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SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 1:31:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 quote: Though being 70 and having an 18 year old...I think thats a heart attack waiting to happen A 70 year old with a woman in her 40's is WAY more dangerous than an 18 year old. Amen, sister...Amen!!!!!!!

rockspider -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 1:44:44 PM)
Well i wouldn't mind one of those 18 eyear olds, as long as they have their mouth taped up. We just don't speak the same language[:D]

sirsholly -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 2:01:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BKSir quote: ORIGINAL: EbonyWood quote: ORIGINAL: Ialdabaoth So, as one gets older, the sorts of people that one is attracted to is supposed to get older, as well. Solution: live in Hollywood. Seriously, I dont think anyone should beat themselves up over who or what they are attracted to. Hollywood? Piffle. Check out Tempe sometime, Hollywood doesn't have a thing on the hot young ladies and gents there. :) what the hell is a piffle?

myotherself -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 2:06:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly what the hell is a piffle? Piffle is one of my favourite words! It's a rather old-fashioned English word meaning nonsense or silliness. I use the phrase "tosh and piffle!" quite a lot...[:D]

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 2:11:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OCDsCPL quote: ORIGINAL: Ialdabaoth So, as one gets older, the sorts of people that one is attracted to is supposed to get older, as well. Nonsense. We are "built" to be attracted to those who are most likely to produce healthy offspring, and that is clearly partially related to youth. If this was true then no one would be attracted to anyone my age. No one would stay married either.

afterforever -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 2:39:46 PM)
I've always been most sexually attracted to men in their 30s and 40s, maybe late 20s if they're quite mature. Hugely innappropriate crushes on authority figures when I was wee... No idea what will happen when I'm older than this age group, I don't think I'm cut out for cougaring.

LillyoftheVally -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 2:39:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant Grow up... or accept the fact that the pool of those folks who find older people attractive is going to narrow considerably the older one gets...unless you're rich or only home once in awhile. Cynical? Maybe... Realistic? I think so. Actually I think it is fairly common to find women attracted to older men, I know I am and I don't give a toss how many coins they have in their pocket. I never understand why threads like this always turn into so many people generalising about younger folks, there are always one or two regular offenders. You so rarely find a similar thing happening in these threads about older people. But fuck it, lets stick with stereotypes, it is so much easier to date people my age because the old shriveled up crones are so bitter you will be mentally tortured for the rest of your life. My advice then is all you older men get a nice outfit, sort out your hair and go hang at the local night club in the hope you attract one of us supple youths. (Just so people know I don't actually mean that, it just seems so easy for people to belittle my age group, also not really aimed at CD more of a general frustration)

afterforever -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 2:45:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally quote: ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant Grow up... or accept the fact that the pool of those folks who find older people attractive is going to narrow considerably the older one gets...unless you're rich or only home once in awhile. Cynical? Maybe... Realistic? I think so. Actually I think it is fairly common to find women attracted to older men, I know I am and I don't give a toss how many coins they have in their pocket. I never understand why threads like this always turn into so many people generalising about younger folks, there are always one or two regular offenders. You so rarely find a similar thing happening in these threads about older people. But fuck it, lets stick with stereotypes, it is so much easier to date people my age because the old shriveled up crones are so bitter you will be mentally tortured for the rest of your life. My advice then is all you older men get a nice outfit, sort out your hair and go hang at the local night club in the hope you attract one of us supple youths. (Just so people know I don't actually mean that, it just seems so easy for people to belittle my age group, also not really aimed at CD more of a general frustration) That bothers me a bit too. All the girls I know my age are very cheap dates, so I don't know why older men would need to be making any more money if they want to date us. A few drinks and a bag of curry chips at the end of the night and we're happy...

LillyoftheVally -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 3:18:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: afterforever That bothers me a bit too. All the girls I know my age are very cheap dates, so I don't know why older men would need to be making any more money if they want to date us. A few drinks and a bag of curry chips at the end of the night and we're happy... A can of carlsberg and change curry to gravy and you have my ideal date [:)]

AnimusRex -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 5:51:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rhodes85 Though being 70 and having an 18 year old...I think thats a heart attack waiting to happen [:D] Again, speaking for myself...if she dies, she dies.

