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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 5:00:06 AM   
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Would you say that there is a high percentage of people on here who have never had a real time encounter or done anything much in the way of real time, but have great imaginations?



Yes, and the sad thing is often they are more imaginative and openminded than some of those who have had real time experience.


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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 5:01:08 AM   
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Those who do a thing do not need to push themselves forward as "experienced", people can usually tell that they are


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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 5:15:02 AM   
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Would you say that there is a high percentage of people on here who have never had a real time encounter or done anything much in the way of real time, but have great imaginations?

I can't say I've given it much thought but now that you mention it I think there's a mix people on here...those who do have more than their fair share of real time experience, those who like to give the appearence of vast amounts of experience and feel because they've been spanked a few times they are entitled to judge everyone else, those who have no problem admitting they have little experience but great imaginations and the ones who really don't care because they realize they don't need to prove anything to a bunch of online strangers (you'll find the first group usually falling into this last group as they're just living and that's all that matters online).  Sure, you'll find the people who are all about fantasy here...no shocking news...but lately I just don't pay all that much attention to the "one hit wonders" even if they post more than once. 

If so, what are some things that make you think that when when you read a profile or a post?

The people who feel the most need to toot their own horns and seek some kind of validation from online strangers tend to be the ones who turn me off both in post and profile.  I also think there are some who have become jaded and it shows in their posting style. 



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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 5:20:35 AM   
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I don't think there is anything wrong in telling someone you have had experience, provided you really have but then lets face it, how many submissives, especially new, want a dominant that openly admits to having none? Its like the blind leading the blind, or so they think. The fibbers may well of started off as being honest but got nowhere and whilst they can hardly get away with telling an experienced submissive that they know how to 'dance' they can a newbie. If this leads to a relationship then great... good on them I say and as long as you didn't get carried away and let this innocent think that you had once had a long line of slaves and was Master of a harem, or that your ex wife was your slave for 15 years when the reality is, she didn't have a clue about that! then you should console yourself that it was only a small porky.


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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 5:43:06 AM   
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I wonder why this thread got moved? I thought it was a pretty good thread.

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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 7:28:41 AM   
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A less than experienced mod??

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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 7:31:08 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ForeverOwned

Would you say that there is a high percentage of people on here who have never had a real time encounter or done anything much in the way of real time, but have great imaginations?

If so, what are some things that make you think that when when you read a profile or a post?


I DO think there's a very high percentage of people who spend their CM time complaining about other people here.

Spend time with the worthwhile folks. It ain't rocket science.

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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 7:50:31 AM   
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I really dont care much one way or the other, but yes, there are bound to be lots of people with no experience, just as there are bound to be lots of people with some experience and a few with a great deal of experience.

This is a people business, so its more important that theyre good to know and safe to be around, and being inexperienced or experienced is not a great indicator of that except insofar as the genuinely experienced tend not to be jerks - because the jerks either way are often weeded out over time and the longer the time the more weeding out goes on.

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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 8:09:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

A less than experienced mod??


Hey, we all have to start somewhere.


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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 8:27:10 AM   
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Lots of posts are getting moved at the moment but I think this was very relevant where it was... Oh well

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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 10:16:32 AM   
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Alright, alright! I admit it! I made it all up. I have no experience and Master is a figment of my imagination (and ability to photoshop).



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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 10:39:25 AM   
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liar liar pants on fire!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 3:11:51 PM   
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Alright, alright! I admit it! I made it all up. I have no experience and Master is a figment of my imagination (and ability to photoshop).



Some of us have... touched... him.


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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 6:20:34 PM   
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It was a group hallucination. I have ammaaaaazing hypnotic powers......

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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 7:04:56 PM   
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I have ammaaaaazing hypnotic powers......


That part is true...


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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 10:31:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: hejira92

Alright, alright! I admit it! I made it all up. I have no experience and Master is a figment of my imagination (and ability to photoshop).



Some of us have... touched... him.


Cali



AND her!

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RE: Most people on CM - 1/25/2010 10:35:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: hejira92

Alright, alright! I admit it! I made it all up. I have no experience and Master is a figment of my imagination (and ability to photoshop).



Some of us have... touched... him.


Cali



AND her!


And both indeed !

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RE: Most people on CM - 1/26/2010 5:47:39 AM   
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Oops. I do believe an apology is owed for thread hijack.

I didn't mean it, really. It was just a funny retort to the topic from a little girl home sick and bored.

Yes, He is real. And I'm soooooo lucky for that.

and, now, back to your regularly scheduled "fake" thread......


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