbating to Miss Cillie? that would be SICK.

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/28/2010 8:32:57 PM

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if somebody wants to beat their dick <or other body parts> like it owes them money.... Rock on with yer bad self...

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/28/2010 8:34:46 PM

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I like that, beat your dick like it owes you money...that is such a NY/NJ thing to say, LOL

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/28/2010 8:41:29 PM

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It is mostly the women who are hypocritical when they say they are not posting these pictures to deliberately stimulate men or the gender of choice.

Honey, are you kidding? Women dress up for OTHER WOMEN. Seriously. Men don't give a rat's ass at the end of the day. I often tell people. Men don't care if your legs are shaven, they care if they are open.

Women care about how other women look, how they compare to other women, talk about other women, etc. We enjoy when we get attention, but generally speaking, we all notice each other. Men notice the sexy clothes and then throw them on the ground. If you read the boards, you will see that pretty much all the regulars here flirt with each other - whether we are interested in each other or not (usually not). And usually it's women with women.

*eta: Men and women are very different. The way we see the world, the way we interact, what turns us on, who we fantasize about (and what), long term goals, methods of communication, ability to process information, make up of the brain (not to mention hormones, et al), body abilities, and on and on. Why would you think this would be different? Why would you think we are all alike? Why would you think that men - who are in fact more visual - are the same as women? Really, women do often have a very different agenda than a man does. And do you REALLY think that women need to entice a man? Really? Have you not seen the threads of how frustrated the women are with all the unsolicited / unwanted email we get?

Heck, I love when women have sexy pix. But they don't turn me on. I swear. I also don't put up sexy pix (back when I did) to get men's attention, it was to celebrate who I am or to show off DV's skills, or to say HEY I"M BEAUTIFUL, and fuck you to all the people who said I wasn't.

Some other reasons women have sexy photos:

to show off a tattoo
to show off loss of weight
to increase self esteem
to be more daring
to show off their pretty new outfit
... or shoes
... or lipstick (who is that gal with the picture of her putting on lipstick - one of the hottest pix on this site!)
because they want people to enjoy all of them
they don't want to be rejected in real life, so let's let them see the real deal right off.
because they can

and by the way, if you think a man's chest isn't sexual, I have only one thing to say to you....

*say it with me, my baby girls*...

SHEMAR MOORE

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/28/2010 10:51:57 PM

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Ok, somebody has to be the Devil's Advocate here, I guess it's up to me...I don't think the OP was talking about jerking to the profile pics. He probably likes the "action" shots that people post. If anyone thinks that they can post a pick of themselves tied to spreader bars and their ass in the air ( or any number of other acts ), w/o somebody using it as masturbation material, they are naive. I myself prefer pics of real people over photoshopped, fake-boobed, bored-looking models. Real people with real sensations and experiences are much more interesting than "consumer" porn.

I am a little shocked that the OP received so much scorn here. I was under the impression that this was a place of acceptance, not ridicule or intolerance. Are there more intellectually stimulating kinks than masturbating to BDSM pics? Sure. For most of us. Maybe the OP is getting his Kink on the only way he knows how. I'm sure he has a wider variety of interests other than just jerking off. He deserves a little more credit than that.

I'm a pic collector of sorts, and I trade pics with other people. I have made friends with women who want me to jerk off to their pics, and they've traded pics with me for that purpose. AND, oh, no, the women have gotten off to the pictures too! If women can be stimulated visually, then maybe men aren't the simple pigs they are at times made out to be....

I'm sure picture collecting ( and masturbation, within certain conditions or definitions ), can be defined as a fetish or Kink. Give the guy a break. People post their pics ( for others to see ), and he enjoys getting off on it. He had the courage to share this with the community here, and he got slammed for it. Who are we to judge, ( especially here ), others and what gives them pleasure?

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/28/2010 10:57:52 PM

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no body better be masturbating to miss cillies pic

I'm ruined. I can't get off unless I see Miss Cillie's pic now. Yikes........................

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RE: Does it turn you on to know that someone is masturb... - 1/29/2010 9:20:23 AM

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Hello dv,
You said this:

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I am a little shocked that the OP received so much scorn here. I was under the impression that this was a place of acceptance, not ridicule or intolerance...

First, welcome to the forums.

Second, I didn't read the whole thread (I think I said that in my original post on this thread), but I did read the OP calling people names because we don't all have the same motivation as he has decided we ought to have. Perhaps if HE hadn't done what he did, others would not have responded so vehemently. I know I wouldn't have. You see, he was acting like a judgmental know-it-all when obviously he doesn't (know it all, that is). Also his clear misunderstanding of women notwithstanding, he's flat out wrong.

Third, he admits his error at one point, saying he shouldn't have called us liars and then proceeds to call us hypocrites! Not really much of a distinction in my mind. If you think people are going to sit back and say, "oh poor thing," to a guy who is calling us names, you are wrong. While I won't generally *ridicule* people, I won't tolerate this kind of verbal nonsense either.

*eta:

quote:

he enjoys getting off on it. He had the courage to share this with the community here, and he got slammed for it

THAT is not why he got slammed. At least not by me. *See above.

When people have discussions, it's generally a good idea to use fair fighting techniques (you know - stick to the topic at hand - whatever that has evolved into, no name calling, use "I" statements, etc.). He chooses not to do that. When people *do* choose to do that, there is opportunity for real discussion and debate. We may disagree, we may become passionate about our standpoint, but we can do so with some class and elegance. It is not necessary to fling shit in order to get one's point across. You want to stand there with shit on your face, feel free. I prefer to clean things up when possible... even when it requires a bit of scouring.

Best,
sunshine

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