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When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 12:55:59 PM   
ForeverOwned


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Status: offline 		is there something about him/her that let's people know that you belong to that person or do you go out of your way to just blend right in?
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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 1:01:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		Little things that most people wouldn't notice... well, my "partner", yes, the whole wedding ring thing, but the pet, he calls me pet, and the collar with my name on the tag on his neck.  Again, most people wouldn't notice, but they would be readily evident to people that do wiitwd. :)

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 1:02:15 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ForeverOwned

is there something about him/her that let's people know that you belong to that person or do you go out of your way to just blend right in?


You really need to be more specific. Do you mean at a BDSM/Lifestyle event? At the mall? At a dance club or a bar? The grocery store? The movies?

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 1:17:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think in public with a sub,people may take note that he does everything but I'm not concerned about what others think as long as I know that he knows HIS place things work out. By the way I think this is a great topic and hope it stays on track so that others may learn from it.

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 1:24:42 PM   
ForeverOwned


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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 1:30:57 PM   
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is there something about him/her that let's people know that you belong to that person or do you go out of your way to just blend right in?


Are you using different words so it doesn't look like you're crossposting?

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 1:31:02 PM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		He usually keeps his hand on the small of my back when we are walking, or he has my hand in the crook of his arm. Either way we are always touching and he is always guiding me physically. Yum.

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 1:48:10 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Since I'm not on my hands and knees being led around on a leash, I hope to God we blend in. Making a public display of "I'm better than you because I'm less than you" is a particular kind of stupidity I don't aspire to.

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 1:48:32 PM   
agirl


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Status: offline 		Nope.   No-one would know he OWNED me ......... they might very well notice that we seem to be full of easy fun while he bosses me about.

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 1:58:47 PM   
ForeverOwned


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Status: offline 		great answers camille and agirl!

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 3:10:25 PM   
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Does the "Owned slave-kunt to this Evul Fuk!" T-Shirt count?!!



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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 3:23:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		for me we're just somewhere, it shouldn't be obvious at all

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 4:10:54 PM   
lucylucy


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Status: offline 		I'm sure we look like any other couple, although as agirl said, someone might notice that I seem happy to be bossed around. He often has his hand or arm on me, but I think that's true for lots of vanilla couples, too. I doubt that anyone could tell by looking at us that he's often "steering" me with his arm or hand.

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 5:02:15 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		No one needs to know I belong to him. Why would they? We just blend in as a couple like every other couple around I suppose.

I don't think we have any need to flaunt or show off or shout to all around "hey we're special!".

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 5:32:41 PM   
Exploratorynfun


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Status: offline 		No matter where we are in public, ppl generally know I belong to him. We try to act normal as we can in public while still maintaining my role as a sub. I remain obedient and respectful at times, and I do where a collar but one that looks like a regular choker. If someone is in the bdsm lifestyle they may know but not the general public

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 5:32:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		That's not was this thread is about littlewonder.

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 5:41:57 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Then I'm not understanding your question.

You asked if there is something that shows I belong to him. No. Should there be? Is there a reason the public needs to know I belong to him?

Do you notice others on the street who are owned?? I don't. Maybe that's just me but people all look the same generally to me.

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 5:48:25 PM   
ForeverOwned


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Status: offline 		i honestly don't know how to reword it for you. Maybe someone can pitch in and help. Maybe if you read (if you haven;t already) some of the other repsonses that might help. This was not meant to be a negative thing.

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 6:01:09 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Ok well I did read what you wrote and read the entire thread. Seems most answered the same way I did...they look just like any other couple and don't look owned. <shrug> but whatever. I'll just walk away from this now.

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RE: When you are out with your partner - 1/24/2010 6:05:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm kind of bossy, and my  now x's dad saw that and told joseph he needed to stop letting me boss him around so much lol.

He just said yes dad.
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ORIGINAL: PrincessDonna

I think in public with a sub,people may take note that he does everything

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