CalifChick -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 6:27:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SL4V3M4YB3 Yes but there is this problem in that as we get older we are expected to change what we find to be the peak of physical attractiveness. An 80 year old (nine times out of ten) will still think someone in their mid twenties more physically attractive than someone of their own age. You have a source for these statistics, or are you just making them up as you go? I find the effects of time, of life, of experiences on a man's face to be FAR more physically attractive than a baby-faced 20-something. What I do NOT find attractive in a person is someone who is looking for someone in an age range of "18 to 50"... if they think that someone who is 18 is just as compatible with them as a woman in her 40's, then clearly they are NOT the person for me. Cali

Level -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 6:39:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AnimusRex quote: ORIGINAL: Rhodes85 Though being 70 and having an 18 year old...I think thats a heart attack waiting to happen [:D] Again, speaking for myself...if she dies, she dies. LOL [:)] Sexy is sexy; if she's 18, or if it's Helen Mirren.

petmonkey -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 7:33:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth this slave was only attracted to the 18-24 y/o men when she was 13-15. it has worked that way as this slave has aged...the most attractive men, to this slave have been at least 5-10 years OLDER than whatever her age has been. [Without reading all replies] That's been the majority of my experiences as well. Will this change as i age? Guess i'll find out when i get there. i've found that the young ones i interact with are less attractive the more i converse with them and the older ones more attractive the more i converse with them. i'd question my own motives if i dated someone much younger than me. Not saying that there is always a correlation between age and maturity or that i'm particularly mature myself, mind you; just that i imagine a relationship to be healthiest when the participants are near the same maturity level. Age may have nothing to do with it except on a superficial level but it's there as a possible benchmark nonetheless.

sweetboundesire -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 8:01:28 PM)
naturally I believe men may desire the younger females for the mere biological reason of producing offspring. We are more nature oriented than we tend to think of ourselves. Mother Nature is a Whore.;) Although I have been told by an older Dom that he prefers women older than in their young 20's basically because he doesn't have anything to talk about with a woman so young. He is in his 50's. For me, I take em older every time....younger men although perhaps attractive I am not as attracted to as a man who is older than me. With women I tend to lean toward my age give or take 5 or 6 yrs.

sexyred1 -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 8:31:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: AnimusRex quote: ORIGINAL: Rhodes85 Though being 70 and having an 18 year old...I think thats a heart attack waiting to happen [:D] Again, speaking for myself...if she dies, she dies. LOL [:)] Sexy is sexy; if she's 18, or if it's Helen Mirren. Oh sure, go ahead and pick Helen Mirren who is like one of hottest older babes around, that bar is raised pretty high! LOL

Rhodes85 -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 8:35:52 PM)
Hmm? Would you prefer Janet Reno instead...? That dropped the bar a few feet [8D]

mc1234 -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 9:39:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level Sexy is sexy; if she's 18, or if it's Helen Mirren. Off topic, but OMG, did you see her tonight on the SAG awards? stunning .... I wanna be her ...

jujubeeMB -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/23/2010 11:36:58 PM)
Maturity isn't the only issue with dating young women. 18-20something year olds are going through a lot of "what the hell am I doing with my life" transitions, and most 40 and 50something year olds aren't (hopefully). I'm definitely attracted to older men (they're better in bed), but one of the problems I constantly run up against is just that we're in entirely different stages of our lives. Of course, all of this is moot if you just want someone to hook up with :)

blacksword404 -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/24/2010 12:24:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AnimusRex quote: ORIGINAL: Rhodes85 Though being 70 and having an 18 year old...I think thats a heart attack waiting to happen [:D] Again, speaking for myself...if she dies, she dies. Drago? Is that you? Как Вы были приятелем? Помните, когда "Рокки" пинал вашу задницу? [:D]

blacksword404 -> RE: Age-appropriate attractiveness (1/24/2010 12:31:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: AnimusRex quote: ORIGINAL: Rhodes85 Though being 70 and having an 18 year old...I think thats a heart attack waiting to happen [:D] Again, speaking for myself...if she dies, she dies. LOL [:)] Sexy is sexy; if she's 18, or if it's Helen Mirren. When she played in shadowboxer I wanted to jump her.

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